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By *om_king01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hi everyone just thought I'd post and see why people don't "chat" anymore it seems to just be a yes or no nowadays

I enjoy the social side just as much as the fun, if anything I think it makes the fun better if the chemistry is there

What do you all think? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and my oh are probably more social swingers at the moment. We attend events when we can and tend to socialize more than we play.

I think you can tell a lot about people from chatting.

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By *om_king01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I agree I think if you know somebody even just a little the fun is always better

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Totally agree, I'm here for the social side as well as the fun, if there is no chemistry? Then there is no meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can chat until the cows come home if im getting to know someone on here,chatting works for me,im never in a rush for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, I'm here for the social side as well as the fun, if there is no chemistry? Then there is no meet x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out "

It's no big deal, just don't expect to take your clothes off.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm a total social whore and love it!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out "

Hey, if I can go to an actual social on my own, anyone can!

They are just relaxed gathering in pubs/clubs, non sexual at all unless you arrange something for after, so chill and relax! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out "

Do you know anyone else thats going? I was rooted to the spot in fear at my first social,needlessly I have to add,as everyone was very welcoming and although that was 5 yrs ago im still in touch with a couple of lovely people that we met that night

Im sure you'll have a great time and realise it was nothing to be scared of,but its always nicer if you know someone to,just to take the edge off feeling like your completely alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting, banter and socializing are the heart of swinging without them it would never have evolved from the 70s car key swapping nights x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the social side of swinging as ive made some wonderful new friends, since joining on here. There are several that I enjoy just meeting for a coffee and a chinwag or other social activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out

Do you know anyone else thats going? I was rooted to the spot in fear at my first social,needlessly I have to add,as everyone was very welcoming and although that was 5 yrs ago im still in touch with a couple of lovely people that we met that night

Im sure you'll have a great time and realise it was nothing to be scared of,but its always nicer if you know someone to,just to take the edge off feeling like your completely alone "

Nooooo I don't THINK I do but it's in Peterboro so if anybody turns up to read this I'd b pleased to hear from them GULP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out

It's no big deal, just don't expect to take your clothes off.

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Ooooooooh noooo noooo noooo I'll DEFO NOT b taking me clothes off . I don't wanna turn everyone vegetarian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We definitely enjoy the social side of swinging. No way could we just visit someone, do the deed then leave. A nice cosy drink and a chat before and afterwards is always good and if we can become friends then so much the better.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I used to a lot, lesser these days.

I am looking forward to the Sheffield one tho..

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out

It's no big deal, just don't expect to take your clothes off.

Ooooooooh noooo noooo noooo I'll DEFO NOT b taking me clothes off . I don't wanna turn everyone vegetarian "

Remember some fella saying to me, will you stop making it so bloody obvious you want to bang my wife, This is a social meet not a free for all gang bang.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I enjoy the socials, but don't have a huge amount of free time for meets so I do tend to prefer meets that will end in a shag. However I do insist on a glass or two of wine and a chat first, just to settle my nerves.

Its a bit of a hike and a hit on the wallet to get to the more patronised socials but I try and treat myself now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the social side . It's great that u can talk about anything sexual and no one batters an eye. Love this when I go to clubs and chill and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the Social side. All my 1st meets have been social ones. It gives you the opportunity to see if thr chemistry is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the social side of things and as i havent attented anything for a cpl of yrs,i am missing out.

There are not any socials in my area at the present time

But im hoping to attend chams again when fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not in a rush to have sex. I love the social aspect..there have been so many I have been speaking to over 3 years and its only recently I asked them shall we meet, and we did.

I never usually ask someone if they would like to meet. Im always hoping they turn around and ask me to meet lol that may be my downfall on here though haha

..but, I love socialising, and I can chat for the whole of England if I am comfortable with someone. Sex can wait. I love the flirting and the banter in a social meet, which has not been happening lately!

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By *om_king01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Totally agree, I'm here for the social side as well as the fun, if there is no chemistry? Then there is no meet x"

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By *om_king01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm going to my FIRST EVER social in couple of weeks n confess to being a bit apprehensive for not knowing really what is the procedure n how these sort of nights pan out "
just relax and go with the flow, you will enjoy it a lot more with no expectations

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By *om_king01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"We definitely enjoy the social side of swinging. No way could we just visit someone, do the deed then leave. A nice cosy drink and a chat before and afterwards is always good and if we can become friends then so much the better."

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By *om_king01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a social chat. But sometimes I don't know when to shut up. Some if my social meets would agree I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a social woman

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't like people.

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By *om_king01 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Im a social woman "

Good cause there doesn't seem to be many left.

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