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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just had a call this evening from a friend of mine.. she thinks her partner of 6 months is cheating because he came home and brought her flowers...

I feel sorry for him...and I told her I'd have loved it..

but she is adamant he must be cheating...

So ladies, do you 2nd guess a guys intentions if he buys you flowers.... ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No as I have rarely been brought flowers by a bloke lol

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

For Gods sakes can't a man do something nice?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

The only time I have ever received flowers from a guy was because he was sucking up due to being a dick. Had nothing to do with cheating though, he'd just been a massive dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's somebody else's name in the card - that's a bad sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had flowers brought by a man for a very long time would faint with shock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had flowers once.. they were stunning.

My attitude and behaviour was shocking.. very immature and ruined a beautiful surprise

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

no good deed ever goes unpunished for long.

It's fairly natural to want to bring home flowers as a surprise every once in a while, not as routine, but just because. If that's going to lead to suspicion and difficulty then that's going to lead to the break up of what had seemed a good relationship.

In my humble opinion

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

hope not cos the last time i was bought some was after a very significant moment in the relationship - they were beautiful and lasted for ages

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Every now and the I buy my girlfriend flowers. I usually get them sent to the house. Makes a very nice surprise and brightens up my girlfriends day. Tell your friend not all men are up to no good when they buy flower. Some of us like to treat our better halves

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

what!!!!

So many of you never or have rarely received flowers!!!

I knew I was doing something wrong.

Should I give up with the champagne and the chocolates with the non fattening centres?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Steve buys me flowers - i've never thought it was because he had a guilty conscience - there must be more to this story than meets the eye, Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a call this evening from a friend of mine.. she thinks her partner of 6 months is cheating because he came home and brought her flowers...

I feel sorry for him...and I told her I'd have loved it..

but she is adamant he must be cheating...

So ladies, do you 2nd guess a guys intentions if he buys you flowers.... ?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a call this evening from a friend of mine.. she thinks her partner of 6 months is cheating because he came home and brought her flowers...

I feel sorry for him...and I told her I'd have loved it..

but she is adamant he must be

cheating...

Id say she should jump to conclusions, he might just be showing his love and affection.

So ladies, do you 2nd guess a guys intentions if he buys you flowers.... ?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noone buys me them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No as I have rarely been brought flowers by a bloke lol "

Oi! Pretty sure I bought you some roses once!

Ok - they may have been photo props, but.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex bought me a plant instead of flowers once because he thought it would blast longer. Who said romance was dead . Hence the ex. I'm ungrateful I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For Gods sakes can't a man do something nice?"

This was my view... I told him next time to give them to me instead.. lol

not sure that would help.. but I would have some nice flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been bought flowers if i want them I buy them myself

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I get flowers every week, this week I got a bunch of orange and a bunch of red roses.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Have been given flowers once in my life

However they weren't mean't in a 'gift' sense - were actually for a photo shoot that never happened (though i did use one for a picture i did myself! )

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No as I have rarely been brought flowers by a bloke lol

Oi! Pretty sure I bought you some roses once!

Ok - they may have been photo props, but....... "

Ohh yeah forgot about that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 2 flower shops for 30 yrs and have seen the lot,

Valentines day, 2 local rugby players come in, send dozen long stemmed roses to their girlfriend, this feb, they were £85 a doz, and sent a single red rose to their wife, £10 inc delivery.

many years ago 40 ish, my dad bought my mother a bunch of blown ( past it tulips ) she went mad, hit him over the head with the frying pan, swore he was having an affair, that was the first and last time he bothered. they stayed together for 50 yrs until death, but never loved each other, she said it was a need based relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one guy bought a bunch of flowers for a fiver, he said he hoped she would give him a blow job, I said if she doesn't I will so please come back !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex used to buy me flowers regularly when he worked away (every 2-3 weeks), always sent to work & always the same bunch.. It became a calling card and a sign of when to expect him home. I loved it, he knew it, and it encouraged him to do it every time without fail

I think the key is to accept and know when someone is being nice. Brits aren't too good at accepting a compliment or random show of affection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For Gods sakes can't a man do something nice?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love flowers, get them now and again, usually when they are half price at the petrol station... Don't think there's an ulterior..or . Maybe he,s bought something on eBay usually some ridiculous totally useless object.. and he knows ill smack his ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just had a call this evening from a friend of mine.. she thinks her partner of 6 months is cheating because he came home and brought her flowers...

I feel sorry for him...and I told her I'd have loved it..

but she is adamant he must be cheating...

So ladies, do you 2nd guess a guys intentions if he buys you flowers.... ?

"

It does sound a little like your friend may have some kind of trust issue or has been shit on in a previous relationship? Maybe that is why she is suspicious?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've only ever had flowers delivered once - and to this day I still don't know who sent them. But they were gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get flowers off my kids and that's because they love me

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