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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Quick one, does everyone do verifications after meets, reason I ask got a meet tonight met lady couple times already????

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

It's a personalch oice. I don't if I don't feel the need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do verify after each meet. Up to person if they choose to show. Although I do sometimes look through my meets verify snd judge them on who they meet. Know it wrong but I do

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

do your thing what both of you prefer... no right or wrong

but I do think the multiple ones are more for the grandstanding, marking territory or mischief making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do your thing what both of you prefer... no right or wrong

but I do think the multiple ones are more for the grandstanding, marking territory or mischief making.

"

like a dog pissing on a lamp post

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"do your thing what both of you prefer... no right or wrong

but I do think the multiple ones are more for the grandstanding, marking territory or mischief making.

like a dog pissing on a lamp post "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for reply's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say only good manner to.

some will not meet less you have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot of ' cattle prodding' that goes on

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

its polite but only do one if you feel you can

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I used to do verifications straight after a meet the guys didn't verify me back it did however, help me to see when I last met them. Lol.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like to leave verifications, but some people I've met don't want a verification from a CD on their profile, so ask me not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were up to me, you would only be able to leave someone one verification in a 12 month period and all verifications more than 12 months old would delete automatically.

But hey, I'm not in charge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always an odd one and some people change _iews from carving every tree to seeing at scenting wood so you are better doing as you want and what feels right for you.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"There is a lot of ' cattle prodding' that goes on

"
Thats a novel way of putting it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's polite too

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"I like to leave verifications, but some people I've met don't want a verification from a CD on their profile, so ask me not to. "

yeah the ones that say "straight" in their profile

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

rarely do verifications for meets that I have had where I have had the pleasure of seeing their todger for a night or a fumble in the jungle as I can't be arsed with 100 profile looks off someone they have met...I don't ask for them either..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to leave verifications, but some people I've met don't want a verification from a CD on their profile, so ask me not to. "

thats a bit iffy isnt it? not wanting to have a veri from you on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a lot of ' cattle prodding' that goes on

Thats a novel way of putting it! "

I say it like I see it

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We've met people (together and separate, play and social) and not everyone has left us veri's and vice versa, especially if we've seen them a couple times

Like the other night - we met with two guys and only one chose to write us a veri and display ours when we did one for each

Everyone is different!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I do tend to leave veris for first meets and only after that if its a long time between meets or the guy was exceptionally good and deserved another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a veri. It's good to receive and also give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont ask for em as im slwaysin trouble

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"thats a bit iffy isnt it? not wanting to have a veri from you on their profile"

It doesn't bother me. It's from people who prefer to keep who they play with discreet. I don't mind the peeps on here knowing I'm bi. Although to be fair, the skirt and false boobies are a clue; not everyone is that comfortable with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one veri could be social

one could be sexual

or ever better a mix

a string on veris that have met over 1week or month that all basically say the same thing from the same person normally screams to me of some form of ownership

and sorry in all bluntness, there are some fucking ragers(male female couples) who have no idea what is meant by casual sex encounters...even hitting jealousy peaks when they find out someones met someone else...in fact, even blunter, those types I'd just tell them to fuck off off the site and come back when they understand things better

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

we leave one, provided it's been a good meet of course!

Their choice to show or not.

Wouldn't leave multiple veri's though, only if it had been a while in between meets.

Personal preference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think if you've met a few times then you should do at least one .

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Although to be fair, the skirt and false boobies are a clue; not everyone is that comfortable with it. "

...breaking news.......Tina Titz has false boobies...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Although to be fair, the skirt and false boobies are a clue; not everyone is that comfortable with it.

...breaking news.......Tina Titz has false boobies..."
*courtesy of the quite obvious information department*?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"*courtesy of the quite obvious information department*? "

Excuse me young lady, if you have started up a department without my prior consent, then stern words will be forthcoming

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"one veri could be social

one could be sexual

or ever better a mix

a string on veris that have met over 1week or month that all basically say the same thing from the same person normally screams to me of some form of ownership

and sorry in all bluntness, there are some fucking ragers(male female couples) who have no idea what is meant by casual sex encounters...even hitting jealousy peaks when they find out someones met someone else...in fact, even blunter, those types I'd just tell them to fuck off off the site and come back when they understand things better"

This, spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do a Veri, then the other person can choose and likewise, I always like a Veri but don't always post it to my profile, personally I take it as a little thank you for meeting and a politeness rather thank fuck and leave even if it is a repeat performance.

Each one to their own. If more people on the site accepted and applauded others' individualities it'd be a far cheerier site.

X

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land


"I do verify after each meet. Up to person if they choose to show. Although I do sometimes look through my meets verify snd judge them on who they meet. Know it wrong but I do "

No it's certainly not wrong ... it IS all down to personal preference at the end of the day ... we are all trying to create an impression by choosing which verifs to display, or not as the case may be ... and I for one would certainly go through a potential meets verifs, and the one's they have left, and the sort of peeps they choose to meet ... call me anal but it seems to work for me and I have very rarely been wrong ... but no I don't tend to leave one after every single meet unless it has been exceptional or there has been a big gap between meets !!!

Hope this helps ... but verifs really are a minefield ... quite literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick one, does everyone do verifications after meets, reason I ask got a meet tonight met lady couple times already????"

You mite aswell make it even and let her Do One for tonite then you got 3 from each lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do innitial first meet all the time generally,then mite pop back 3 or 4 meets later like a update veri then they dont get another lol x or if say i met at a party then a mth later met in a 3sum it a diff type meet but that would Do i think x I try to Do maximum of two x it gets daft otherwise because they are now fuckbuds i reckon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again for replies, quite a newbie on forums and got to say some great people on here . Just got home after another enjoyable meet and still not sure whether or not to do verification??????. Didn't mention after last verification I left for her she had two abusive messages off men she had rejected before, why do they do that??. Right bedtime for me, all have good bank holiday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they leave me one, then i leave them one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks again for replies, quite a newbie on forums and got to say some great people on here . Just got home after another enjoyable meet and still not sure whether or not to do verification??????. Didn't mention after last verification I left for her she had two abusive messages off men she had rejected before, why do they do that??. Right bedtime for me, all have good bank holiday "

People can be idiots, that's why I don't show veri's on my profile anymore. We show all our veri's on our couple profile. Seems to cause a few issues but we're not really bothered as we avoid uptight 'soap opera' people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave one if I think the person has been everything they say they were ....

Sometimes people change and I think bugger it but that is the nature of the beast

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's only polite to leave one at very least for first meet. Friend and I got bit carried away and left each other one after all 3 meets recently. I look forward to verify. It's bit like a re_iew and showing they are willing to publicly show they liked me. People who don't like seeing repeat verify so what??!! Yea maybe 5 max but a few repeat meets are good shows was good time and not a one off meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why people have a problem with being looked at by their meets fellow verifys or potential meets. Personally I don't look at the looked at me page. Doesn't bother me who looks. If they message me and refer to someone I've met ill txt the person. I got good meet through a guy seeing my verify on friends page

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