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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you feel if you receive first contact emails from members who sign off with 'love from...' 'lots of love from...' and in one case 'all my love from...' (?? ALL of it???)

I think oh oh! to be honest. My immediate reaction is he's a bit needy - is this wrong of me? But in my mind its a bit too casual a use of such an important word. Or has love become a cheap commodity now to be added in an email this way?

I am very sparse with the use of it in written notes unless I'm actually sending love or showing love to those I DO love.

What do I prefer then? Well not yours sincerely around here thats daft. Sincerely is ok.. tho but a bit wet. Regards and kind regards is nice. Affectionately is ok too cos you can feel some form of affection towards someone from the outset, best wishes is nice but if someone has written love from to me, I am not gonna reciprocate. Nobody here is gonna ever sign Yours faithfully hahahahhahah!

Also,I am a bit reticent about kissing any old person who thrusts forward to plant one on each cheek if I have only just met them through work or whatever. Yet everyone seems to be dishing out this kind of greeting. Even with my French roots we only really kiss people we know well.

Seems a bit odd to ask your views on such an innocuous thing as a little peck on the cheek as most of us, within minutes of meeting someone from this site, realise they want to put their head up your skirt almost immediately! I would probably kiss someone I have met from here as a greeting when we first meet, because we would have had email and msn/phone convo by this time.

Under other circumstances though I think a warm handshake will suffice until you get to know each other better. If kissing is ever appropriate with colleagues etc.

Im a really loving person, but I'm not comfortable being touched by those who haven't been invited to do so and wish the exuberent greeter, would take a step back and think about those of us who feel that way, before they pucker up.

Over to you....

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

There's not enough love in this world

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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We need more love and affection

Hugs

xxx

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Personally I am a very touchy, feely, huggy, snuggly, affectionate bunny, I love everyone, but being IN love is a different thing.

lots of love from B xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to think about that for a second. I think I tend to end my messages with :P xx

um, suppose that's tongue and a kiss if you look at it literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually end my messages with several paragraphs of begging and grovelling

PS,

to answer your question, any message professing love will be filed in the " bunny boiler " file, ( we don't shred those, we keep them incase forensic evidence is ever required )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you feel if you receive first contact emails from members who sign off with 'love from...' 'lots of love from...' and in one case 'all my love from...' (?? ALL of it???)

I think oh oh! to be honest. My immediate reaction is he's a bit needy - is this wrong of me? But in my mind its a bit too casual a use of such an important word. Or has love become a cheap commodity now to be added in an email this way?

I am very sparse with the use of it in written notes unless I'm actually sending love or showing love to those I DO love.

What do I prefer then? Well not yours sincerely around here thats daft. Sincerely is ok.. tho but a bit wet. Regards and kind regards is nice. Affectionately is ok too cos you can feel some form of affection towards someone from the outset, best wishes is nice but if someone has written love from to me, I am not gonna reciprocate. Nobody here is gonna ever sign Yours faithfully hahahahhahah!

Also,I am a bit reticent about kissing any old person who thrusts forward to plant one on each cheek if I have only just met them through work or whatever. Yet everyone seems to be dishing out this kind of greeting. Even with my French roots we only really kiss people we know well.

Seems a bit odd to ask your views on such an innocuous thing as a little peck on the cheek as most of us, within minutes of meeting someone from this site, realise they want to put their head up your skirt almost immediately! I would probably kiss someone I have met from here as a greeting when we first meet, because we would have had email and msn/phone convo by this time.

Under other circumstances though I think a warm handshake will suffice until you get to know each other better. If kissing is ever appropriate with colleagues etc.

Im a really loving person, but I'm not comfortable being touched by those who haven't been invited to do so and wish the exuberent greeter, would take a step back and think about those of us who feel that way, before they pucker up.

Over to you....

"

Whats wrong with putting your head up a skirt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more of a mwahhhhhhhh person

or " big lix "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually end my messages with several paragraphs of begging and grovelling

PS,

to answer your question, any message professing love will be filed in the " bunny boiler " file, ( we don't shred those, we keep them incase forensic evidence is ever required ) "

hahahahahah! Yes my instinct is similar, as I said. I just think automatically signing off with love demeans affection and if you're known for loving everyone how can your true love be distinguished for those you truly love if everyones umbrellad under a cloud of pouring love. It then becomes mawkish I feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im more of a mwahhhhhhhh person

or " big lix " "

Eurgh I have a set of air kissing 'friends' who use it as a social climbing tool and it makes my stomach turn, but I love to sit and watch mwahs and hugs from genuinely affectionate girls who are really pleased to see their mates and not afraid to show it. Heartwarming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats wrong with putting your head up a skirt?"

Gosh absolutely nothing - its expected when meeting someone from a sex website - but not the md of the company youre hoping to do work with - thats an entirely different thread for another day

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

When its from people i dont know it kinda gives me the eebie jeebies, but if im meeting up with people i know and like i give em a kiss or three..no tongues tho.....well unless its shortstuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a very touchy..feely..affectionate

person an love hugs..were its 2 ppl i

love as in family or close friends or

just friends i care about on here ..u can

never get enuff hugs tho i must admit

i wouldnt end an email with..love so

cmon who wants a great BIG HUG lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im more of a mwahhhhhhhh person

or " big lix "

Eurgh I have a set of air kissing 'friends' who use it as a social climbing tool and it makes my stomach turn, but I love to sit and watch mwahs and hugs from genuinely affectionate girls who are really pleased to see their mates and not afraid to show it. Heartwarming."

Oh no air kissing....

The proper stuff from me.

Im the worlds BEST snogger ya know

But do loves me hugs too.

so can i have one of them purleeze

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh no air kissing....

The proper stuff from me.

Im the worlds BEST snogger ya know

But do loves me hugs too.

so can i have one of them purleeze "

I'm smiling broadly at you will that do as a friendly gesture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

smiles back at ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kiss on the cheek or anywhere else (if you don't know the person can be considered a sexual assault under the 2003 Sexual Offences Act

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well from where im sitting, you look like your after several kisses on ya cheeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well from where im sitting, you look like your after several kisses on ya cheeks "

fnaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrr!!! Way too funny xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed my profile pic from a cock shot as I'm just the typical fella on here - Thought I'd put the bum shot up as -well I was told women like looking at bums - WELL No interest - but lots of fellas !!

A guy can't win !!!

But it made you all smile this Friday

Enjoy for a bit longer then its being removed -if the site admin doesn't first !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it made me smile hun...

big slap and then a kiss on each cheek

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