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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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'Your Private Notes' section on someone's profile? Maybe you do not use it at all, maybe you don't even realise it exists!!

If you do use it, what sort of comment, note do you make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a star rating system, saves words, 10 = met, awesome, never say no

down to 1 = chatted, meet if all the above are busy.

minus stars, only meet if im desperate.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't always use it as I have a decent enough memory to remember the ones I've met and shagged. However there are a couple of notes I've done:

Out of date pics - do not meet again

Stood me up - do not meet

etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I used it to remind myself who people were. I found I was getting confused with a couple of guys I was chatting to and was texting one thinking he was someone else!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't even notice that til now haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really need to use it?

Unless you intend to actually meet up or site contact details in there .....

If you've not interested then just block them, and you're not bothered

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I use a star rating system, saves words, 10 = met, awesome, never say no

down to 1 = chatted, meet if all the above are busy.

minus stars, only meet if im desperate.

Don't you mean 'will use'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just it remember peoples names

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never used it! I'd sort of forgotten it was there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we never use it xx

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Do you really need to use it?

Unless you intend to actually meet up or site contact details in there .....

If you've not interested then just block them, and you're not bothered

It is not a need, it is there so I was just wondering how people use it if they do! I do not like blocking people because I cannot always remember why I blocked them, so I use the notes to highlight something they've said in a thread that has pissed me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, I use it, I mostly meet married guys, and keep my pvt life pvt,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank head

That is what I use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it,its a great reference guide when the same profile comes back at you and you know you've spoken but can't rememeber about what,I don't use it on all profiles just some I may need reminding about in the future

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Wank head

That is what I use"

Well said my lovely

and wank stain is good too!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I have used it after chatting to note names where these are not on the profile

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Don't use it to put their phone number on unless you are a total tit.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

If I send a thanks but no thanks I make a note that I said not interested Aug 13 for example. There's also a handful of folk whose forum posts I've copied in as a reminder of outrageous things they've said in case they ever contact me

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Don't use it to put their phone number on unless you are a total tit. "

Are you a tit then?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

i use the notes section a lot - i have a terrible memory and think this is a great feature Z

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Don't use it to put their phone number on unless you are a total tit.

Are you a tit then?

Yes I am

When they go 'user no longer' you lose the info

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Don't use it to put their phone number on unless you are a total tit.

Are you a tit then?

Yes I am

When they go 'user no longer' you lose the info"

He he!! Did not think of that

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Don't use it to put their phone number on unless you are a total tit.

Are you a tit then?

Yes I am

When they go 'user no longer' you lose the info"

but if they're no longer on the site why would you need a note about them? Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too."

definitely Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it for references such as when I tell a guy that Im not into bi guys and he immediatley changes his profile to straight or hides his bi verifications as I can,t always remember at a later date.

I also use it when someone writes something that I really don,t like in the forums just on the off chance that they get in touch and I don,t remember

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Don't use it to put their phone number on unless you are a total tit.

Are you a tit then?

Yes I am

When they go 'user no longer' you lose the info

but if they're no longer on the site why would you need a note about them? Z"

I said telephone number - as in hadn't put it in my phone it was in the notes section.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm not interested in anyone to keep notes on them. Block, forget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not interested in anyone to keep notes on them. Block, forget."

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too."

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!

There are many people I am interested in but not chatting too so another use of notes is when it is there b'day! Many very nice people on this site are worth my attention

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"'Your Private Notes' section on someone's profile? Maybe you do not use it at all, maybe you don't even realise it exists!!

If you do use it, what sort of comment, note do you make?

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the one next to you says very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used it until lately,now there's all sorts in there

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we say things like keeps avoiding meeting, nasty in forum, attitude to women in forum poor that sort of thing. Also when we have several meets to arrange we make a note of the dates and times we have suggested to each couple or guy to avoid double booking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used it, didn't even know about it until recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no need to use it. If I'm not interested I just block. Saves them the embarrassment of being rejected twice!!

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

I make a note to say if they are a smoker or bi/bi curious as we don't meet either. But if we reply with for example"sorry we don't meet smokers" we have found they mail again a week or two later having conveniently changed their profile to suit.

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"'Your Private Notes' section on someone's profile? Maybe you do not use it at all, maybe you don't even realise it exists!!

If you do use it, what sort of comment, note do you make?

the one next to you says very sexy

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to use it to write brief notes but it was a pain and having to remember to click on it etc so started to use Evernote instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to remind me why I've blocked someone - ie. friends invite without chatting, etc.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"'Your Private Notes' section on someone's profile? Maybe you do not use it at all, maybe you don't even realise it exists!!

If you do use it, what sort of comment, note do you make?

I use it to remind me if I turned them down, if they let me down, if they are not interested. Just to keep a record of contacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to make a note of those I don't wish to play with but don't want to block.

Cali

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"'Your Private Notes' section on someone's profile? Maybe you do not use it at all, maybe you don't even realise it exists!!

If you do use it, what sort of comment, note do you make?

the one next to you says very sexy

Thank you

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your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use it at all.

My memory is good enough that I can remember who all the assholes are.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

You probably wouldn't if you got the same amount of assholes that contact couples and no doubt single women. X

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!"

You can still read the notes if you've blocked them.

Click on their profile and click the private note tab... or if on the mobile site click on their profile and hit more on the grey banner and hit private notes there.

Or from your block list just click on the little blue private note icon next to their name

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!

You can still read the notes if you've blocked them.

Click on their profile and click the private note tab... or if on the mobile site click on their profile and hit more on the grey banner and hit private notes there.

Or from your block list just click on the little blue private note icon next to their name

Have you considered applying for site tech support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use it if someone has been an arse to write arse on.

Has been written on a few times of late

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I only use it if someone has been an arse to write arse on.

Has been written on a few times of late"

You should try cock just for a bit if variety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only use it if someone has been an arse to write arse on.

Has been written on a few times of late

You should try cock just for a bit if variety

Do you have one i can try

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I only use it if someone has been an arse to write arse on.

Has been written on a few times of late

You should try cock just for a bit if variety

Do you have one i can try

Sure thing

you can take notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!

You can still read the notes if you've blocked them.

Click on their profile and click the private note tab... or if on the mobile site click on their profile and hit more on the grey banner and hit private notes there.

Or from your block list just click on the little blue private note icon next to their name

Have you considered applying for site tech support

I may abuse that power by deleting you..... and refusing to let you back on the site until you let me use my strapon

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!

You can still read the notes if you've blocked them.

Click on their profile and click the private note tab... or if on the mobile site click on their profile and hit more on the grey banner and hit private notes there.

Or from your block list just click on the little blue private note icon next to their name

Have you considered applying for site tech support

I may abuse that power by deleting you..... and refusing to let you back on the site until you let me use my strapon

Send me the hotline number I may test your power

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!

You can still read the notes if you've blocked them.

Click on their profile and click the private note tab... or if on the mobile site click on their profile and hit more on the grey banner and hit private notes there.

Or from your block list just click on the little blue private note icon next to their name

Thank you miss! I learn something every day xxx

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!

You can still read the notes if you've blocked them.

Click on their profile and click the private note tab... or if on the mobile site click on their profile and hit more on the grey banner and hit private notes there.

Or from your block list just click on the little blue private note icon next to their name

Have you considered applying for site tech support

I may abuse that power by deleting you..... and refusing to let you back on the site until you let me use my strapon

Send me the hotline number I may test your power

0898 S-T-R-A-P-O-N

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

mostly names

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I use it to keep track of real names, the area they live in if in same town so I don't have to look like a tit and ask again, if we've talked about going to a club etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a reminder why I won't meet people for a social and for those I've met socially, why I won't meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to use notes for a persons real name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use it to say why I've blocked someone, or if I've said no thanks I use it for that too.

The problem with blocking is that you have to 'unblock' to read your notes (if any) then search for them and block again!

You can still read the notes if you've blocked them.

Click on their profile and click the private note tab... or if on the mobile site click on their profile and hit more on the grey banner and hit private notes there.

Or from your block list just click on the little blue private note icon next to their name

Have you considered applying for site tech support

I may abuse that power by deleting you..... and refusing to let you back on the site until you let me use my strapon

Send me the hotline number I may test your power

0898 S-T-R-A-P-O-N

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Not one of the most obvious features on profiles but it seems that its use is reasonably widely spread!! We all have to keep notes don't we? Xxx

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Not one of the most obvious features on profiles but it seems that its use is reasonably widely spread!! We all have to keep notes don't we? Xxx"
I have never used it - not seen the need personally but I guess it would help remind you with whom you have spoken in the past and about what?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there. "

See told you I had the memory of a sieve!

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

We use it as if one of us chats to another member or has something about a profile they are put off by then we can make a note and the other will see it should they come across the profile x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

" maybe you don't even realise it exists!!

I think that about covers it

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there. "

Bad move with the tel no's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have to stay using it to keep track of everyone I hope to meet at the Kent social

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there.

Bad move with the tel no's"

Why is that?

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By *renchbambi x OP Woman
over a year ago

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"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there.

Bad move with the tel no's

Why is that? "

Because if they leave the site you lose the numbers! Xx

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there.

Bad move with the tel no's

Why is that?

Because if they leave the site you lose the numbers! Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't use it to put their phone number on unless you are a total tit.

Are you a tit then?

Yes I am

When they go 'user no longer' you lose the info"

bum that just stopped that inspirational thought then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there.

Bad move with the tel no's

Why is that?

Because if they leave the site you lose the numbers! Xx"

Except that if you are going to continue to meet them, you might save it on your phone so it wouldn't be a big deal if they left plus you would know if they are going to leave if you are that close. Anyone else is no big deal.

On the other side, I chat to Mr B, we exchange numbers, I put his number on the note facility, we meet for a drink and I decide (or he decides) that I don't want to meet him again so therefore no need to keep his number, in that case I would delete it and replace with 'met socially, not interested in meeting again'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't bother using them..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"As I have the memory of a sieve. I use the notes a lot.

Forum posters whose views I disagree strongly with, is just one example.

Oh and telephone numbers I keep there.

Bad move with the tel no's

Why is that?

Because if they leave the site you lose the numbers! Xx

Mr B has got a smelly arse. Put that in your private notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use it as if one of us chats to another member or has something about a profile they are put off by then we can make a note and the other will see it should they come across the profile x"

That's a great idea! We should do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine all the time

I use the one on my own profile page

Keep me shopping list on it

I see that tomorrow I need to buy:-

President butter

Cauliflower

Duck n orange pate

Porridge oats

Oh n I shall need some bleach so better add that while I remember

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

When is Mr B free to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined I used it to remind myself who people were. I found I was getting confused with a couple of guys I was chatting to and was texting one thinking he was someone else!! X"

I have done that and sent veris to the wrong person especially if they have the same name

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