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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't cum when I've been sucked or wanked off only by penestration is that bad

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Its more common than you think. I don't cum from oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all guys can cum from oral...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think its bad perhaps you just prefer to cum in pussy.

When i was in my teens and early 20"s i felt as if i cum to quickly ilearned to control myself stopping myself cumming at the last moment so i could prolong the love making experience. Prob is now im older its affected me whete i also cannot cum having oral but worse is it tames me ages to cum even once.... Sometimes after hours of fucking i have to admit defeat.... This worried bev when we were first together but now she underdtands. Basically dont worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I thought that something was wrong with me lol I would be there still I get bored and not nothing happening. .

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Its more common than you think. I don't cum from oral."

I've only ever cum once from oral and even then she used her hands a lot. Doesn't stop me loving it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum just thinking about oral lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can cum just thinking about oral lol"

I'm cumming right now, and loving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its more common than you think. I don't cum from oral."

I love to cum from oral. Have you guys who don't any idea why it evades you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only certain people have made me cum through oral

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Its more common than you think. I don't cum from oral.

I love to cum from oral. Have you guys who don't any idea why it evades you? "

It isn't nearly a pleasurable enough experience for me. I suppose the nerve endings of my cock need a more sustained period of stimulation, something a blowjob never provides for me.

Knowing that means that then i always have a mental block when it comes to getting head. I worry the person giving me a bj will be expecting a payoff which will never happen. Which is why i'm upfront about it to people. Helps everyone temper their expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks, guys. I was sometimes wondering if I lost my 'grip'. This will make me much more relaxed about it.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Its more common than you think. I don't cum from oral.

I love to cum from oral. Have you guys who don't any idea why it evades you? "

Absolutely no idea. No early trauma springs to mind.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Thanks, guys. I was sometimes wondering if I lost my 'grip'. This will make me much more relaxed about it."

I have no doubt you know this, but we are all wired differently. I know some ladies like the "challenge" of making a guy who usually doesn't cum from oral do so.... if possible.

I've only ever felt really bad about it once in a situation where a lady i was with was clearly distraught (she'd never been in that situation before). Normally i just accept that there isn't much anyone can do about it. There are many other ways to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't cum when I've been sucked or wanked off only by penestration is that bad "

Depends on how much you've already cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike cum in my mouth so would prefer the guy receiving not to do so.

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