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why cant i get a meet??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wondering why i cant get my first meet im not rude when i message people. i dont instantly send a dick pic and been told im not to bad looking. maybe an age thing????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Are you looking for profile advice?

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

lots of mature people on here looking for older people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you looking for profile advice?"
maybe not sure how good or bad mine is?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Are you looking for profile advice? maybe not sure how good or bad mine is? "

Well, and this is only my opinion mind, your pics are scary!! You could try smiling. I bet you have a nice smile.

And your status is offputting to me, but that's also personal.

A quick spellcheck, remove the :-/ bit after one of the lines, and the profile itself is OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you looking for profile advice? maybe not sure how good or bad mine is?

Well, and this is only my opinion mind, your pics are scary!! You could try smiling. I bet you have a nice smile.

And your status is offputting to me, but that's also personal.

A quick spellcheck, remove the :-/ bit after one of the lines, and the profile

itself is OK."

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had no luck either mate it's hard on here

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

As our friend Soxy would say, just put a frock on and the meets will come rolling in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a smile is always attractive, you do look a bit scary, thinks Cameron in emmerdale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

between told and always and between meet and just i would put a new line

seperate the text a little makes it so much easier to read then all in one section,

maybe wrong and others may disagree but i prefer to read in paragraphs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks everyone will get some new pics on tomoz.... with a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't I win the lottery ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you attended any clubs or socials so you could meet people face to face, that would be a good start.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You can only help those that help themselves, so I will look again tomorrow and if no changes have been made, then I will give up and treat this thread like a 'look at me' one and you'll get no where without improvements x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Smile.

Age might be but your not really really young I've seen people your age getting meets.

Get to socials! There's one in Kent in a few weeks!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you attended any clubs or socials so you could meet people face to face, that would be a good start."
no i havent yet been to a club or social. maybe that could be a good step.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Have you attended any clubs or socials so you could meet people face to face, that would be a good start. no i havent yet been to a club or social. maybe that could be a good step. "

The Kent social is about half an hour from you! Would be a good place to start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Smile.

Age might be but your not really really young I've seen people your age getting meets.

Get to socials! There's one in Kent in a few weeks!! "
where abouts in kent?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I like the fact that you do not have cock pics....but you look a little stressed and serious and worried and unhappy.....where is your smile???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you attended any clubs or socials so you could meet people face to face, that would be a good start. no i havent yet been to a club or social. maybe that could be a good step. "

I think you'll find in here is just like real life you get out what you put in

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Smile.

Age might be but your not really really young I've seen people your age getting meets.

Get to socials! There's one in Kent in a few weeks!! where abouts in kent? "

Eurekas club. Do a search for Kent social in the forums and you'll find the info xx

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"wondering why i cant get my first meet im not rude when i message people. i dont instantly send a dick pic and been told im not to bad looking. maybe an age thing????"

Dont worry i cant get a meet either...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you attended any clubs or socials so you could meet people face to face, that would be a good start. no i havent yet been to a club or social. maybe that could be a good step.

The Kent social is about half an hour from you! Would be a good place to start. "
i am from kent but staying in oxted as im working on m25 so either way its close thank you

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Have you attended any clubs or socials so you could meet people face to face, that would be a good start. no i havent yet been to a club or social. maybe that could be a good step.

The Kent social is about half an hour from you! Would be a good place to start. i am from kent but staying in oxted as im working on m25 so either way its close thank you "

find the thread, get your name down, it'll be cheaper than a night on the piss and you'll get to meet lots of new people, maybe won't get to play but should get some veris after chatting to people which might help you get started

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you attended any clubs or socials so you could meet people face to face, that would be a good start. no i havent yet been to a club or social. maybe that could be a good step.

The Kent social is about half an hour from you! Would be a good place to start. i am from kent but staying in oxted as im working on m25 so either way its close thank you

find the thread, get your name down, it'll be cheaper than a night on the piss and you'll get to meet lots of new people, maybe won't get to play but should get some veris after chatting to people which might help you get started "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "
sorry about that.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

That's a very outdated view of swinging tbh. What about all the couples that want threesomes? And orgies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

Oh really?

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

Amazing how in your profile you are looking for single bi males !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't suppose it could be anything to do with that blue suit ? People could be scared shitless that you may turn up wearing it

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

so when your profile says you are meeting men and women as it suggests in your profile... what is that???

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

Yet your looking for bi singles ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

Yet your looking for bi singles ? "

Glad I'm not the only one that noticed that!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

Yet your looking for bi singles ?

Glad I'm not the only one that noticed that!!!"

i wanted to ask them who is on the wrong site... them or the people they are looking for??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

Damn - that's why I've had no luck!

Funny - as there seems to be plenty of 'couples' looking to meet singles on here - of both sexes - but especially single females!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

That's a very outdated view of swinging tbh. What about all the couples that want threesomes? And orgies? "

Outdated...AND antediluvian!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

Ignore the "high horse" brigade, these are the clicky idiots who think this site is only for their benefit! Keep the faith, treat the rude people who do not even bother to say thanks but no thanks with the contempt they deserve and your perseverance will be rewarded eventually. "

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

Damn - that's why I've had no luck!

Funny - as there seems to be plenty of 'couples' looking to meet singles on here - of both sexes - but especially single females! "

Yeah us girls get all the luck on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

And in your world do all meets involve keys in a bowl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wondering why i cant get my first meet im not rude when i message people. i dont instantly send a dick pic and been told im not to bad looking. maybe an age thing????"

Keep trying mate, it can be hard work but you will get there in the end

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

That's me up the Swanny then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

??? So it's exclusively just for couples?? Or are you being sarcastic

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

??? So it's exclusively just for couples?? Or are you being sarcastic "

Thats the problem lovely...they are dead serious swingers!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

Hello! The usual pot fucking kettle and black springs to mind! A couple looking for single males and females along with other couples? I think you might have just confused yourselves with that one!

God don't you just hate people who try and dictate HOW the site should be used!

If everyone just did their own thing and ignored what didn't suit them, it would be a happier place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

??? So it's exclusively just for couples?? Or are you being sarcastic

Thats the problem lovely...they are dead serious swingers! "

Ah right did you say dead serious, or deluded

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

That's a very outdated view of swinging tbh. What about all the couples that want threesomes? And orgies?

Outdated...AND antediluvian! "

Wtf,, its 10:30 And I need to ask jeeves what antediluvian means, that and predictive text trying to input antidepressants,, I need a drink, hic,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks everyone for the advice

much appreciated x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

??? So it's exclusively just for couples?? Or are you being sarcastic

Thats the problem lovely...they are dead serious swingers!

Ah right did you say dead serious, or deluded "

Dead deluded if you ask me!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

That's a very outdated view of swinging tbh. What about all the couples that want threesomes? And orgies?

Outdated...AND antediluvian!

Wtf,, its 10:30 And I need to ask jeeves what antediluvian means, that and predictive text trying to input antidepressants,, I need a drink, hic,, "

I hold all night open sessions at the local church...fancy a shag? errr a chat!!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

ooops I must have gotten lost somewhere then if its only couples on fab - now wheres the door

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

ooops I must have gotten lost somewhere then if its only couples on fab - now wheres the door "

Come back here you saucy sexy minx....you belong with me Lol xxx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple..

ooops I must have gotten lost somewhere then if its only couples on fab - now wheres the door

Come back here you saucy sexy minx....you belong with me Lol xxx "

Purrr, on my way kitty-cat xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is a clue .its a swinging site. That means couples meeting for sex. And you aren't a couple.. "

its for everyone, couples or singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting reading how the thread has changed over time due to one/two people, also they would not have the option of meeting single men and women on the site if it was just for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wondering why i cant get my first meet im not rude when i message people. i dont instantly send a dick pic and been told im not to bad looking. maybe an age thing????"

The simple answer is competition!

I am not bad at the old football thing but can't get to play for England because there are lots of others better than me who get the chance. Luckily for me im far better at the shag thing than kicking a ball. Perseverance and you will get there eventually.

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