FabSwingers.com forum: Are they a swinger?

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Not a post about whether singles can be swingers... I think they can. But what would make one single a swinger and another not?

Is it really just that they want to be called a swinger, so that's it, they are a swinger?

If a guy (sorry guys it's just an example) came on here and said...

- I only want to meet single women, but I might meet a couple if it was just to have sex with the wife.

- If I were married I'd never share my partner with anyone else.

Are they a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a post about whether singles can be swingers... I think they can. But what would make one single a swinger and another not?

Is it really just that they want to be called a swinger, so that's it, they are a swinger?

If a guy (sorry guys it's just an example) came on here and said...

- I only want to meet single women, but I might meet a couple if it was just to have sex with the wife.

- If I were married I'd never share my partner with anyone else.

Are they a swinger?"

What's a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a post about whether singles can be swingers... I think they can. But what would make one single a swinger and another not?

Is it really just that they want to be called a swinger, so that's it, they are a swinger?

If a guy (sorry guys it's just an example) came on here and said...

- I only want to meet single women, but I might meet a couple if it was just to have sex with the wife.

- If I were married I'd never share my partner with anyone else.

Are they a swinger?

What's a swinger? "

I could show you.

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Not a post about whether singles can be swingers... I think they can. But what would make one single a swinger and another not?

Is it really just that they want to be called a swinger, so that's it, they are a swinger?

If a guy (sorry guys it's just an example) came on here and said...

- I only want to meet single women, but I might meet a couple if it was just to have sex with the wife.

- If I were married I'd never share my partner with anyone else.

Are they a swinger?

What's a swinger? "

That is pretty much what the question is asking... you need to have your idea of what a swinger is to be able to answer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a post about whether singles can be swingers... I think they can. But what would make one single a swinger and another not?

Is it really just that they want to be called a swinger, so that's it, they are a swinger?

If a guy (sorry guys it's just an example) came on here and said...

- I only want to meet single women, but I might meet a couple if it was just to have sex with the wife.

- If I were married I'd never share my partner with anyone else.

Are they a swinger?

What's a swinger?

That is pretty much what the question is asking... you need to have your idea of what a swinger is to be able to answer it."

I'm not good at quiz's so I'd take a haphazard guess. A swinger is as swinger does. Or is that cheating?

No double entendres intended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I guess it comes down to mind set, why they are here.

If a single is here because they think it will be the easiest way to get laid then they are a chancer, IMO.

If they are here because they enjoy the group thing, and understand when in a group session they are not the only one involved then they are much closer to being a 'swinger'.

Similar to couples..

If a couple is here entirely because one of that couple wants to be, and the other tags along, then I have to question their status.

If a couple is here to have shared enjoyment with others then they are closer to being swingers'.

This is only my opinion on the subject, and I replied straight from the hip, no thinking seriously about it over time before carefully answering, so I may be subject to slight change of mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I guess it comes down to mind set, why they are here.

If a single is here because they think it will be the easiest way to get laid then they are a chancer, IMO.

If they are here because they enjoy the group thing, and understand when in a group session they are not the only one involved then they are much closer to being a 'swinger'.

Similar to couples..

If a couple is here entirely because one of that couple wants to be, and the other tags along, then I have to question their status.

If a couple is here to have shared enjoyment with others then they are closer to being swingers'.

This is only my opinion on the subject, and I replied straight from the hip, no thinking seriously about it over time before carefully answering, so I may be subject to slight change of mind.

Aye;

and that what he said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont class myself as a swinger, im a single woman who meets single men, how is that swinging in any sence at all? ok i may on the odd occasions have 2 or 3 men at a time lol but i still dont see myself as a swingers

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

probably just get yelled at again for daring to have an opinion,but here it is.

We are Swingers due to the simple reason that we do not only play with Single males, single females or couples.

we go with the flow and how the night pans out, embracing what tweeks our desires that night.

Basicaly we go with the swing of things.

Though that probably may make us Libertines instead, which is a term we preffer :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont class myself as a swinger, im a single woman who meets single men, how is that swinging in any sence at all? ok i may on the odd occasions have 2 or 3 men at a time lol but i still dont see myself as a swingers"

You're just a dinkle tease, washing your hair, biting your nails, I see your game young lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"probably just get yelled at again for daring to have an opinion,but here it is.

We are Swingers due to the simple reason that we do not only play with Single males, single females or couples.

we go with the flow and how the night pans out, embracing what tweeks our desires that night.

Basicaly we go with the swing of things.

Though that probably may make us Libertines instead, which is a term we preffer :P "

I like that! Going with the swing of things! So far I'm with your theory.

But in general, I wonder why anyone has to be labelled as anything

Does anyone really give a toss? (guys - feel free to take the fifth on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually put my foot in it answering on here but here goes,

I had a few mmf's with my ex partner,am now single and on here looking to meet ladies and couples,and parties,do i qualify as a swinger??

By my interpretation I am,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just a dinkle tease, washing your hair, biting your nails, I see your game young lady.

fuck me!! im not meeting you if your expecting me to wash my hair lol crist dont want much do you?

suppose your expecting lippy too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took the "agreed" definition on swinging webistes for a "swinger" to be an individual OF a happily married couple looking for similar. I've been having 3-somes, more-somes & gang bangs for the last 25 years to be honest now, & completely monogamous relationships with one individual also when the person came along. I would dearly love to meet the special one, but until they come along, I'll take tenderness & human closeness where I can get it until... lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I took the "agreed" definition on swinging webistes for a "swinger" to be an individual OF a happily married couple looking for similar. I've been having 3-somes, more-somes & gang bangs for the last 25 years to be honest now, & completely monogamous relationships with one individual also when the person came along. I would dearly love to meet the special one, but until they come along, I'll take tenderness & human closeness where I can get it until... lol. "

you've been having 3sums, more sums and gang bangs since you was 14!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're just a dinkle tease, washing your hair, biting your nails, I see your game young lady.

fuck me!! im not meeting you if your expecting me to wash my hair lol crist dont want much do you?

suppose your expecting lippy too!

That depends, is that an offer?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st sexual experiences were before 14 & the first not a pleasant experience at all. but I did what I did for a bit of affection. Suppose I am still doing it. Or why else would I be doing this on a site like fab lol.

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