FabSwingers.com forum: Boring

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering does a boring, vanilla(ish) person appeal or do the more exciting among us have more fun? Not a look at me I promise, just something that popped into my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the person that appeals nothing else.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

vanilla doesnt have to be boring f its what you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be interested in someone boring - whether it was in relation to their personality, lifestyle choices or sex life.

Life's too short!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change."
being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its as boring as you allow it to be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how fit she is =p

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring is subjective,although why would you spend time with anyone that bored you sexually anyway.....be like wake me up when you've finished

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy

Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I have found things can only be 'boring' when I let them be - if i flutter my eyelashes, whine or refuse to suck cock i can get my own way everytime

*This is F btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say this post is deffo living up to it's name lol. I'm jogging on.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I have to say this post is deffo living up to it's name lol. I'm jogging on."

Bye then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy

Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around. "

Floggers, flails, pinwheels and vampire glove lol! I'm not trying to play oneupmanship on this - I'm just saying that for me swinging is quite vanilla.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I totally understand what you mean! I've had to remove my kinks from my profile, due to guys thinking they know what I want or even know what it means, so will just be doing vanilla meets until I find someone else that is experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom is for boring people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a kinky friend of mine this week and we were saying, we like vanilla, but when its Haagen Daaz vanilla!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

Don't think she knows what she is lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya love the boring sex!

When that popup comes up for "Wanna chat" on my laptop..I'm the FIRST ONE TO CALL!!!

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy

Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around.

Floggers, flails, pinwheels and vampire glove lol! I'm not trying to play oneupmanship on this - I'm just saying that for me swinging is quite vanilla. "

Define VANILLA for us please , cos what I get upto , I can't think can be defined as vanilla , but I'm all ears

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

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IM SAYING IM VANILLA, NOT EXPERIENCED IN THE OTHER STUFF

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't look down on people on here regardless of what they do or don't do.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

IM SAYING IM VANILLA, NOT EXPERIENCED IN THE OTHER STUFF"
NO NEED TO SHOUT!!! I was asking a question to clarify, that does not come across in your OP!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

Don't think she knows what she is lol."
I do. Im just after some fun, some sex regardless of how it comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you describing as vanilla?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

Don't think she knows what she is lol.I do. Im just after some fun, some sex regardless of how it comes. "

So not fussy then. Phew glad we never met lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What are you describing as vanilla? "
To be honest, not really sure, I perceive It as someone who just has sex without the "kink" as they call it. I expect I am wrong though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you describing as vanilla? To be honest, not really sure, I perceive It as someone who just has sex without the "kink" as they call it. I expect I am wrong though"

You still need to be more specific

What are you calling kinks?

One persons kink is another persons vanilla!

Why not forget the labels and just go with what your happy with!

Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always been a big fan of bland myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.

One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.

One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

That's what I said ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you describing as vanilla? To be honest, not really sure, I perceive It as someone who just has sex without the "kink" as they call it. I expect I am wrong though"

Well that clears that up then lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.

One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

That's what I said ha ha

Well I ain't bending over so you can spank me Lucy

Sorreee never saw it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.

One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

That's what I said ha ha

Well I ain't bending over so you can spank me Lucy

Sorreee never saw it.

Oh please Ben

let me spank you

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I love boring people...

When I am boring them with my man drill, they love it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love boring people...

When I am boring them with my man drill, they love it too"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Amazing sex...could be another's crap.

One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

That's what I said ha ha

Well I ain't bending over so you can spank me Lucy

Sorreee never saw it.

Oh please Ben

let me spank you

You can spank me on any day that doesn't have a Y in it.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others."

Im sensing a theme here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others."

And people should be respectful of this. I recently did my sex map, there were some things on there that were things I found seriously weird.... but other people may have found them kinky. I know my some of my kinks would scare the crap out of some people, but they are mine and something I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others."

lol.

Lucy's gonna spank ya! Or try to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kink is more fun but so is old school now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others."

Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!

Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!

Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him

Did you ? Wow great minds

Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

Don't think she knows what she is lol.I do. Im just after some fun, some sex regardless of how it comes.

So not fussy then. Phew glad we never met lol."
I am fussy, just didn't feel the need to say it. ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im vanilla ... Im also strawberry and a touch of melon sorbet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Im boring too

I think I appeal just because I don't like my arse being turned into 45 shades of purple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!

Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him

Did you ? Wow great minds

Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee?"

Oh Ryan!! With waders on ( that's my kink) please

I will be gentle

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I'll be honest - one of the reasons I'm not meeting in the swinging circles is because I find it vanilla. And whilst there's nothing wrong with vanilla from time to time, I need some kink in my life. It has resulted in me not having sex this month but that's about to change.being naive now but swingers do have kinks from what I've read on here. Good for you enjoy

Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around.

Floggers, flails, pinwheels and vampire glove lol! I'm not trying to play oneupmanship on this - I'm just saying that for me swinging is quite vanilla. "
so are you saying just because someone does boost about being into this stuff that they are not. Lots of people don't give intimate details of there sex life are they any different to those that do. I know plenty of swingers into kinks as many as I know sent, they just don't brag about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Individual merit. Dirt and debauchery is great but intimate and sensual can be better.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Yea but Ruby likes her butt whipped with wet kippers. Common or garden swingers don't carry those around. "

Always thought there was something fishy about you, that's why I stopped stalking ya

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Floggers, flails and pinwheels arnt what I would describe as a kink. Now blood letting and aphixiation are more like kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So the OP looks down on people she perceives to be Vanilla?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!

Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him

Did you ? Wow great minds

Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee?

Oh Ryan!! With waders on ( that's my kink) please

I will be gentle

I am definitely gonna get some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering does a boring, vanilla(ish) person appeal or do the more exciting among us have more fun? Not a look at me I promise, just something that popped into my head"

At the moment coming out of an 11 year relationship which was mainly vanilla and me far from vanilla as you could go!

i like the mix of them both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are only vanilla if you aren't aware of the swinging lifestyle...most guys on here seem to use this site as a way of getting a one nighter without knowing what the site is all about....I would class a lot of ppl on here as vanilla tbh

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm just 'nilla with a hint of curiosity and exploration!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

In 1990, I met an Aberdonian lady 13 yrs my senior. We were in bed within 2 hrs of meeting

We were together for 5 yrs and the last 3 of them were what we described as an open relationship.

Was I swinging then or just pulling in the real vanilla world

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"One persons Kink..might not even be considered a kink to others.

Ha ha Ryan I have already said that!!

Can I spank you now? Ben won't let me spank him

Did you ? Wow great minds

Anything for you Lucy. Over your knee?

Oh Ryan!! With waders on ( that's my kink) please

I will be gentle

I am definitely gonna get some

Haha and I have

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