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"Well it's quite obvious to me soxy!!!" haha....pfft I just don't know how to respond to that,,, lol | |||
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"I agree to a point with you Soxy. I find people accept judgement very readily , even from the most comatose and moronic, if it is a judgement in their favour. In fact they fair lap it up." So eloquently put, as always Gwanny,,,, | |||
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"It's an integral part of society. it's how we find our place in that society. People who claim to not be judgemental or not humans (probably lizard people) or are sociopaths. However I don't particular care for people who make judgements and then want me to agree with them. They are cunts. "If you agree that i'm a inhuman lizard cunt with sociopathic tendencies, does that make you one too? One Two ...? One Two ? Testing Testing...... | |||
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"Well it's quite obvious to me soxy!!! haha....pfft I just don't know how to respond to that,,, lol "fudging the issue now that you have been found out. Just typical | |||
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"It's an integral part of society. it's how we find our place in that society. People who claim to not be judgemental or not humans (probably lizard people) or are sociopaths. However I don't particular care for people who make judgements and then want me to agree with them. They are cunts. "Therefore I’m forced to agree with you Funky…… Well played Maestro, | |||
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"It's an integral part of society. it's how we find our place in that society. People who claim to not be judgemental or not humans (probably lizard people) or are sociopaths. However I don't particular care for people who make judgements and then want me to agree with them. They are cunts.
Therefore I’m forced to agree with you Funky……
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"Well it's quite obvious to me soxy!!! haha....pfft I just don't know how to respond to that,,, lol fudging the issue now that you have been found out. Just typical"Yeah but, no but....You don't know me.... you can't judge me....sheeeeesh..... | |||
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" But whenever I see any reference made where someone resents being exposed to judgement, it suggest to me that person is simply acknowledging they are already aware their behaviour contained the sort of anomaly that potentially is worthy of judgement… " Bollocks. It just means what I do in day to day life has got fuck all to do with anyone else. I agree with the latter part of funkys statement too. $0.02 | |||
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" But whenever I see any reference made where someone resents being exposed to judgement, it suggest to me that person is simply acknowledging they are already aware their behaviour contained the sort of anomaly that potentially is worthy of judgement… Bollocks. It just means what I do in day to day life has got fuck all to do with anyone else. I agree with the latter part of funkys statement too. $0.02" Ag but surely to say what you do in your day to day life is no-one business but your own, carries equal validity for someone whose maybe judging you as they go about their day to day life… Or meringue ? | |||
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"I don't particular care for people who make judgements and then want me to agree with them. " Can't argue with that one | |||
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"Well it's quite obvious to me soxy!!! haha....pfft I just don't know how to respond to that,,, lol fudging the issue now that you have been found out. Just typical
Yeah but, no but....You don't know me.... you can't judge me....sheeeeesh..... "seeking validation, I am soxy, everyone agree with meeeeeeee!!! Well guess what? You have been found out again. It's typical of you and your sort, always has been and always will be. | |||
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"Why do you keep bringing meringue into your threads. I don't mind judgmental until it is presented as fact rather than opinion. Then I see red. " I think Sox has a subconscious desire for a poufy wedding dress... | |||
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"Why do you keep bringing meringue into your threads. I don't mind judgmental until it is presented as fact rather than opinion. Then I see red. " Erm .... OK.... I'm clutching at straws here.... but what happens in a situation where regardless of the truth the fact remains a judgement cast holds valid in the mind of a person whose concluded their judgement based on their opinion…. Phew.... I think I know what I meant there,,,,although I'm not sure if it really means anything ....  | |||
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" But whenever I see any reference made where someone resents being exposed to judgement, it suggest to me that person is simply acknowledging they are already aware their behaviour contained the sort of anomaly that potentially is worthy of judgement… Bollocks. It just means what I do in day to day life has got fuck all to do with anyone else. I agree with the latter part of funkys statement too. $0.02 Ag but surely to say what you do in your day to day life is no-one business but your own, carries equal validity for someone whose maybe judging you as they go about their day to day life… Or meringue ? "I'll take the meringue ..meringue tastes nice..meringue is good stuff! Therefore I'll take it. | |||
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"Why do you keep bringing meringue into your threads. I don't mind judgmental until it is presented as fact rather than opinion. Then I see red. I think Sox has a subconscious desire for a poufy wedding dress... "I do.... I do..... | |||
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" Or meringue ?
I'll take the meringue ..meringue tastes nice..meringue is good stuff! Therefore I'll take it. "Meringue is pretty awesome stuff.... | |||
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"It can be a fine line between judgment and prejudice, something that needs a bit of judgment ... lol" Yeah,,,, perhaps thats where the tipping point of tolerance lays ... | |||
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"Why do you keep bringing meringue into your threads. I don't mind judgmental until it is presented as fact rather than opinion. Then I see red. Erm .... OK.... I'm clutching at straws here.... but what happens in a situation where regardless of the truth the fact remains a judgement cast holds valid in the mind of a person whose concluded their judgement based on their opinion…. Phew.... I think I know what I meant there,,,,although I'm not sure if it really means anything .... "If someone is fixed in their judgment of me, where time and argument has not altered that, then there is little I can do about it. It's Pride and Prejudice. Something has to change to shift _iews. If I don't change and they don't change then their belief will always be held as fact by them. If they can acknowledge it's their opinion or can substantiate that opinion with something verifiable then that is a change. It may not change the outcome but I have less cause to see red. We all make instant judgments. It's a very quick thing and part of our survival mechanism as there often isn't much time to decide between flight or fright. What matters to me is if you convey that judgment and how it is conveyed combined with whether you remain stuck with the first instinctive response or allow knowledge and facts to shape your judgment over time. | |||
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"Why do you keep bringing meringue into your threads. I don't mind judgmental until it is presented as fact rather than opinion. Then I see red. Erm .... OK.... I'm clutching at straws here.... but what happens in a situation where regardless of the truth the fact remains a judgement cast holds valid in the mind of a person whose concluded their judgement based on their opinion…. Phew.... I think I know what I meant there,,,,although I'm not sure if it really means anything ....
If someone is fixed in their judgment of me, where time and argument has not altered that, then there is little I can do about it. It's Pride and Prejudice. Something has to change to shift _iews.
If I don't change and they don't change then their belief will always be held as fact by them. If they can acknowledge it's their opinion or can substantiate that opinion with something verifiable then that is a change. It may not change the outcome but I have less cause to see red.
We all make instant judgments. It's a very quick thing and part of our survival mechanism as there often isn't much time to decide between flight or fright. What matters to me is if you convey that judgment and how it is conveyed combined with whether you remain stuck with the first instinctive response or allow knowledge and facts to shape your judgment over time.
"I hear ya ,,,,,,and maybe that also explains why some of the more controversial forums become the most compelling to read and take part in... | |||
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"Is Judge Mental the even more psychopathic colleague of Judge Dredd? "I don't know !,,,,,, but I reckon Judge Judy would kick both their backsides into next week without even flaring a nostril | |||
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"Is it such a bad thing? I have no problem admitting to being judgmental…… I don’t see it as being a necessarily negative trait…. Maybe its just me …… " I agree with you to a point to be honest. I have been judgemental on occasion. Usually in situations where it is absolutely necessary. Some behaviour is worthy of it. | |||
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"Is Judge Mental the even more psychopathic colleague of Judge Dredd?
I don't know !,,,,,, but I reckon Judge Judy would kick both their backsides into next week without even flaring a nostril "Yikes! I'd forgotten about her!  | |||
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"Is it such a bad thing? I have no problem admitting to being judgmental…… I don’t see it as being a necessarily negative trait…. Maybe its just me …… I agree with you to a point to be honest. I have been judgemental on occasion. Usually in situations where it is absolutely necessary. Some behaviour is worthy of it." Yeah I have no resistance to being proven wrong, so I’m comfortable with having people show me alternative or better ways of thinking .... I don’t think being judged is such a bad thing….. For me Gwanny pretty much nailed it,,,, | |||
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"Well it's quite obvious to me soxy!!! haha....pfft I just don't know how to respond to that,,, lol fudging the issue now that you have been found out. Just typical
Yeah but, no but....You don't know me.... you can't judge me....sheeeeesh..... seeking validation, I am soxy, everyone agree with meeeeeeee!!!
Well guess what?
You have been found out again.
It's typical of you and your sort, always has been and always will be. "sniff-sniff sob-sob,,,,I'll try to change....honestly I will.... I'll really try my hardest.....pfffffffft pah..... yeah like pah will I..... | |||
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"Judgement is fine, its an opinion. Its only a real problem when it mutates into discrimination." Yeah but surely there must be situations where it could be deemed almost righteous to discriminate based on judgement…. Or Meringue ? | |||
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"If I wasn't a heartless judgemental biatch then all my rants would be null and void and I'd disappear in a puff of logic. And people are just cunts anyway. Have you ever met people? They're quite quite horrible you know. " Haha Jodie it sounds like Thursdays can't come around fast enough for you... You certainly have a mastery that takes ranting to the next level….!. | |||
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"If I wasn't a heartless judgemental biatch then all my rants would be null and void and I'd disappear in a puff of logic. And people are just cunts anyway. Have you ever met people? They're quite quite horrible you know. " I know what you mean. When I worked in a shop I thought it would be better without the customers. When I worked in housing all those bloody tenants kept messing things up. HIV they kept getting sick and some even had the audacity to die before the retroviral drugs became available. I could go on but people, bah! have nothing to with 'em. | |||
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"I agree to a point with you Soxy. I find people accept judgement very readily , even from the most comatose and moronic, if it is a judgement in their favour. In fact they fair lap it up." | |||
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"Why do you keep bringing meringue into your threads. I don't mind judgmental until it is presented as fact rather than opinion. Then I see red. " Excellent way of putting it! I've had that in my head for ages but couldn't express what I meant. Thank you!! | |||
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"I would say , I judge very few I assess everyone "Oo'er now I really like that answer,,, | |||
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"I'm very judgemental can't help it but I am, but that said I know I have to then be prepaired to be judged, the best part of being judgemental is the knowledge that my life has been improved when someone proves my initial judgement wrong, I feel it makes me a better person. Don't you just love soxys threads, I always feel like I've learned something, even if its a new word lol" Hey, I just love taking any opportunity to learn from threads posted on these forums..... The wealth of eclectic knowledge available via the diversity of contributors is worth the entry fee alone..... It’s only by engaging in healthy and enthusiastic thought exchange we can ever hope to expand our minds and everyone who posts here adds something worthwhile to that process.. I salute you all.... | |||
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"Constructive criticism grande..nasty denegration of a person because of said beliefs not so clever. .. in my humble opinion " Yip I'd go with that..... | |||
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happy to pass judgement
happy for judgements to be made about me by people on the tinternet that I am very unlikely to ever meet
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"And meringues are cunts too. Always breaking and covering clothes with white dust." | |||
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"And meringues are cunts too. Always breaking and covering clothes with white dust." floor painted yet and a 1.25% uplift in your kpi's today ??? | |||
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"And meringues are cunts too. Always breaking and covering clothes with white dust." whaaaat????? But but but eton mess is like sex in a cup.  | |||
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"yup that's me
happy to pass judgement
happy for judgements to be made about me by people on the tinternet that I am very unlikely to ever meet
it's all good "View I can honestly say over the time I’ve enjoyed your company here,,,, your one person who doesn't leave any room for misinterpretation about their take on life or the way they present their opinions… You sir are an absolute star and its great to see you regularly posting again.... | |||
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"I'm not judgemental - i just have or display an overly critical point of _iew on occasion! "haha,,,, I like it a lot....... | |||
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"yup that's me
happy to pass judgement
happy for judgements to be made about me by people on the tinternet that I am very unlikely to ever meet
it's all good
View I can honestly say over the time I’ve enjoyed your company here,,,, your one person who doesn't leave any room for misinterpretation about their take on life or the way they present their opinions…
You sir are an absolute star and its great to see you regularly posting again.... "cheers my tinternet pal and we have a coffee date soon when you are touring, that was touring by the way TOURING | |||
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"We try not to be to Judgmental." But don't you find its such hard work and much less fun trying to be none judgmental..... | |||
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"We try not to be to Judgmental. But don't you find its such hard work and much less fun trying to be none judgmental..... "Yes very hard.  | |||
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