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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people get annoyed/ upset when other people judge them? People judge others all the time. They look at you and make assumptions from what you're wearing and how you act. They judge you from what you post in a forum.

But does it really matter what other people think? The only person that really knows us is ourselves.

Does it bother you if people judge you?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends on if it's a judgment or an accusation.

Is the line between judging and being judgmental?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does, especially when a large portion of my life is spent considering other peoples feelings and situation, so when that isn't reciprocated it feels a bit harsh.

No one wants to be judged unless they have the chance to address the judgement ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here in the forums? im really not bothered as people just love to jump on comments and judge,its not real life,it does'nt affect my real life or how I use the site

In the real world its different,but then people will see a living breathing person and not just a page of text so there are many more dimensions to look at and make a judgment on,what you do in real life has more effect so for me has far more importance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder if people don't like being judged if it's negative. If it was in a positive way they'd be happy to be judged?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Does it bother you if people judge you?"

It does if they're pre-dispositioned holier than thou arses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a factor of being evolved to not only be a social co-operative but also self-aware and able to project the future. As such we constantly rank ourselves amongst our peers. When we are judged to be good or better we rejoice, when judged to be less we despair. How greatly depends on how much we want to be part of that group or think that the judges opinion is valued.

Tell me I'm the worlds worst marathon runner and I'll smile and tell you I'm not that good. I know I'm not a long distance runner a d don't want to be.

Tell me I am not good at my job and I will be very put out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Does it bother you if people judge you?"

Honestly, no. Not any more. I can only imagine what some people on here must judge me to be!

I am what I am.

I am the Marmite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DILLIGAFF..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people get annoyed/ upset when other people judge them? People judge others all the time. They look at you and make assumptions from what you're wearing and how you act. They judge you from what you post in a forum.

But does it really matter what other people think? The only person that really knows us is ourselves.

Does it bother you if people judge you?"

I get judged all the time on hear I just let it go over my head xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i judge people but i dont always tell people what im thinking, some people like to think the worst of people though even when they dont realy know them. if people think the worst of me then thats obviously their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some people get annoyed/ upset when other people judge them? People judge others all the time. They look at you and make assumptions from what you're wearing and how you act. They judge you from what you post in a forum.

But does it really matter what other people think? The only person that really knows us is ourselves.

Does it bother you if people judge you?"
You get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one time I would care how people would think and a lot was to do with my spellings.... now I look at it as me being true to who I am my _iews on things.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

regarding people judging me: couldn't give a fuck

me judging them: my perogative

I have judged wrongly tho & when I have, I have put my hand up

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Why do some people get annoyed/ upset when other people judge them? People judge others all the time. They look at you and make assumptions from what you're wearing and how you act. They judge you from what you post in a forum.

But does it really matter what other people think? The only person that really knows us is ourselves.

Does it bother you if people judge you?"

Only if it's a man with a wig and a gavel.

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