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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it exist anymore?

I like to think im a bit old school in this regard, still offer my seat on a bus, Still hold the door open etc.

Do younger guys believe in this anymore

Ps. Hope i spelt chivalry right

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I am all about that chivalry shit bro!

It is a route into their underpants.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"I am all about that chivalry shit bro!

It is a route into their underpants."

such a charmer... how Could anyone resist

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am all about that chivalry shit bro!

It is a route into their underpants."

Lol sssshhhhhh your not sposed to tell em that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes youth do it too sadly its only the divvys that make news. Vast majority polite and respectful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes youth do it too sadly its only the divvys that make news. Vast majority polite and respectful."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see some things as just courtesy, like holding doors for people and do that regardless of gender. I'd give up a seat for an oap etc, but wouldn't for an able bodied person just on the offchance of a rutt.

Chivalry as you mean it OP is probably an outdated concept from when women were seen as the weaker sex.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Chivalry as you mean it OP is probably an outdated concept from when women were seen as the weaker sex. "

Nowadays there is probably a fine line between well intentioned chivalry and unintended sexism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chivalry as you mean it OP is probably an outdated concept from when women were seen as the weaker sex.

Nowadays there is probably a fine line between well intentioned chivalry and unintended sexism."

Good manners are always the way to go... And remember, the lady always comes first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not feeling the love for the chivalrous men these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it exist anymore?

I like to think im a bit old school in this regard, still offer my seat on a bus, Still hold the door open etc.

Do younger guys believe in this anymore

Ps. Hope i spelt chivalry right "

i still open the door when im going through it for the other person, i still say please and thank you and i will offer my seat on the train and bus for someone who is needs it more than myself

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Chivalry as you mean it OP is probably an outdated concept from when women were seen as the weaker sex.

Nowadays there is probably a fine line between well intentioned chivalry and unintended sexism.

Good manners are always the way to go... And remember, the lady always comes first! "

Of course. But i don't assume that every woman will want, or even need me to hold open the door for them. Sometimes, you have to play the situation on a case by case basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe in chivalry, I always wave when I cut someone up. Sometimes they wave back too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 8months Pregnant and travelling home from work on a bus as I was too large to fit behind wheel of car to drive any longer. The bus was packed as it was rush hour. I stood for over hour being jostled and nudged. I then actually got hit in the tummy full on by a shopping bag and a guy who was Sat down shouted at the person saying how rude and inconsiderate they were. However he still stayed put in his seat.

Chivalry misplaced somehow me thinks. Made me laugh then and still does today 11years later.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I don't think it's a case of chivalry but manners I've always held doors open for people behind me etc but find that now I'm stuck on crutches and struggle with door etc people are just plain ignorant. Not all mind but many people will look and let doors go in my face or push in in shops because they think they can.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No its not dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yea. I'm a proper fucking people person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will even change a old persons tyre for them when they have got a flatty as i'd hate to think they are stranded,done that quite a few times too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once got screwed at for holding a door open for someone. Apparently I was "asserting the patriarchy's demeaning attitude to women by implying they were unable to open doors" a little later I was also told off for offering to pay for dinner apparently "capitalism was an invention of the patriarchy to make women beholden to men". Worst first date ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once got screwed at for holding a door open for someone. Apparently I was "asserting the patriarchy's demeaning attitude to women by implying they were unable to open doors" a little later I was also told off for offering to pay for dinner apparently "capitalism was an invention of the patriarchy to make women beholden to men". Worst first date ever. "

i'd of had to say..... no wonder yer single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once got screwed at for holding a door open for someone. Apparently I was "asserting the patriarchy's demeaning attitude to women by implying they were unable to open doors" a little later I was also told off for offering to pay for dinner apparently "capitalism was an invention of the patriarchy to make women beholden to men". Worst first date ever. "

And some women wonder why men treat them bad.

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By *iscreetbuddyMan
over a year ago

Kilmainham

I'd like to think I'm quite chivalrous.

Was raised to respect everyone equally & treat people how you'd like to be treated.

Unless they ask you not to

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By *ollie1Couple
over a year ago

murcia spain

i always open doors etc for women but its amazing how many people barge through and never say thank you

i have even had a womand call me a male chauvanist for opening a door for her

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