FabSwingers.com forum: Are woman put off with bi men ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm a bi fem who loves sleeping with woman.

But since we have put that my partner is bi curious not had nothing.

Just thought I would see if anyone else has found this.

Or maybe we just ugly lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women love to play with couples where the male is bi and some single women do to.

Many women love to watch two men together before joining in the same way as some men love to watch two women together.

But, previous threads on this subject have shown that more couples and women are put off by playing when the guy is bi or bi curious.

Personally I used to find this strange until I read previous threads on the subject and found that many men and women who are straight are put off because they get a mental image of two men having sex together and for straight men and some women this is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few couples now, some I've found out that the male is bi curious on the night, I think bi guys do get a bad rap and it does greatly reduce the interest you would get than if your guy was straight, but dont be disheartened about it, theres plenty of bi couples and indeed bi males like myself that are always happy to play

Happy Hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think its just the women lol

However there are many couples that do except it

At the end of the day its personal choice with everyone

So just preserver xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers guys for your comments.

Let's hope a nice bi fem will come by my way again one day mmm

Not seen two men do it before. Can't wait lol.

Got to be the right one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont think its just the women lol

However there are many couples that do except it

At the end of the day its personal choice with everyone

So just preserver xx

PRESERVER.....u hoping to pickle summit...ya bollix perhaps. thought you had spell check on ya toolbar ya hairy arsed numpty hehe!! would only take the piss out of spelling from me fave little man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've found that to be a big turn on for women, which make me very happy of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feckin spellchecker lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really should pay more attention to threads, the first time I read this I thought Mally reckened it was a big turn on for women to watch Swingmates coat his bollix in Ronseal

I'm so glad I read it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really should pay more attention to threads, the first time I read this I thought Mally reckened it was a big turn on for women to watch Swingmates coat his bollix in Ronseal

I'm so glad I read it again

haha no not enough alcohol in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really should pay more attention to threads, the first time I read this I thought Mally reckened it was a big turn on for women to watch Swingmates coat his bollix in Ronseal

I'm so glad I read it again

haha no not enough alcohol in the world

He has HUGE bollix??? the alcohol is for cleaning the Ronseal off the brushes??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha no not enough alcohol in the world

I agree with ya there pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has HUGE bollix??? the alcohol is for cleaning the Ronseal off the brushes??

maybe thats whats slowing me down when cycling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of life's little mysteries isn't it. For example I love watching gay porn much more than "normal" hetro stuff, but find bi men off-putting...go figure!

I mainly play with sub men but they have to be straight as it's about pushing boundaries and pleasing me. I "threaten" them with having another sub join in the fun - the thought is exciting and frigtening for them.

To have my own live show fills me with excitement - but paradoxically I know once I've had my three way fun with my subs and watched them push their own boundaries I wont want to play with them again.

It's a funny old world!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He has HUGE bollix??? the alcohol is for cleaning the Ronseal off the brushes??

maybe thats whats slowing me down when cycling

ahhhhhhhhh!!! I used to think the cycles with sloping top tubes on the frame were for ladies, now I realise its to make it more comfortable for those with gargantuan bollix.

you learn something new every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahaha, now theres a thought

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

"I'm a bi fem who loves sleeping with woman.

But since we have put that my partner is bi curious not had nothing.

Just thought I would see if anyone else has found this.

Or maybe we just ugly lol. "

"Cheers guys for your comments.

Let's hope a nice bi fem will come by my way again one day mmm

Not seen two men do it before. Can't wait lol.

Got to be the right one. "

We've only been looking on Fab for a few weeks and have made contact with several couples and one lady who are all potential playmates when the time scales tie up for each of us. And they're not all male bi either.

We certainly get the impression that we get less hits, winks etc than we would if we hid my (M's) status, but equally, we've messaged peeps who state they wouldn't speak to anyone who wasn't clear about the male being bi right from the start.. so it's swings and roundabouts I guess!

And we've had a fair bit of attention from supposedly straight-male couples who then confirm they are bi or curious when we respond...

Personally I would rather be totally straight (pardon the crap pun!) with everyone from the start. Of course we can enjoy straight sex (and do, on a nightly basis!

) and I would respect anyone's issues and boundaries if we were playing with a straight male, but I can fully understand how some blokes who aren't bi could be uncomfortable with it. Each to their own, and thankfully, on a site like this, there is statistically likely to be someone for everyone, whatever their tastes.

So carry on and good luck.... oh, and we don't mind winks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet bi sexual/curious men because I know I can compare to any woman but would worry he wasn't having fun because I dont have a cock (honestly). So I don't want to leave a man wanting.

However if Ive written back to bi-curious guys and said I only go for straight I have been told more than once that he 'just puts it on the profile to get with couples and he's not really interested in men and is 100% straight'.

How silly to compromise your sexuality just to be able to fuck someones wife, while he watches getting more and more irritable because he wanted his cock sucked ... I'd call that living dangerously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet bi sexual/curious men because I know I can compare to any woman but would worry he wasn't having fun because I dont have a cock (honestly). So I don't want to leave a man wanting.

How silly to compromise your sexuality just to be able to fuck someones wife, while he watches getting more and more irritable because he wanted his cock sucked ... I'd call that living dangerously!"

My views exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to get a single fems point of view ... I met up with a fabulous guy recently, who I have know for over a year (in fact he was my first ever meet) he was not bi then, but has found it so much fun that he is now. Not only is his tongue and cock exceptional for the ladies, he is so damn good at sucking cock was a pleasure to watch while I was also being pleasured (well 2 cocks are definitely better sometimes than 1 lol). Spent a brill night with him and a 'virgin' bi-curious guy ... was horny as hell and definitely got my pulse racing, especially when we both shared the 'virgin's' cock giving him an amazing BJ and what a welcome to swinging. Not everyones cuppa, but was my first time and hell i enjoyed the whole experience, cant wait for the next one now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too am a bi fem who loves to be with other women.

I do sometimes extend this to couples and maybe the occasional single guy, but I much prefer bi men!

Bi men are generally better company, fun to get on with, and because they know how to enjoy a cock as well, tend to have a much better idea how to use their own!

I see "bi" in a profile as a definite bonus - and find that I tend to avoid "straight" guys...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without being judgemental in anyway shape or form, I must admit that it does nothing for me whatsoever .... Mr serens is straight and I know he wouldn't be comfortable with it. It could be said I suppose that as I play bi myself, then it's hypocritical, but I can only be honest can't I?

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

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Again without being judgemental.

As a straight guy I feel uncomfortable when a cpl's profile says the male is Bi curious.

Having said that i commend the cpl's that do because they are being honest and everyone knows where they stand.

I have been on 1 meet where the guy was way past the curious stage and it spoilt the whole meet.

Honesty is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that those that are bi, male or female should be happy with themselves and feel comfortable about displaying the fact they are bi.

Just because your bi sensible people will know that you can respect boundaries (cos if they don't feel they can trust you they shouldn't be meeting anyway)

Different for those that find the thought of bi-males a turn off, that I can understand but personally I have always trusted the bi-males we have met as singles or couples and never had my faith undone.

So I think it is best to be honest, perhaps it will cut down on some of the potential meets but isn't that the same for all categories of swingers.

As smokers many people wont meet us

As an older guy many people wont meet us

As a younger female many people wont meet us

As a straight male many people wont meet us.

As a bisexual female many people wont meet us.

As a slim couple many people wont meet us.

It is your choice what you do and thier choice who they meet, honesty has to be the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting reading above . .

As can be seen on our profile, we are both bi which simply means we both enjoy sex with males or females . If the male is straight then we play mmf straight if the male is bi then its all in fun. Same goes for the female.

Bi doesnt mean we will jump on a straight male/female and try our luck, and both of us are happy in any situation whether bi or sr8 and both love watching the other in a bi or sr8 situation.

We always work out the lay of the land before meeting anyone.

Drummers x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always though that women were too scared, was in case they got sidelined while the men played

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