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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'ts only happened to me once when i met up with a lady years ago, we were chatting online for a while and she sent my a pic of herself, she looked nice and seemed very pleasant and good to chat too, so we decided to meet up socially for a drink, well when i met her i didn't spot her at first! because she looked completely different from her pic, i know the camera can be deceiving at times but it was like it was someone completely different, I didn't say anything during the meet! I just chatted away to her and had a nice time, but decided not to go any further and didn't meet her again after that, but i was wondering if anybody else has had a similar experience??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strangely enough it happens to everyone who meets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted to a cpl but did not see any pics.The guy kept telling me how hot his wife was.I am sure the guy did think his wife was hot and was proud of her but when we all met up I thought he had brought his mother !!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yes its happened. It was either his son or him 20 years ago. I have no idea why people choose to do it, unless they're hoping for a pity shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people meet me in the flesh I don't usually have the brown blob over my face that can be seen on most of my pictures ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do play with my pics before I post them, but they are of me and are all from the last 6 months or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually a fat, bald 50 year old

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Twice....

I once went to meet a slim bloke and could only see this fat grey haired fella in the corner ..... you guessed it ..

I also once went to meet a bubbly cuddly blonde woman in her late forties...... I was speechless..... She was blonde.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm actually a fat, bald 50 year old "

Who knew......

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I always do a social meet now for this reason... chemistry can not be conveyed in pictures in my opinion

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I do play with my pics before I post them, but they are of me and are all from the last 6 months or so "

Nice smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people meet me in the flesh I don't usually have the brown blob over my face that can be seen on most of my pictures ... "

I thought that was..... Oh, never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me a few years ago. I turned up for a social meet after chatting on line for a long long time. My first thought when he drove into the car park was 'OMG he's sent his dad' His pics were at least 10 years out of date and he must have lied about his age!

On top of that, he then refused to go for a drink as we'd agreed but wanted to go somewhere quiet. I proceeded to take him to a very busy beauty spot and showed 'true surprise' when it turned out to be crowded. Got in his car for a chat and out the corner of my eye I saw that the back seat had been reclined and there happened to be a duvet and pillows on there too!

His definition of a social was obviously very different to mine. One wasted journey and one very frustrated man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told that my face pic doesn't do me justice, which I'll take as a compliment but it was taken with a mobile phone when I wasn't expecting it. It is only 6 months old so is definitely me. When going to a social I always make sure to shower & shampoo. So hair and make up look good. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it happen a few times. First it was a guy 10 years prior and 5 stone heavier he actually got aggressive and called me a time waster, I think it was other way round!

The last time, I had only seen pics of the wife but he did a lot of the banter on the phone. I was stupid really, why I didn't ask for his pic I don't know! He turned out to be bald, super obese and must have been at least 15 years older than his profile stated or he'd had a long paper round. It was really awkward, but it was my fault for never following up his face pic.

Am wiser now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never have had a problem but we will have a social chat on cam usually before meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few recently where the picture gave the impression of definitely not what I then met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do play with my pics before I post them, but they are of me and are all from the last 6 months or so

Nice smile x "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok! Confession time!

I don't actually have an Afro!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Only had the one but I'm certain his pics weren't even him. Strange though he's still on here with same pics and still getting veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people meet me in the flesh I don't usually have the brown blob over my face that can be seen on most of my pictures ... "

Oh that must b disappointing for people Mrs PAXO cos i'd always considered that was a particular asset of yours muahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok! Confession time!

I don't actually have an Afro! "

Neither do i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually a fat, bald 50 year old "

Haha! I am too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That is the other problem people lying about there age! i maybe understand saying they're a couple of years younger! but 10 even 15 years younger now thats taking the piss

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I always do a social meet now for this reason... chemistry can not be conveyed in pictures in my opinion "

Couldn't agree more.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No...mainly because we all show face on cam rather than swop pics

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I'm actually a fat, bald 50 year old "

Oi you! Nothing wrong with being 50!! Or bald!! Or fat!!

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast


"Ok! Confession time!

I don't actually have an Afro! "

Disappointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually people r ALWAYS shocked wen they meet me cos in reality I'm a dead ringer for Johnny Depp but I stick up on here pictures of some old fart otherwise I wouldn't b able to cope wiv the mad rush of people clamouring to get their sweaty mitts on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show myself on cam ... I have pictures but I do make sure people know the camera shows me in a very favourable light

Its happened to me ... So I like to warn people

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Yes its happened. It was either his son or him 20 years ago. I have no idea why people choose to do it, unless they're hoping for a pity shag."

A pity shag........................

That's it , that's what its called ............

A Pity Shag,

I once met a bitch in London , she looked fuck all like her pictures, but I still fucked her out of sympathy ..............and a long journey home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people meet me in the flesh I don't usually have the brown blob over my face that can be seen on most of my pictures ...

Oh that must b disappointing for people Mrs PAXO cos i'd always considered that was a particular asset of yours muahahaha "

Oi Edna..... As a fellow Diva I would have you’d have understood how sometimes it can take me hours to achieve that hazing effect on account of me being so narcissistic….

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are! "

I could easily recognise you ..................

From behind

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!

I could easily recognise you ..................

From behind "

Medieval indeed!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I would like to think I look like whats on the tin in real life too

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!

I could easily recognise you ..................

From behind "

Lol, I do have face pics for people I choose to meet and talk to a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually people r ALWAYS shocked wen they meet me cos in reality I'm a dead ringer for Johnny Depp but I stick up on here pictures of some old fart otherwise I wouldn't b able to cope wiv the mad rush of people clamouring to get their sweaty mitts on me "

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!

I could easily recognise you ..................

From behind

Medieval indeed! "

Didn't mean you , I was replying to ladybee

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Actually people r ALWAYS shocked wen they meet me cos in reality I'm a dead ringer for Johnny Depp but I stick up on here pictures of some old fart otherwise I wouldn't b able to cope wiv the mad rush of people clamouring to get their sweaty mitts on me "

Ooo la la

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people meet me in the flesh I don't usually have the brown blob over my face that can be seen on most of my pictures ...

Oh that must b disappointing for people Mrs PAXO cos i'd always considered that was a particular asset of yours muahahaha

Oi Edna..... As a fellow Diva I would have you’d have understood how sometimes it can take me hours to achieve that hazing effect on account of me being so narcissistic….

"

Ahem........ NO..........no not really! On the basis I'm a natural born diva free of artifice LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chatted to a cpl but did not see any pics.The guy kept telling me how hot his wife was.I am sure the guy did think his wife was hot and was proud of her but when we all met up I thought he had brought his mother !!!"

why meet someone without first seeing a pic of them?? To me thats on the Boarder of desperate

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!

I could easily recognise you ..................

From behind

Lol, I do have face pics for people I choose to meet and talk to a lot."

I'd love to see a face pic .........

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Met a few for social meets but they were, as others have said on here, a lot older in the flesh than their pictures led me to believe. One actually admitted that the pic he showed me was around 15 years out of date. But he said it WAS him so couldn't actually understand what my problem was. Another had dentures - I swear!

Mostly though, guys I have met have been what they showed themselves to be.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've met someone who whilst they did look like their pics had fibbed about their age. Working back from what they'd said in conversation, I came to the conclusion that they must have joined the army when they were 7.

Didn't make any difference to the meet, but did make me wonder what else they might have been fibbing about

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!

I could easily recognise you ..................

From behind

Medieval indeed!

Didn't mean you , I was replying to ladybee "

I know! And I maintain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops froggydisneyfawn

MAINTAIN? - Is that like plantain but wiv mince? NOT that I'm suggesting YOU mince (even in dem heels - altho I am known to mince a bit in me flat stout man shoes! )

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Oops froggydisneyfawn

MAINTAIN? - Is that like plantain but wiv mince? NOT that I'm suggesting YOU mince (even in dem heels - altho I am known to mince a bit in me flat stout man shoes! )"

You mince, I mince...heels or not lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think i look the same, thats why most my pics are face pics for this reason x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I won't meet without them having seen pictures of me. I'd be mortified if they turned up and then weren't interested so i'd rather people were upfront at the beginning.

Why lie - you're going to be found out soon enough lol!

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oops froggydisneyfawn

MAINTAIN? - Is that like plantain but wiv mince? NOT that I'm suggesting YOU mince (even in dem heels - altho I am known to mince a bit in me flat stout man shoes! )

You mince, I mince...heels or not lol!! "

Yes - we are the veritable 'dish of the day Hahahahahaha

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Have had the someone not looking like their pic - not from here tho...

And I've been told my pics don't do me justice, and met a few who were way better than their pics are!

I could easily recognise you ..................

From behind

Medieval indeed!

Didn't mean you , I was replying to ladybee

I know! And I maintain"

I too , am able to maintain........:......

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I've not yet been disappointed. Mostly I find that pics do not do people justice so if I have that 'gut' feel, I will not make up my mind until I've seen the person in the flesh. Hence why I prefer and try (well almost always) to meet socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strangely enough it happens to everyone who meets me "

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

gonna have to put some newer pics up. My goatee's got a bit whiter over the last 12 months and Kate's had her hair cut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins

from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

we have had it twice, both times with women,the first time we were msning with her and she sent us a few pics, compleatly different to the ones on her profile, think fit as - saggy and fat. we didnt go any further.

the next we met for a social expecting a mid 40s but in shape lady, a mid 50s very over weight lady turned up, her pics were atleast 10 years old,and they hadnt been a good 10 years, we had a few drinks with her and chatted, she was lovely tochat with,but neither of us fancied her, so we never met her again, this is why we always have a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i have done not recently though.

thats why its best to meet people who have recent verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins

from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol"

I'm 9ft with an afro and stilettos cute fancy a meet lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins

from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol

I'm 9ft with an afro and stilettos cute fancy a meet lol!! "

o0o0o my ideal man..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All my pictures are recent but the camera angle is taken from above to eliminate double chins

from now on will only be meeting men over 8ft who have to look down on me lol

I'm 9ft with an afro and stilettos cute fancy a meet lol!!

o0o0o my ideal man.. "

Woohoo just gotta get a big enough afro and some stilettos! then i'll be right at your door cute!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ms Lovepuppies here

Im going to go off the track a bit here so be warned lol

I think this is why I jumped straight into the deep end with the 'lifestyle' and started with dogging! Im a BBW and to my boob pics are gennuine, as is my face pick if I choose to send it. However, as much as I am a naughty minx I have body issues (BBW tummy yuk) and I dont want to send that now do I?

Dogging was the way to go for me (brave or stupid as a single girl at that time), and it meant I made the rules. I was never short of offers (funny that lol), and to be honest I could pick and chose my playmates. It give me bags of confidence which seemed to make me even more appealing. I could be the sexy dirty cow I wanted to be,men didnt have to approach me if they didnt like what they saw, and I never made any promises on what I did or didnt look like. Having said that I always dressed to impress, lucky to be a leggy and busty 5'7 BBW. SO short skrirt, high heels, black fishnet hold ups and a low cut top.

In our hobby (sexy funtimes) there will always be those who feel the need to lie, send other pics, knock years of their age and all in the hope of a meet. I have in the past had several meets where the guys are a lot older, shorter and aheeem not that blinking hung to be honest. The worst crime as I see it is the blatent lie. I say I am a BBW, its out there because I wanted to meet folk. People are not blind and we can see you!!! lol.

Oh and another thing SMELLS!!! What the ef is that all about you guys!!! Why oh why do some guys turn up for a meet and not aheeeem freshened up! Gags

Oh heck, told you. . . .what was this post about now??

Ms Lp xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Three in one day!

A social meet prior to a play meet helps to screen the fibbers out. Though they are often the ones who try to persuade me to meet at their homes or hotel rooms, I assume they hope I'll opt for the pity shag instead of the socially awkward "your pics are fake/ancient aren't they?" conversation. Unfortunately for them I'm not shy and have no problem straight talking.

The irony is that due to health issues I currently look nothing like my pics, but a lot of guys don't seem to care when I try to tell them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep changing my hair style/ length/colour so try to have a picture of all the different styles and colours and just add a comment in messages which one I am at the moment.

I am currently long/blonde

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah met a couple of guys who were nothing like the pics.

Im just like mine tho everyone says so,so nothing to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive found that everyone I have met looks the same, if not better than their pictures

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Strangely enough it happens to everyone who meets me "

You know I said I was coming down London??? Well, I've been abducted by aliens and cos all I was shouting was Al Quaeda, Obama, Dirty Bomb, Hillary Clinton, Afghaninstan Caves; I'm now stuck in Guantanamo Bay and doubt I'll be out in time to meet...I'm sure we'll be able to sort something out another time once this waterboarding is done and dusted

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