FabSwingers.com forum: How many of you actually like spending time alone?

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I quite enjoy "me" time.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

love it

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"love it

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What do you like about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do too. Got a evening to my self tonight and looking forward to it

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

Me time essential - although I'm normally on here

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"love it

What do you like about it?"

in work: busy busy busy with people management and all it's challenges

so downtime is silence and that is how I like it....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like to spend time on my own but I do end up getting bored of my own company...I also don't like living by myself for long periods of time...I am weirdo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it

sit about naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite enjoy "me" time.

I do. Not sure I could have managed so long living alone otherwise x

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Since my sons left the family home and we downsized dramatically, added to the fact that my other half works away Five or Six days a week for most of the year....I get to spend a lot of time in my own company, and I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very happy in my own company from mon-fri quite happy not seeing anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having spent much of my adult life entrapped in the confines of an offshore drilling rig where privacy and solitude were almost unknown commodities….!.

So now I’m retired I don’t struggle with my own company at all, although there are times when I miss the companionship that forced environment provided…

As for my personal life…

I’d much rather not be alone but that’s not how things turned out…! ,,,

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes I enjoy my own company and love it when I have the house to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the time i do because i get bored with people easily, especialy other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on my own for about 8 months now . It has its good and bad points xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as being essential to preserve my sanity and give me a break from everything - work, life and of course Fab !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being on my own, love me time and love the sound of silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite enjoy "me" time.

I normally enjoy i but have to admit to wanting company at the moment....trouble is....im to impatient and want it all yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yeah.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I love being on my own. I have a hobby which at times can be messy. I tidy it all away before hubby returns home. But I do love the peace and quiet. Lol.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Yes I enjoy it, I live alone for the most part - daughter gets home on leave about 6/7 weeks of the year. I am not lonely as have a fulfilled work, social life and friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy been on my own for now but dont want to be on.my own for everxx

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Yes I enjoy it, I live alone for the most part - daughter gets home on leave about 6/7 weeks of the year. I am not lonely as have a fulfilled work, social life and friends

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I think friends and a decent social life are quite important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me time is great when you know that at the end of it, someone is there for you. When your alone its not the great feeling that people think

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Me time is great when you know that at the end of it, someone is there for you. When your alone its not the great feeling that people think

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Being lonely and having time on your own are not necessarily one and the same though.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Me time is great when you know that at the end of it, someone is there for you. When your alone its not the great feeling that people think

Being lonely and having time on your own are not necessarily one and the same though. "

No its not you can live with someone and be lonely...I cherish the time I have when its just me in the house.. I can do that for a period of time then I get bored...However I have never lived on my own for long periods of time..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I love it, and it's really healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my own company, I work alone most of the time, so like to have company. My other half has been at a music festival since fri and I've never felt so alone! More so because of the extra day off

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I hate my own company, I work alone most of the time, so like to have company. My other half has been at a music festival since fri and I've never felt so alone! More so because of the extra day off

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Awwww when is he back?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I like to spend time on my own but I do end up getting bored of my own company...I also don't like living by myself for long periods of time...I am weirdo lol "

id say thats pritty much me to. been on my own for a while now maybe its time I found some1 again but really don't trust my own judgment any more where wemen are concerned

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By *heNerdyCyclistMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

I fucking LOVE it. But I'm an very independent soul anyway. It can get lonely but that's why I have steam, ggpo and league of legends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both really enjoy time on our own, totally necessary for us to re-charge and reflect.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Yes I enjoy it, I live alone for the most part - daughter gets home on leave about 6/7 weeks of the year. I am not lonely as have a fulfilled work, social life and friends

I think friends and a decent social life are quite important.

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Indeed they are

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

I love being on own and left to my own devices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend as much time as I can out of work being alone. You get strange looks out hiking alone as a man sometimes but I enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my own space

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I have the best conversations when I'm alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a bit of alone time, just to sit alone and gather your thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a good alone argument with yourself, and the the making up is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. Just relax, read a book, and be at one with my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy me time but I miss someone to talk and cuddle up to at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do enjoy me time but I miss someone to talk and cuddle up to at night "
Yeah but you dont talk you just get pissed and sleep.lmao. X

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I quite enjoy "me" time.

I do as I seldom get "me" time.

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By *itKatChunky80Woman
over a year ago

wirral

"I quite enjoy "me" time.

I love it, book, munch, maybe wine, sleep....all things I like to do alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do enjoy me time but I miss someone to talk and cuddle up to at night Yeah but you dont talk you just get pissed and sleep.lmao. X"

Haha says you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be relaxing on own its a good way to think too

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I like it... More than happy to potter, chill, catch up with friends, cook for myself etc.

I totally love it when the boy is here and ache for him when he's not.

However, comfortable in my own skin too.

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

Having been on my own with the kids for 6 years now ,once they are in bed I am on my own everynight...took a while but I do enjoy spending time on my own now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do enjoy me time but I miss someone to talk and cuddle up to at night Yeah but you dont talk you just get pissed and sleep.lmao. X

Haha says you x "
yeah but one of us is up early .. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, most of my hobbies have been solo things or have ended up that way.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I love alone time. My housemate has been away for the whole summer so I've had the house to myself for over a month, it's been awesome! He gets back at the end of the week though, so I'm going to have to get used to sharing again.

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

It's all me, me, me in this house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't live without me time. What's the sense in having a personal life if you can't have personal space?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I get up to some very naughty things when I'm on my own....rehearsal time!! Love it

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i love it on my own doing my own thing

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Me - live alone and love it. I can get company when/if I need but love my space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love spending time with just myself and actually look forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need my own personal space and time to keep me sane. Although it can and does get a little lonely from time to time...

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

bloody hate living alone .hated it before

i was married and hate it now ,leave work

friday night and no one to talk to till monday morning .supposed to be good is it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it... More than happy to potter, chill, catch up with friends, cook for myself etc.

I totally love it when the boy is here and ache for him when he's not.

However, comfortable in my own skin too. "
This

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"bloody hate living alone .hated it before

i was married and hate it now ,leave work

friday night and no one to talk to till monday morning .supposed to be good is it ??

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Not if you dislike being alone....they say life is what you make it,with respect... being negative about stuff doesn't help, do you have any hobbies etc???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend quite a lot of time on my own. Just me and my fish. I've always been a bit of a loner, I do quite enjoy it.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

I've just dropped off home my fb,after a great afternoon sess, I dont want her interupting the footy

Me time ....................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live alone, work alone, and couldn't be happier,( I do have 2 dogs and 3 horses) so never really alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I quite enjoy "me" time.

So do I, the calm and the tranquility is ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once saw a postcard, it said:

It's like this. When I'm with people I want to be alone and when I'm alone I want to be with people.

I wonder for how many people that's a truism?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I am alone alot except for the pets.. got more used to it over time. Quite happy in my own company

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm quite happy with my own company. I'm good at entertaining myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need some me time tonight i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to have some time alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best Me time is in the car I guess. No worries open road and you can chill out if its not too busy. Can't beet me time in my book.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"The best Me time is in the car I guess. No worries open road and you can chill out if its not too busy. Can't beet me time in my book. "

I love driving on my own - driven across Europe alone. Loved every second of it.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I love spending time by myself. I actually think I am a solitary person by nature and feel quite content in my own company. I need a lot more personal space than a lot of people I think, and if I don't get it I get really grumpy and agitated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live on my own so being on my own is something that happens a lot of the time. I've just about had enough of it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The best Me time is in the car I guess. No worries open road and you can chill out if its not too busy. Can't beet me time in my book.

I love driving on my own - driven across Europe alone. Loved every second of it."

I love driving in the continent Italy being a real favourite on the shear drop road in the mountains. Something magical about driving over there.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

When not at work, I spend the majority of my time alone and have done for over twenty years. Love, love, love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate my own company, I work alone most of the time, so like to have company. My other half has been at a music festival since fri and I've never felt so alone! More so because of the extra day off

Awwww when is he back?"

He got back yesterday(mon), but I get to see him tonight, after he's sorted out his washing had a good scrub etc lol

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By *ike74Man
over a year ago

newport

I love me time as I can do as I please!!

Sadly at moment share house so rare that it is empty but when it is I can read a book and relax. HAPPY DAYS XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind it at all. Got no choice really anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its great i can listen to the voices in my head in peace although sometime in 2 minds about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He gets to much me time.........

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Alone time is good xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting a night in the house on my own. I spend some quality me time in the bath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy me time, it's good and healthy and a great way to recharge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After rugby training or a match I like to be alone and have a bath for about 30 mins then some dinner listening to nice music and then call of duty time !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten years single and as each year passes I enjoy it more. Most of my time is 'me time', suits me fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me and my camera, me and my cat, me being creative

I dont need other people around too much at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live alone. I work from home.

If I didn't enjoy my own company I can honestly say they would have found me hanging from the rafters by now.

Still gets lonely though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite enjoy "me" time.

Love it.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I live alone. I work from home.

If I didn't enjoy my own company I can honestly say they would have found me hanging from the rafters by now.

Still gets lonely though.

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I can appreciate that....I don't know anyone, that doesn't get lonely at one time or another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it! I can take a hot bath, light some scented candles, maybe enjoy a glass of ice cold white wine. wear a nice roomy nightshirt, do my nails in peace, give myself a relaxing facial whilst listening to music, make myself some nice food.. Watch what I like on the tv, catch up on fab, just generally enjoy the peace and quiet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually kind of prefer my own company! And like being able to choose when I have company (except during work hours, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rear even when I am alone I have my 5 dogs around so I never feel alone .

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

i pretend i do but i dont like it

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Rear even when I am alone I have my 5 dogs around so I never feel alone ."
I wasn't counting pets as lots of people have them, I have my dog, but his conversation is less than stimulating. Lol.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Rear even when I am alone I have my 5 dogs around so I never feel alone .I wasn't counting pets as lots of people have them, I have my dog, but his conversation is less than stimulating. Lol.

I was a single parent for a long while - so not truly alone. But have been completely alone now for some years. Never bothered me at all - love it when someone comes to stay but always nice to get my space back when they go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rear even when I am alone I have my 5 dogs around so I never feel alone .I wasn't counting pets as lots of people have them, I have my dog, but his conversation is less than stimulating. Lol.

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well I chat to them and they drive me mad at times ..

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"I actually kind of prefer my own company! And like being able to choose when I have company (except during work hours, obviously

This is me too. I suppose I'm lucky that I don't get lonely really. Being alone and being lonely can be two totally different things though. You can live in a house full of people and still feel lonely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its nice to have some quiet time but if honest I prefer time with my partner around as we get on so well.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I love me time...I have a large circle of friends and lots of interests so people see me as very sociable.

But there is nothing better than some down time to sit around in my jimjams and do..nothing

I live on my own and won;t ever change that

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

"bloody hate living alone .hated it before

i was married and hate it now ,leave work

friday night and no one to talk to till monday morning .supposed to be good is it ??

Not if you dislike being alone....they say life is what you make it,with respect... being negative about stuff doesn't help, do you have any hobbies etc???"
not got any hobbies apart from been on here lol as i work in the eve its hard to do things but i have 2 dogs to take out,just so hard adjusting to the fact i was married one minute and divorced the next ,i wasnt even seperated ,as my ex hadnt even moved out of the home we had before divorcing me

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