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"Yes this woman opposite us keeps looking over at our house to see if we open our curtains. We never do as we think shes so nosey lol" pmsl ![]() | |||
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"Not the beef variety! My "lovely" neighbours who unfortunately have lived by me for 3 years never ever open their bedroom curtains. They dont work so I know its not because they work shifts and sleep during the day. I dont know why it riles me so much but to me opening your curtains (still sounds dirty!) is an important part of the day, it welcomes the new day and you feel fresh ready to start again (well that's what I like to think). I would love to go over, storm into their house, upstairs, rip those curtains open and shout "open your curtains you tramps". Is there anything similar which winds you up when really it shouldn't. I must add, I do have a bit of OCD when it comes to my house. " Maybe they don't want everyone to see the sex slaves they have enslaved in their dungeon? ![]() | |||
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"Not the beef variety! My "lovely" neighbours who unfortunately have lived by me for 3 years never ever open their bedroom curtains. They dont work so I know its not because they work shifts and sleep during the day. I dont know why it riles me so much but to me opening your curtains (still sounds dirty!) is an important part of the day, it welcomes the new day and you feel fresh ready to start again (well that's what I like to think). I would love to go over, storm into their house, upstairs, rip those curtains open and shout "open your curtains you tramps". Is there anything similar which winds you up when really it shouldn't. I must add, I do have a bit of OCD when it comes to my house. Maybe they don't want everyone to see the sex slaves they have enslaved in their dungeon? ![]() I think its more that they probably have "knocked off" gear stashed in there to be honest! | |||
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"I only have vertical blinds which maintains my privacy whilst also letting in light. suits me at the end of very small cul-de-sac where everyone can see into each other's houses." I hope your blinds are kept level without uneven spacings ![]() | |||
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"I would love to live in a world where the greatest concern you can have is that your neighbours don't open their curtains. ![]() Yes, I spend every minute of every hour of everyday thinking about it!!! | |||
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"I never close mine, and love to have my windows open - I love to hear people walking past when I have 'company'! lol " Oooh you're a sort aren't you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I agree with the OP, I couldn't stand being in a room with the natural light shut out, how dingy that would be. I have vertical blinds and curtains. My curtains aren't closed because the folds are all even and positioned nicely in the holdbacks. I open and close the vertical blinds in all my rooms. What annoys me is washing left out overnight. " Yep, I have a blind in my bedroom because my curtains are postioned perfectly and I dont like to mess them up And I agree with you about the washing and bins xx | |||
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"I only have vertical blinds which maintains my privacy whilst also letting in light. suits me at the end of very small cul-de-sac where everyone can see into each other's houses. I hope your blinds are kept level without uneven spacings ![]() They're remotely controlled, so spacing is not an issue I need to worry about. | |||
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"a sort of .............what??? i may have a little exhibitionist in me!" Anyone we know? ![]() | |||
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"It really riles me when people leave their washing on the line for days at a time. " A woman who used to live opposite me would actually hang hers out in the rain, not drizzle but chucking it down, and leave it till it was dry whether that be days or weeks. I saw her hanging washing out in -18C temps during a snow storm in December. Bonkers. | |||
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"It really riles me when people leave their washing on the line for days at a time. A woman who used to live opposite me would actually hang hers out in the rain, not drizzle but chucking it down, and leave it till it was dry whether that be days or weeks. I saw her hanging washing out in -18C temps during a snow storm in December. Bonkers." That is just the sort of behaviour I am on about. Drives me crazy. X | |||
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"It really riles me when people leave their washing on the line for days at a time. A woman who used to live opposite me would actually hang hers out in the rain, not drizzle but chucking it down, and leave it till it was dry whether that be days or weeks. I saw her hanging washing out in -18C temps during a snow storm in December. Bonkers. That is just the sort of behaviour I am on about. Drives me crazy. X" It must wreck the fabric too, from a practical standpoint lol. I don't have a tumble drier but generally if there is stuff falling from the sky, I hang things on airers in the bathroom! | |||
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"I would love to live in a world where the greatest concern you can have is that your neighbours don't open their curtains. ![]() Welcome to my world. And yes it is a lovely world,full of open curtains. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why are people bothered about washing being left out?" Because it's a grubby, dirty and lazy thing to do. | |||
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"Why are people bothered about washing being left out? Because it's a grubby, dirty and lazy thing to do. " My neighbour does the same. It upsets me! I'm also a bit OCD. Have to hang the washing out in a certain, neat way in size and then shade order. Watching a white load dry in the breeze has a calming effect on me. I need to get out more ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() The people I am criticizing are scruffs and make the area in which I live scruffy. They live rubbish in their front garden, mattresses up against the wall. I will carry on criticizing lazy arsed tramps as much as I like. At least I have respect and want to live in a clean house in a nice area and keep it that way!!! | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() And moaning on a forum is going to change things?? Try your local council, name n shame them to them if its so bad, take pics n email them to council, local papers etc... ![]() | |||
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"maybe their life is not going as well as yours seems to be and they are receiving some support and help... one day, they may open their curtains and welcome a beautiful day, not just yet." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"maybe their life is not going as well as yours seems to be and they are receiving some support and help... one day, they may open their curtains and welcome a beautiful day, not just yet." Errrrr no its not like that at all! | |||
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"The "personal choice" police get on my tits, you know the ones, there's a few on this thread. Forums are places for anyone who wants to discuss their opinions can come and do freely so why is their always someone who has to say "it's their personal choice"? Yes we bloody know it is just like its our personal choice to talk about them!! And I agree with the op it is dirty to keep your curtains closed, I've lived here 11 years now and never seen into the conservatory of the scruffs who live across the back." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Someone once said that you can tell a chavs house because they have more furniture outside than in. I find this quite true. Lots of people say that it's judgemental to others, that they have a right to live as they wish, focus on yourself rather than others etc etc, but sod judgement, these people who can't keep their homes clean and gardens tidy are lazy arsed gits. " Here here!! | |||
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"Someone once said that you can tell a chavs house because they have more furniture outside than in. I find this quite true. Lots of people say that it's judgemental to others, that they have a right to live as they wish, focus on yourself rather than others etc etc, but sod judgement, these people who can't keep their homes clean and gardens tidy are lazy arsed gits. " With no self respect x | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() ![]() For your information I have done all that! And I can moan and comment on a forum as much as like thank you very much which is exactly what your doing about my comments!! | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() every one of are neighbours are like this lazy gits. On the same day at the same time each and every week they just leave their rubbish out on the street and expect some poor guys in orange overalls to just come and clear it up...... | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() ^ this.....think some really need to take a chill ffs ![]() | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"FFS!! Just opened my curtains to find a lass smeared up against the window trying to peek in my bedroom! ![]() lucky barst ![]() | |||
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"We very rarely open our curtains including the front room curtains, wouldn't say it made us tramps though lol, Opened our living room curtains once and the little Shits off our street were stood on our wall watching our telly through the window I went mental" Its even worse when the wee shites bring their own remote control! ![]() | |||
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"The "personal choice" police get on my tits, you know the ones, there's a few on this thread. Forums are places for anyone who wants to discuss their opinions can come and do freely so why is their always someone who has to say "it's their personal choice"? Yes we bloody know it is just like its our personal choice to talk about them!! ." Personal choice police - love it - so funny. The forums would be empty if no one was expressing an opinion. In fact their would be no need for a forum. My pet hate is people who drive in the middle lane of the motorway all the time. OP sometimes I don't open my curtains because my neighbours can see in. Perhaps they tried one day and saw you looking up at them. Lol | |||
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"The "personal choice" police get on my tits, you know the ones, there's a few on this thread. Forums are places for anyone who wants to discuss their opinions can come and do freely so why is their always someone who has to say "it's their personal choice"? Yes we bloody know it is just like its our personal choice to talk about them!! . Personal choice police - love it - so funny. The forums would be empty if no one was expressing an opinion. In fact their would be no need for a forum. My pet hate is people who drive in the middle lane of the motorway all the time. OP sometimes I don't open my curtains because my neighbours can see in. Perhaps they tried one day and saw you looking up at them. Lol" Lol. I had to laugh at the ops observation that they have knocked off gear to hide, hence they keep the curtains shut. ![]() | |||
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" My pet hate is people who drive in the middle lane of the motorway all the time. " This! ![]() | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() ![]() I am concentrating on my own life which includes the area in which I live. And I dont like having to live by scruffy, lazy arsed tramps! | |||
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"Why are people so concerned about what other people do?? Maybe concentrate on your own lives more and you wouldn't have time to critisize others!!! ![]() ![]() posibly they feel the same | |||
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"Wow!!!! I'd be pretty cheesed off if someone criticised me for not opening my curtains. The garden mess is something else altogether: I have been lucky to live in areas where, in the immediate vicinity, people keep their gardens tidy. Yet a little way up the road it looks like a council dump. For people selling property in these areas it must be awful as it will affect potential buyers. Going back to curtains closed, these people may use this as a barrier against the outside world, a barrier against nosy and judgemental people or simply the sun is too damn bright. Whatever the reason, it does not make them lazy/dirty/other names called." Well in this case it does mean they are lazy and dirty because my poor friend who has to live nextdoor to them has had to ring the council becsuse of rats because they leave their rubbish piled high in the garden including soiled nappies! | |||
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"Judgemental moaners piss me off.... Ever asked yourself WHY they are like that??? NO probably not, only too quick to judge!? There could be many reasons behind the untidy garden....." Go on then, you give me some reasons as to why their garden is like that | |||
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"Judgemental moaners piss me off.... Ever asked yourself WHY they are like that??? NO probably not, only too quick to judge!? There could be many reasons behind the untidy garden....." not werth the hasle let him play nice x | |||
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"Judgemental moaners piss me off.... Ever asked yourself WHY they are like that??? NO probably not, only too quick to judge!? There could be many reasons behind the untidy garden..... Go on then, you give me some reasons as to why their garden is like that" Well I can give you a reason why my garden got untidy... I had a breakdown in 2004, became agorophobic. Didn't, couldn't leave my house for 3 years, obviously in that time my garden was becoming a sight for sore eyes. No fault of mine. Nosey neighbours interfering, trying to get me out.... Didn't work though! Didn't STOP the neighbours bitching though eh??? See ppl know nothing of others troubles, only too quick to judge what they don't know or understand.... Ignorance!!!! | |||
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"Judgemental moaners piss me off.... Ever asked yourself WHY they are like that??? NO probably not, only too quick to judge!? There could be many reasons behind the untidy garden..... Go on then, you give me some reasons as to why their garden is like that" They're waiting on a reply from diy sos? | |||
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"Judgemental moaners piss me off.... Ever asked yourself WHY they are like that??? NO probably not, only too quick to judge!? There could be many reasons behind the untidy garden..... Go on then, you give me some reasons as to why their garden is like that Well I can give you a reason why my garden got untidy... I had a breakdown in 2004, became agorophobic. Didn't, couldn't leave my house for 3 years, obviously in that time my garden was becoming a sight for sore eyes. No fault of mine. Nosey neighbours interfering, trying to get me out.... Didn't work though! Didn't STOP the neighbours bitching though eh??? See ppl know nothing of others troubles, only too quick to judge what they don't know or understand.... Ignorance!!!!" Well I'm sorry to hear about your personal problems but maybe you could have asked a friend to tidy your garden for you or maybe hired a gardener? Sorry to disappoint you but my neighbours are in their very early twenties, have no health problems. The only problems they have is having no respect. They cause lots of problems with their anti social behaviour, drinking, comitting crime (yes i know that for a fact). So instead of judging me and accusing me of being ignorant, YOU don't live in my street, YOU dont know the problems myself and the rest of my lovely neighbours have had to put up with because of them. have had to put up with. Jeez some people are so quick to judge aren't they when they dont have the full facts!!!!!! | |||
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"It is just curtains. Really not THAT important." So why take the time to read and post? | |||
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"It is just curtains. Really not THAT important. So why take the time to read and post?" The same reason everyone else in this thread did...it is an open forum. I haven't abused you or been inflammatory. Did i touch a nerve? Maybe you realised that you have dedicated way more of your annoyance quota towards curtains than you need to. Maybe..... | |||
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"It is just curtains. Really not THAT important. So why take the time to read and post? The same reason everyone else in this thread did...it is an open forum. I haven't abused you or been inflammatory. Did i touch a nerve? Maybe you realised that you have dedicated way more of your annoyance quota towards curtains than you need to. Maybe....." No, you haven't touched a nerve. We all have different things that annoy us, its life, we are all different. | |||
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"Judgemental moaners piss me off.... Ever asked yourself WHY they are like that??? NO probably not, only too quick to judge!? There could be many reasons behind the untidy garden..... Go on then, you give me some reasons as to why their garden is like that Well I can give you a reason why my garden got untidy... I had a breakdown in 2004, became agorophobic. Didn't, couldn't leave my house for 3 years, obviously in that time my garden was becoming a sight for sore eyes. No fault of mine. Nosey neighbours interfering, trying to get me out.... Didn't work though! Didn't STOP the neighbours bitching though eh??? See ppl know nothing of others troubles, only too quick to judge what they don't know or understand.... Ignorance!!!!" I must remember not to be to judgemental,on the lagger lout wankers,who moved in near my mum. They have a mattress,a three piece suite,and a chest of drawers in their garden. They play loud music all night,haven't used a speaking tone under 100decibels since they moved in. They think schooling for their children is optional,leaving said children to run wild all day. Till now,perhaps I've judged them to harshly,I never even considered that maybe they were ill,shame on me. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Judgemental moaners piss me off.... Ever asked yourself WHY they are like that??? NO probably not, only too quick to judge!? There could be many reasons behind the untidy garden..... Go on then, you give me some reasons as to why their garden is like that Well I can give you a reason why my garden got untidy... I had a breakdown in 2004, became agorophobic. Didn't, couldn't leave my house for 3 years, obviously in that time my garden was becoming a sight for sore eyes. No fault of mine. Nosey neighbours interfering, trying to get me out.... Didn't work though! Didn't STOP the neighbours bitching though eh??? See ppl know nothing of others troubles, only too quick to judge what they don't know or understand.... Ignorance!!!! I must remember not to be to judgemental,on the lagger lout wankers,who moved in near my mum. They have a mattress,a three piece suite,and a chest of drawers in their garden. They play loud music all night,haven't used a speaking tone under 100decibels since they moved in. They think schooling for their children is optional,leaving said children to run wild all day. Till now,perhaps I've judged them to harshly,I never even considered that maybe they were ill,shame on me. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Is there anything similar which winds you up when really it shouldn't. " I think the above is the most important sentence in the OP's original post. She acknowledged it was unreasonable for her to be wound up by this and was only asking for examples of other people's irrational dislikes. But, as per usual, the "don't judge" "each to their own" brigade turn a totally light-hearted topic into a row. | |||
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