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2 cam or not 2 cam that is the question?

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By *zMale OP   Man
over a year ago

penzance

Well not really. Not wanting to upset anyone, just a general question for the room.

Are ppl who only cam and not meet classed as swingers??

I'll give MY answer in a while but just interested to find out, others thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think so no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

def not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope deff not just people who like to get off on some kind of voyourism both ways . but as I see it not harming anyone so carry on lots of people love it lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

dont think it makes them swingers no

i used to cam alot with people - but i also meet people

have been put off camming recently as i feel that some guys use it as a free porn service, expecting me to be playing whenever i am online - even at haf eight in the morning ffs.

so now i dont cam and have a lot more time for meets

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We don't cam, we much prefer hands on if people want a show they've got to put a little more interest in it than just get ya cock out

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By *zMale OP   Man
over a year ago

penzance

Thx for your input peeps. I'm of the same opinion.

Having said that! I'm only trying to play devils advocate now.

A cpl new to to scene and still finding their feet as it were and testing the waters, whilst looking for their first meet. Could they not be considered swingers?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Thx for your input peeps. I'm of the same opinion.

Having said that! I'm only trying to play devils advocate now.

A cpl new to to scene and still finding their feet as it were and testing the waters, whilst looking for their first meet. Could they not be considered swingers?

"

I would say no, not unless they meet.

We have tried most things before we started meeting people, including camming, but we wouldn't have said we were swingers if you go on cam to play.

Mind you we got told we were not swingers anyway as we don't play with couples, so we don't call ourselves anything and just say yes we play with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't cam, we much prefer hands on if people want a show they've got to put a little more interest in it than just get ya cock out "
sorry, meant to ask last week, how did you find the club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a trick question? Only reason I ask is that swinging is a state of mind, call it a lifestyle if you wish, or, as some would say just another label, it’s certainly not swinging to us, but then again neither is half the stuff that goes on in here, if they wanna call it swinging then let them, just move onto someone who fits into your definition of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say yes but in a very diluted format, swinging is no longer what it's first label said it was.

The first interpretation of swinging was one couple swapping with another.

Nowadays we are not really swingers, we are lifestylers.

Swingers play with only single men

Swingers play with only single females

Swingers play with couples

Swingers only watch as voyeurs

Swingers only like to be watched as exhibitionists

Swingers like bukake

Swingers like gangbangs

Swingers like BDSM without sexual intercourse

Swingers like to go to clubs and not play but socialise with other swingers

It's just a label which in the 21st century has expanded it's criteria.

Many people start out as swingers doing only very mild things and then move on to meets, swapping and more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thx for your input peeps. I'm of the same opinion.

Having said that! I'm only trying to play devils advocate now.

A cpl new to to scene and still finding their feet as it were and testing the waters, whilst looking for their first meet. Could they not be considered swingers? "

You can't really call yourself a swinger if you haven't tried it. Are you a murderer if you only think about doing it? Not in my opinion, but then again, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interesting

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interesting"
so what do you call people who havent got a partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?"

Singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?"

in demand. lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

in demand. lol "
lol....trust you!! x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

Singles"
so single males/females who attend parties, clubs etc...are not swingers? in your opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thx for your input peeps. I'm of the same opinion.

Having said that! I'm only trying to play devils advocate now.

A cpl new to to scene and still finding their feet as it were and testing the waters, whilst looking for their first meet. Could they not be considered swingers?

You can't really call yourself a swinger if you haven't tried it. Are you a murderer if you only think about doing it? Not in my opinion, but then again, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interesting"

Its a silly example as if a woman gets someone to kill her husband for her she is still a murderer. Swinging is not just black and white or couple couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they meet after a cam-cam session then imho they would be classed as swingers, but if they only do cam-cam and never meet, then they cannot be classed as swingers, maybe they'd be classed as voyeurs or something along those lines ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

Singlesso single males/females who attend parties, clubs etc...are not swingers? in your opinion? "

they may enjoy the swinging scene or swinging lifestyle, but my interpretaion of a swinger is a couple who swap partners with another couple. It may be an old fashioned view, and doesn't take into account multiple swaps or group activities, but like I said, it's my opinion. You may see it differently

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

Singlesso single males/females who attend parties, clubs etc...are not swingers? in your opinion?

they may enjoy the swinging scene or swinging lifestyle, but my interpretaion of a swinger is a couple who swap partners with another couple. It may be an old fashioned view, and doesn't take into account multiple swaps or group activities, but like I said, it's my opinion. You may see it differently "
cool that its your opinion......everyone is entitled to it darlin.....so considering this is a swinging site, why are the most sort after group on here single bi fems??? if they aint swingers n all that?

in my opinion some couples, and i mean SOME , not you specifically are very elitist on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

Singlesso single males/females who attend parties, clubs etc...are not swingers? in your opinion?

they may enjoy the swinging scene or swinging lifestyle, but my interpretaion of a swinger is a couple who swap partners with another couple. It may be an old fashioned view, and doesn't take into account multiple swaps or group activities, but like I said, it's my opinion. You may see it differently cool that its your opinion......everyone is entitled to it darlin.....so considering this is a swinging site, why are the most sort after group on here single bi fems??? if they aint swingers n all that?

in my opinion some couples, and i mean SOME , not you specifically are very elitist on here... "

Oh Femme, can an ugly old f**ker like me be elitist? lol. Have a look at our profile, we have played with singles, men and ladies, but my comment was made as I see it.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

Singlesso single males/females who attend parties, clubs etc...are not swingers? in your opinion?

they may enjoy the swinging scene or swinging lifestyle, but my interpretaion of a swinger is a couple who swap partners with another couple. It may be an old fashioned view, and doesn't take into account multiple swaps or group activities, but like I said, it's my opinion. You may see it differently cool that its your opinion......everyone is entitled to it darlin.....so considering this is a swinging site, why are the most sort after group on here single bi fems??? if they aint swingers n all that?

in my opinion some couples, and i mean SOME , not you specifically are very elitist on here...

Oh Femme, can an ugly old f**ker like me be elitist? lol. Have a look at our profile, we have played with singles, men and ladies, but my comment was made as I see it. "
fair enough you have your opinion , i indeed have mine....happy to agree to differ xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

Singlesso single males/females who attend parties, clubs etc...are not swingers? in your opinion?

they may enjoy the swinging scene or swinging lifestyle, but my interpretaion of a swinger is a couple who swap partners with another couple. It may be an old fashioned view, and doesn't take into account multiple swaps or group activities, but like I said, it's my opinion. You may see it differently cool that its your opinion......everyone is entitled to it darlin.....so considering this is a swinging site, why are the most sort after group on here single bi fems??? if they aint swingers n all that?

in my opinion some couples, and i mean SOME , not you specifically are very elitist on here...

Oh Femme, can an ugly old f**ker like me be elitist? lol. Have a look at our profile, we have played with singles, men and ladies, but my comment was made as I see it. fair enough you have your opinion , i indeed have mine....happy to agree to differ xxx"

Mwah xxx I'll buy you and your fella a couple of beers if you go to the Gloucester or Skeggy socials , hugs and liks

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

, I think you are only a swinger if you swap partners.

Some others will disagree with me, but ain't that what makes the forums interestingso what do you call people who havent got a partner?

Singlesso single males/females who attend parties, clubs etc...are not swingers? in your opinion?

they may enjoy the swinging scene or swinging lifestyle, but my interpretaion of a swinger is a couple who swap partners with another couple. It may be an old fashioned view, and doesn't take into account multiple swaps or group activities, but like I said, it's my opinion. You may see it differently cool that its your opinion......everyone is entitled to it darlin.....so considering this is a swinging site, why are the most sort after group on here single bi fems??? if they aint swingers n all that?

in my opinion some couples, and i mean SOME , not you specifically are very elitist on here...

Oh Femme, can an ugly old f**ker like me be elitist? lol. Have a look at our profile, we have played with singles, men and ladies, but my comment was made as I see it. fair enough you have your opinion , i indeed have mine....happy to agree to differ xxx

Mwah xxx I'll buy you and your fella a couple of beers if you go to the Gloucester or Skeggy socials , hugs and liks "
ok your on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ok your on xx "

.

Want to borrow my Disco CDs to practice your dance moves?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"

ok your on xx

.

Want to borrow my Disco CDs to practice your dance moves? "
lol......maybe on holiday then so not sure if im going just yet, but if i do go you will be the first i contact for dance moves darlin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just throwing in the single lady view ..id definately class myself as a swinger.Been there as a couple and as a single lady .I meet people (mainly single guys now ) for NSA sex and friendship,because im not looking for a full on relationship .I also sometimes attend clubs with selected partners and we play with couples . I love my single life but i love to have guys in it who want to adore me occasionally . i also love to webcam cos im a total exhibitionist .Cant think what else to call myself ????

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I hate the word swinger and am happy not to be called one

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Not sure what we are, but adopting the label 'swingers' has allowed us to contact people who share our lifestyle views and if sometimes our sexlives! There are so many variants through soft, full swap, bdsm etc that one label can't cover them all.. I saw one profile yesterday of a young single lad who wants men to basically abuse him physically and come up his arse without using a condom... is he a swinger?

Live and let live. Some folks get their kicks displaying themselves on cam, others (most here?) want to progress to hands-on sex with like-minded strangers. Each to their own, eh? Personally I don't get the cam thing, it does nowt for me, but I wouldn't deny anyone's wish to play that way.

M

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