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By *atassia OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

Its seems so complecated getting a date as a tv on here could it be made easier

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wats wrong in just looking at a profile

to see if its a tv is that 2 much trouble?

most of the time ppl can see a mile off

if its a real fem or a tv..tho there are

some realy good looking tv's on here

i know a few lovely tv's xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you have to accept the fact that TVs are out of the normal concept of male-female - or even bi/gay relationships as you are introducing a new dynamic in the guise of your 'female' persona. Most men would probably address you as a 'he' whereas most women would address you as a 'she'. Some wouldn't know what to address you, and therein lies your dilemma. You need to be clear on your profile about exactly what you are and how you like to be perceived. If you are a man in everyday life but a woman when swinging then that needs to be made clear. Conversely, if you are a man but live entirely as a female 24/7 then that also needs to be made clear.

If you are a convincing TV, ie no blue shadow etc and you don't look like Les Dawson in drag, then say so. We would have no problems meeting TVs that are of that ilk but not one that looked so obviously like a man dressed as a woman.

No offence intended in any of what I've just said, it's just how I see it from my perspective.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

The last couple of posts have been removed.

Can you please have some respect for other members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are likely to find it as difficult as single guys do on here as opposed to having the pick of the bunch like the single ladies do (hope no offence taken there).

I might also add that after having a wee browse of your profile, that in the first scentence it is making it tricky for you as you say you are part of a couple (don't know if you both have a couples profile elsewhere? and guessing you can't set up couples profiles that include a tv?). This will raise eyebrows from some people, and people will want to see what your partner looks like too.

That and also the fact you cannot accomodate will always make things difficult as well.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Its seems so complecated getting a date as a tv on here could it be made easier"

To be honest I am still not sure how it could be made easier for people to get a meet....other than the same advice given out to many....make your profile stand out.

El nino is right, your profile might come across as a bit confusing so maybe elaborate a bit more.

Good luck.

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By *atassia OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

my point exactly how, to make it easier to let others know who you are without upsetting one, now i wouldnt hurt a fly and enjoy a wide variety of things but in chat for instance it goes so quickly sometimes that you could end up chatting and you assume they have checked your profils but they assume because of your name your a girl and hence problems so if there was an icon or (m)(f) (cpl) (tv)it would be nicer. Wouldnt it?

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By *atassia OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale

Good point El nino ill pop n change it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah I see what you mean now.

Sadly Admin introduced a gender icon in the chat rooms, and people didn't like it so they took it off.

I have seen it lots of times in chat on another site where the icons are there for all to see, and people still don't read it properly and assume a TV with a girls name is female....sometimes you can't win

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