FabSwingers.com forum: a certain someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is this an honest attempt of hiding someones identity or is it just another way to exclude those not in the know..

Either way winds me the fuck up and if your gonna say that stupid pissing saying just say their bloody name as its often easy to read between the lines.. rant over! Happy Thursday

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Sounds to me like a certain someone is a bit annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it get to you!!

Why not just ignore it instead of letting it get to you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is this an honest attempt of hiding someones identity or is it just another way to exclude those not in the know..

Either way winds me the fuck up and if your gonna say that stupid pissing saying just say their bloody name as its often easy to read between the lines.. rant over! Happy Thursday

It can be either but I really hate it when it's designed to exclude and I also dislike "you know who you are"...if they know who they are why are you bothering to say anything?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why does it get to you!!

Why not just ignore it instead of letting it get to you? "

Things do get to people, different things annoy different people and it can be difficult to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why does it get to you!!

Why not just ignore it instead of letting it get to you? "

Because if i knew the content of a post or a message without reading it then i would ignore it.. if u can figure a way of doing that let me know

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Are you referring specifically to the forums? or just the general saying when people are trying to be knowingly coy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But not everyone wants to air everything in public.

It could be that fellow forumites are in the early stages of "getting to know one another", and are playing their cards close.

If it annoys you ignore and move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't read it...

People use forums in all sorts of ways...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It can be both a way of genuinely hiding someone's identity and a way of excluding others not in the know.

It doesn't particularly annoy me.

Liberal use of literally annoys me more.

Take a breath and stop reading threads that wind you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people obviously like discretion

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

As in written in a post: not noticed that a lot, will need to watch for that.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why does it get to you!!

Why not just ignore it instead of letting it get to you?

Because if i knew the content of a post or a message without reading it then i would ignore it.. if u can figure a way of doing that let me know

If, however, you know people with a propensity to use such phrases it is possible to avoid reading threads started by them or posts on threads to which they contribute. That works well for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have a right to discretion people have aright to privacy the fact some feels they should be in the know isn't valid and belongs in the playground not on an adult forum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok where did i mention this was forum specific..

And like i said before if i could by magic know what people are going to say/type before reading/listening dont u think i would??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Earlier today I posted on my status, "a you know who you are" as a discretion thing till stuff is sorted out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people obviously like discretion"

On an open forum ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Crikey, cute doesn't even know where Cloud Cuckoo Land is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually think its quite a nice way of being discreet. It keeps names out and to the certain someone it makes them know the author is thinking of them. Not everyone reading the piece of writing will know what the author is talking about.... Being non forum specific of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people obviously like discretion

On an open forum ?

Yes, I know I've been less than discrete in the past but I do think some people could learn a touch of discretion. And yes pot, kettle, black and all that.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Hmmm after someone on the forum who you have a problem with said this very thing not long ago maybe this shouldn't have been started at all.

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