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By *andS_Glasgow OP Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

We are reasonably new so sorry if we are repeating this

We got a request to meet - from a verified cple - we chatted and they sounded lovely - they then asked for more pics (no problem) - until we said to VERY SEASONED friends - they pointed a few things out about their profile so we backed off - we are new to being active here and love it - pity there wasnt a Name and Shame group allowed !!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

So, someone else told you there was something wrong with a profile...

You decided not to take anything any further...

And you wish you could name and shame?

Baffling....

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Had you not read their profile before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some genuine profiles could be fake and visa versa if you think a profile isn't honest or there is something wrong voice it to admin.

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By *andS_Glasgow OP Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

We were NAIVE - believed that All Sugar is Sweet - ten learned that you get fakes here that look so Genuine !!!

APOLOGIES for thinking that Verified and Gold Member = truly trusted !!!

"So, someone else told you there was something wrong with a profile...

You decided not to take anything any further...

And you wish you could name and shame?

Baffling....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

We are reasonably new so sorry if we are repeating this

seasoned friends?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seasoned friends?!

Perhaps they like salt n pepper on it...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

We are reasonably new so sorry if we are repeating this

Fairly simple way to test if the profile is genuine or not early on - ask for a phone call between all of you, and NOT just the women. The real fakes (oxymoron alert!) will disappear like fairy dust.. The genuine ones you will hopefully have a laugh with. But the first warning sign I'd have caught on to would be the asking for more pics - there are more than enough in your public gallery to get a good idea what the two of you are all about...

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way we do things now is to just swap facial pics and maybe a body pic, that's really all people need to decide whether they want to meet or not. We accept friends requests only after we've met. If someone (single or couple) push for more pics we just say, you're going to see more if we play lol, and if that isn't right with them, then we take things no further. We've found this works for us, most people who are genuine are quite happy with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Always say if something doesn't feel right then back away, trust your gut instincts and not what someone else has written. Like someone has already said ask for a phone call ( make sure you have a playgo ) or go on a chatroom with them on here, the non genuine will make excuses. Never send pics any other way but messages from here (if you feel you need to) we had someone recently asking for afew pics via email,we have enough on here they dont need more.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you? "

How much fun would that be if your friends made your decisions for you, that's what I should do for the bank holiday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you sure these friends just didn't want you meeting others so tried to put you off?

im still baffled as to what you want to name and shame them for? having a profile your mates don't like?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"are you sure these friends just didn't want you meeting others so tried to put you off?

im still baffled as to what you want to name and shame them for? having a profile your mates don't like?

This. It does sound rather harsh to consider naming and shaming someone for what may not be more than a poorly written profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you?

How much fun would that be if your friends made your decisions for you, that's what I should do for the bank holiday lol"

As your new friend I have decided you should come and shag me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP u shoulda asked me for help..I know most of the fakes in person...shagged a good few of them too!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Hi

We are reasonably new so sorry if we are repeating this

welcome

sometimes politics are at play and although 'seasoned' you may not know the history. ( THERE MAY NOT BE ANY ).. but there have been/are many warring fractions in the scene over the years...

good to seek advice, but go with your GUT feel.

good luck

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"OP u shoulda asked me for help..I know most of the fakes in person...shagged a good few of them too!

Only part of me is fake. Bet you didn't find out which bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

We are reasonably new so sorry if we are repeating this

welcome

sometimes politics are at play and although 'seasoned' you may not know the history. ( THERE MAY NOT BE ANY ).. but there have been/are many warring fractions in the scene over the years...

good to seek advice, but go with your GUT feel.

good luck

This and at the end of the day you should make your own decisions, not sure either why you would to name & shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you?

How much fun would that be if your friends made your decisions for you, that's what I should do for the bank holiday lol

As your new friend I have decided you should come and shag me

u'll have to get thru me first NN!...wait..I mean come on in n have a fiddle

*maybe I should of asked Wyrdwoman first but am sure she's fine with it, altho her phones broke or she's out shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP u shoulda asked me for help..I know most of the fakes in person...shagged a good few of them too!

Only part of me is fake. Bet you didn't find out which bit.

personality?

ooh am in a cheeky mood this morn(glad I'm separated by a distance lolol)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you?

How much fun would that be if your friends made your decisions for you, that's what I should do for the bank holiday lol

As your new friend I have decided you should come and shag me

u'll have to get thru me first NN!...wait..I mean come on in n have a fiddle

*maybe I should of asked Wyrdwoman first but am sure she's fine with it, altho her phones broke or she's out shopping"

I'm fine watching you tart about, you tart.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"OP u shoulda asked me for help..I know most of the fakes in person...shagged a good few of them too!

Only part of me is fake. Bet you didn't find out which bit.

personality?

ooh am in a cheeky mood this morn(glad I'm separated by a distance lolol)"

You are so dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP u shoulda asked me for help..I know most of the fakes in person...shagged a good few of them too!

Only part of me is fake. Bet you didn't find out which bit.

personality?

ooh am in a cheeky mood this morn(glad I'm separated by a distance lolol)

You are so dead!"

brinnngit! lol

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Welcome! Hope you have lots of fun. As View said, there can be politics at play, don't let others (however experienced) put you off folk - I've just looked at your status regarding the tight circle of veri'ing each other - might be a group of friends playing together lots looking to expand the circle - maybe a missed opportunity there

By the way, as you're near Glasgow, just be careful of that Keenfucktographer bloke - biggest fake and timewaster I've ever met

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"OP u shoulda asked me for help..I know most of the fakes in person...shagged a good few of them too!

Only part of me is fake. Bet you didn't find out which bit.

personality?

ooh am in a cheeky mood this morn(glad I'm separated by a distance lolol)

You are so dead!

brinnngit! lol"

Revenge is a dish best served cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome! Hope you have lots of fun. As View said, there can be politics at play, don't let others (however experienced) put you off folk - I've just looked at your status regarding the tight circle of veri'ing each other - might be a group of friends playing together lots looking to expand the circle - maybe a missed opportunity there

By the way, as you're near Glasgow, just be careful of that Keenfucktographer bloke - biggest fake and timewaster I've ever met

I'll have u know I was one of the first to offer friendly advice to the OP when they had joined..altho admittedly I was after a shag...surprise surprise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP u shoulda asked me for help..I know most of the fakes in person...shagged a good few of them too!

Only part of me is fake. Bet you didn't find out which bit.

personality?

ooh am in a cheeky mood this morn(glad I'm separated by a distance lolol)

You are so dead!

brinnngit! lol

Revenge is a dish best served cold.

Thankfully I've not sampled ur cooking!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

By the way, as you're near Glasgow, just be careful of that Keenfucktographer bloke - biggest fake and timewaster I've ever met

I'll have u know I was one of the first to offer friendly advice to the OP when they had joined..altho admittedly I was after a shag...surprise surprise lol"

Why was I so not surprised by that

Mind you, looks like you could soon be User No Longer Alive if Wyrdwoman gets her mitts on you

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Mind you, looks like you could soon be User No Longer Alive if Wyrdwoman gets her mitts on you

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Were they asking for pics of Mr? As there are none on show and we always want to see pics of both first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naming and shaming is not a good idea because it would

(a) be a knee jerk reaction

(b) be an opinion

Now of course there is this man Ian on here, pretends he's single blah blah blah

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi

We are reasonably new so sorry if we are repeating this

Forgive, not had my coffee yet, but I'm confused: named and shamed for what exactly? Discretion not your strong suit then discussing meets?

Perhaps if you used your own gut feelings and not listen to people who may have a hidden agenda (did I mention discretion) you'll have fun.

This is a great site: welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, as you're near Glasgow, just be careful of that Keenfucktographer bloke - biggest fake and timewaster I've ever met

A friend of a friend said he's a fake. It's actually a sweet old lady from Sussex called Marjorie. She has an active imagination.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Welcome.

We all come across the odd fake from time to time. Then there are those you'll end up classing as time wasters.

Remember that the site is merely a tool to contact others. Learn to use the tool your way, trust your instincts, report abuse and suspicion of fakery to admin and move on. The person/people you find attractive and want to meet may not feel the same about you.

Finally, if you had met them and verified each other then went on to meet the people they have met would you feel that was a self referencing group?

Relax, enjoy and do what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you?

How much fun would that be if your friends made your decisions for you, that's what I should do for the bank holiday lol

As your new friend I have decided you should come and shag me

*drops phone* just let me know when and where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP whilst you are new it is hard on here, but you will soon get the hang of things. My number one rule is "if it seems to good to be true, it usually is".

A lot if other posters have said you should take your friends advice with a pinch of salt (paraphrasing) as they may have issues with the couple you were chatting too. You need to make your own choices based on what you know. For example I find one point on your profile strange so if we were chatting I'd ask you about it to clarify what you mean rather then discuss it with someone then want to name & shame you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way, as you're near Glasgow, just be careful of that Keenfucktographer bloke - biggest fake and timewaster I've ever met

A friend of a friend said he's a fake. It's actually a sweet old lady from Sussex called Marjorie. She has an active imagination.

she was just annoyed I never turned up for a meet!...I rang the bell on the carehome many times at 2am with no answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you?

How much fun would that be if your friends made your decisions for you, that's what I should do for the bank holiday lol

As your new friend I have decided you should come and shag me

*drops phone* just let me know when and where

where's this pub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP Just reading your first line in profile .. Sounds like you will only have time for one meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do your friends make all your decisions on here for you?

How much fun would that be if your friends made your decisions for you, that's what I should do for the bank holiday lol

As your new friend I have decided you should come and shag me

*drops phone* just let me know when and where

where's this pub?

Where ever you want it to be lol

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By *andS_Glasgow OP Couple
over a year ago

Giffnock

Wow - now that was a can of worms we opened up

thanks for the advice - it will ALL be taken on board and we will now have the time of our lives here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a verified couple for a few days seemed nice and genuine but then started asking me if i would meet with the male only. I asked where the female would be and they told me to forget about it so i got a bit suspicious and decided to leave it. Just wondered in this kind of situation i take it the right thing to do is report them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples are a myth!! I'm telling you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best thing to do is have a cam chat with them on here or skype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was talking to a verified couple for a few days seemed nice and genuine but then started asking me if i would meet with the male only. I asked where the female would be and they told me to forget about it so i got a bit suspicious and decided to leave it. Just wondered in this kind of situation i take it the right thing to do is report them?"

not reportable

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