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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat cheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just think about other people that are worse off than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex , drink , eat , go out n get dressed up

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

wine wine & more wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have some vodka, watch a DVD.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"have some vodka, watch a DVD."
What DVD would you choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself? "

I look at your pictures and pleasure myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wank"

Fuck me ! You are always grumpy !! You must be constantly wanking !!!!! Maybe try chocolate ! Its obviously not working !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex , drink , eat , go out n get dressed up

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is this the right way round

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Cover myself in raspberry sauce and have naughty thoughts

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Cover myself in raspberry sauce and have naughty thoughts"
Isn't that a waste of Raspberry sauce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At min I remember last sat best night of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat crisps

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Cover myself in raspberry sauce and have naughty thoughtsIsn't that a waste of Raspberry sauce? "

Can't put a price on cheeriness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go do a good deed...wrks every time

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"go do a good deed...wrks every time"
A good dirty deed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have some vodka, watch a DVD.What DVD would you choose?"

Something a bit sexy and a bit weird so it makes me laugh, like the cement garden which i watched last night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take one look at body in the mirror lol

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Haven't figured out today : (

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"have some vodka, watch a DVD.What DVD would you choose?

Something a bit sexy and a bit weird so it makes me laugh, like the cement garden which i watched last night."

I've just looked it up on IMDB, never seen it, but may give it a go...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wank

Fuck me ! You are always grumpy !! You must be constantly wanking !!!!! Maybe try chocolate ! Its obviously not working !!! "

Then ill be fat!!???

Least my option I'm exercising!!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Cover myself in raspberry sauce and have naughty thoughtsIsn't that a waste of Raspberry sauce?

Can't put a price on cheeriness "

The price of Raspberries is extortionate!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not sure I can say on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eat cheesey cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Focus on something else.

Something more positive.

My dad calls the mind a "mental filing cabinet".

"Put the negative shit to the back of it son"

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

been thinking all day feel that crap feel like getting steaming d*unk

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Eat cheesey cock

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With crackers?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Cover myself in raspberry sauce and have naughty thoughtsIsn't that a waste of Raspberry sauce?

Can't put a price on cheeriness The price of Raspberries is extortionate! "

I have a couple of very big jars of strawberry sauce if that helps?

The jam didn't set very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a walk it release Stress...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The sea

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Cover myself in raspberry sauce and have naughty thoughtsIsn't that a waste of Raspberry sauce?

Can't put a price on cheeriness The price of Raspberries is extortionate!

I have a couple of very big jars of strawberry sauce if that helps?

The jam didn't set very well "

Would I have to apply it myself ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wank

Fuck me ! You are always grumpy !! You must be constantly wanking !!!!! Maybe try chocolate ! Its obviously not working !!!

Then ill be fat!!???

Least my option I'm exercising!! "

Arr !! Well fat and happy works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my teens I cheered myself up by shooting things.....once I even gave myself a good laugh by shooting my best friend

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Now that I am old...and sad....I cheer myself up by sitting outside and enjoying the wonders of the natural world.....that and reading the obits

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself? "

Have a wank

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself? "

Zumba

The company of good friends

Reading

But best of all - a bloody good fuck.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Continue my relentless search for a reversing goldfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself? "

Buy shoes

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself?

Buy shoes "

Only took 38 posts!!! Yay!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy underwear. Or listen to some 'choooones'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself? "

"

Write down your thoughts on some paper, crunch them up and set the paper on fire...safely

Write down the good things you've experienced in life..things you appreciate in your past or things you're looking forward to in the future.

Exercise...a 20-30min jog or visit to the gym

Return home, have a long hot bath or shower..make yourself nice and smooth wherever required...

Watch something emotional, be it romance or comedy. I can recommend 'before sunrise'

Maybe end your evening in a long, slow, sensual wank..candles, lube, music and a half dry/half damp towel nearby so when you've reached the explosive end you can clean yourself up, remain in your bed and sleep your worries away.

Hope that's helped x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Shopping. I know it's wrong and my wardrobe is testament to how bad things have got at times. However, I have some lovely clothes, shoes and bags.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Terry Pratchett, Bill Bryson, chocolate, Valium, wine, sex (wank if no men/women available from instashag.com), stroke my pussies, pasta carbonara, sports mixtures, Not The 9 O'clock News, Fast Show, Mary Whitehouse Experience

Any or all of the above guaranteed to cheer me up when feeling down

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By *outhernchappieMan
over a year ago

brighton

Watch eastenders to feel better

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Look in the mirror,it's hard to be sad,when you look this good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself? "

Push somebody I don't like down the stairs!...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

take a 'reality check' and kick myself up the arse..

or take the dogs out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eat icecream and chocolate

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Watch eastenders to feel better"
Thats just nasty lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

eat chocolate log onto the fab lounge . have a walk... not a typo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look in the mirror,it's hard to be sad,when you look this good. "

You have cheered me up looking at you.

I think of something good I have done in the past, or something stupid. It usualky works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good massage head to toe failing that chat to friends go down the pub or watch a good movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself? "

I give myself an hour to feel sorry for myself and to reflect on the fact that it never changed my circumstances, let alone the way I felt about them. I have a friend I speak to regularly and we always get the bad news done with first before making an effort to cheer each other up.

She lives in the states and we regularly send each other little bits and bobs. Clothing, accessories, snacks, reads; last month she sent me a 1969 Ford Mustang Fastback emblem turned into a coat hanger. That made my week right after I got turned down after a job inter_iew.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"...you are feeling stressed or sorry for yourself?

I give myself an hour to feel sorry for myself and to reflect on the fact that it never changed my circumstances, let alone the way I felt about them. I have a friend I speak to regularly and we always get the bad news done with first before making an effort to cheer each other up.

She lives in the states and we regularly send each other little bits and bobs. Clothing, accessories, snacks, reads; last month she sent me a 1969 Ford Mustang Fastback emblem turned into a coat hanger. That made my week right after I got turned down after a job inter_iew."

Thats lovely, I like unusual presents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats lovely, I like unusual presents. "

Last month it was also a box of the new Twinkies with a note that said:

'For the Zombie Apocalypse xx'

That made me warm and fuzzy.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Thats lovely, I like unusual presents.

Last month it was also a box of the new Twinkies with a note that said:

'For the Zombie Apocalypse xx'

That made me warm and fuzzy."

Lmao...she knows you well, what are the new Twinkies like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats lovely, I like unusual presents.

Last month it was also a box of the new Twinkies with a note that said:

'For the Zombie Apocalypse xx'

That made me warm and fuzzy.Lmao...she knows you well, what are the new Twinkies like? "

They're without a doubt the most dry and sugary cake I have ever eaten. I choked on every single one of them (that I didnt hand out), even with milk or tea. But they're the first I ever had and I was happy that I got to try them at last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats lovely, I like unusual presents.

Last month it was also a box of the new Twinkies with a note that said:

'For the Zombie Apocalypse xx'

That made me warm and fuzzy.Lmao...she knows you well, what are the new Twinkies like?

They're without a doubt the most dry and sugary cake I have ever eaten. I choked on every single one of them (that I didnt hand out), even with milk or tea. But they're the first I ever had and I was happy that I got to try them at last "

The old ones weren't much better, doesn't stop my kids getting through several metric tons of the damn things whenever I take them over there...

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Twinkies are good for Trifles...

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By *IXERONEMan
over a year ago

caerphilly

Hot shower then put on brand new socks couple of cans and one big bar of chocolate works every time xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twinkies are good for Trifles... "

Oh hell yeah why didnt I think of that? Derp a derp a derp LOL thanks Clare xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ring my best friends, they always make me laugh and feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put my headphones in turn my music up and sing ( awfully ) and dance around the house and garden

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Look in the mirror,it's hard to be sad,when you look this good.

You have cheered me up looking at you.

I think of something good I have done in the past, or something stupid. It usualky works."

You have impeccable taste.

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

See people worse off situation than you kills off this mood.Think whats going on in Egypt and Syria then look at your problems again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mediate, redirect the negative energy elsewhere.

Or I go out on my bike and pedal very,very hard until I feel like its all gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch the ringer off & go to bed & hide under the duvet,,,which is where I am heading now

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I usually participate in a bit of lurking, all done profesinly u under sT and

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Switch the ringer off & go to bed & hide under the duvet,,,which is where I am heading now "

Stay up,they're having a party on another thread.

There's quavers,chocolate,hoola hoops,and cream soda,and I'm reliably informed,somebodies going to sneak a bottle of blue nun in later ssshhhh

Tempted eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of junk food in order, now where's Chinese menu

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

music, full blast

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

www.youtube.com/watch?v=62eTq8ErUOQ

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Double puddings ..... No innuendo just two puddings , skip the starter and main coarse if you must

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

music, read, talk with friends and walk the dogs all help....

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By *ammyjayneWoman
over a year ago

hull

Go for run and work out.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Yep... alcohol food and sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does depend. But I have found running helps a lot. 30 mins and the head is clear.

If I'm able to I either have a chat with evie or even better stll just get a hug from her or my son.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"It does depend. But I have found running helps a lot. 30 mins and the head is clear.

If I'm able to I either have a chat with evie or even better stll just get a hug from her or my son. "

Awwwwwwww mwahh x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sit back and realise how truly lucky I am - that usually cheers me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goon Shows or Billy Connolly...

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Goon Shows or Billy Connolly... "
Good choice!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Goon Shows or Billy Connolly... "

Go on admit that Michael Bentine's Potty time was brill as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Destroy something beautiful/burn something. Usually puts a smile on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym or some good old comedy ....stand up, tv-shows ....a good laugh helps .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goon Shows or Billy Connolly...

Go on admit that Michael Bentine's Potty time was brill as well

"

Yoiks...!!! I remember that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, I shop. And when I mean I shop, I shop til I drop lol. And I buy leather jackets lol.

Or at times, go to the gym and get it all out of my system and then get myself some grilled chicken.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Goon Shows or Billy Connolly...

Go on admit that Michael Bentine's Potty time was brill as well

Yoiks...!!! I remember that.... "

*breaking news........euro reveals his real age......*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exercise, love that rush of doing sports

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goon Shows or Billy Connolly...

Go on admit that Michael Bentine's Potty time was brill as well

Yoiks...!!! I remember that....

*breaking news........euro reveals his real age......*"

Mr Euro confided in our reporter that he had been stalked and outed by a much older man...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Goon Shows or Billy Connolly...

Go on admit that Michael Bentine's Potty time was brill as well

Yoiks...!!! I remember that....

*breaking news........euro reveals his real age......*

Mr Euro confided in our reporter that he had been stalked and outed by a much older man... "

Oi, less of the much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

biscuits or chocolate. has to be sweet stuff

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