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The art of getting a point across in a club

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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After reading the thread about getting a point acrossin the forums, can anyone help me with this one.

In a club, no names, but they do have a few guys who the minute they see me and my fella going to a room will within 2 mins be down there. Some of the rooms have locks on which don't present a problem, but one room which we do like to use has no door. We have in the past told them we are not interested in playing with them and that I find it distracting knowing they are there. Are we being unreasonable in asking them to PLEASE leave us alone and if so would the statement be better coming from me, who will be polite or my fella, who shall I say would not be so polite

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"After reading the thread about getting a point acrossin the forums, can anyone help me with this one.

In a club, no names, but they do have a few guys who the minute they see me and my fella going to a room will within 2 mins be down there. Some of the rooms have locks on which don't present a problem, but one room which we do like to use has no door. We have in the past told them we are not interested in playing with them and that I find it distracting knowing they are there. Are we being unreasonable in asking them to PLEASE leave us alone and if so would the statement be better coming from me, who will be polite or my fella, who shall I say would not be so polite"

How about you first then, if they don't take the hint, your fella?

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"After reading the thread about getting a point acrossin the forums, can anyone help me with this one.

In a club, no names, but they do have a few guys who the minute they see me and my fella going to a room will within 2 mins be down there. Some of the rooms have locks on which don't present a problem, but one room which we do like to use has no door. We have in the past told them we are not interested in playing with them and that I find it distracting knowing they are there. Are we being unreasonable in asking them to PLEASE leave us alone and if so would the statement be better coming from me, who will be polite or my fella, who shall I say would not be so polite

How about you first then, if they don't take the hint, your fella?"

But am I within my 'rights' when it's an open room to tell them to sod off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them they can watch but not to closely... I find that works.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"After reading the thread about getting a point acrossin the forums, can anyone help me with this one.

In a club, no names, but they do have a few guys who the minute they see me and my fella going to a room will within 2 mins be down there. Some of the rooms have locks on which don't present a problem, but one room which we do like to use has no door. We have in the past told them we are not interested in playing with them and that I find it distracting knowing they are there. Are we being unreasonable in asking them to PLEASE leave us alone and if so would the statement be better coming from me, who will be polite or my fella, who shall I say would not be so polite

How about you first then, if they don't take the hint, your fella?

But am I within my 'rights' when it's an open room to tell them to sod off? "

I know you like that room but if you don't want to be watched then a locked private room would be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I know you like that room but if you don't want to be watched then a locked private room would be better."

Sounds pretty logical!!

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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" I know you like that room but if you don't want to be watched then a locked private room would be better.

Sounds pretty logical!! "

But spoils MY fun too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that basically within club rules if there is an open room or no door then you have to expect to be watched and not within your rights to ask them not.

There is a room like that at my local club and we never used it for that reason.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


" I know you like that room but if you don't want to be watched then a locked private room would be better.

Sounds pretty logical!!

But spoils MY fun too"

So does being watched. It's an open room. You accept that when you go in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can expect people to watch without pestering.. but you can't expect them to go away if it's an open room.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

I'm with the majority of the rest on this one. If it's privacy you want find the locked room. You say the one with no door is your favorite room. Not sure how that can be if you don't like being watched by certain individuals. If you use an open room you are as much saying you want to be watched as long as they don't touch. Must admit I only ever prefer a locked room for that very reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the best rooms at clubs are the open ones

Id rather lock myself in a not so nicer room because while you don't have to play with anyone you don't want to,you can't stop people from watching

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

they are not following you, you have told them they have no chance of playing with you.... and they respect your wishes by not asking or getting close,

but if you are playing in an open room as long as they are respecting your space then i agree with everyone else, you don't have the right to tell them to leave......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Locked rooms are for privacy, you choose to go in an open room

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm with the majority of the rest on this one. If it's privacy you want find the locked room. You say the one with no door is your favorite room. Not sure how that can be if you don't like being watched by certain individuals. If you use an open room you are as much saying you want to be watched as long as they don't touch. Must admit I only ever prefer a locked room for that very reason. "

We like the equipment in there, but hey looks like we gonna have to find another club

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Locked rooms are for privacy, you choose to go in an open room"

No for what we want we have no choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the others here ..... if you want privacy then go into a lockable room ..... if you want to play in an open room then you can tell them not to touch etc but you cant stop them watching you !

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