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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wouldn't meet a 21 year old... So for me a 21 year old is too young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**"
he may have step kids or something and for him its too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to type this as sober as possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu** he may have step kids or something and for him its too young "

what about you personally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I'd struggle to meet below 25.

Generally speaking that is.

Depending on the person.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

No way would I meet a 21 year old. Even having 25 as my lower limit is really pushing it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kids older so I wouldn't meet anyone of 21

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel like the lone tin of beans in the crisp aisle now :/

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

fu**

Yeah gimme a go, I am open to all eventualities

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

No way would I meet a 21 year old. Even having 25 as my lower limit is really pushing it for me.

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By *esyesyes6969Man
over a year ago

armagh

Think it all depends on the other half

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Is it maybe because guys are worried the younger more inexperienced girls might get attached or clingy?

The reason I don't go for the really young guys is because of their inexperience generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 isn't a problem for me for a meet, but I guess that would depend on the individual, I.e how we got on, whether there was a click etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't .i wouldn't ordinarily meet someone of that age .but again some ones years of life can be different to the way they put themselves across to you and their experience and intelligence and demeanour in life.so I think someone who's older can act younger and some one who's younger can be mentally older. Please don't message us if you are younger cos the only ones outside our age range we met at socials and beyond so know the oerson is who they are if that makes any sense?poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu** he may have step kids or something and for him its too young

what about you personally?"
no not at all

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Lmfao 21 I fooking wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were both 21 and have no trouble meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a problem to us, after all it's a sex meet not a wedding ceremony.

The only thing we'd wonder is why they wanted to meet us?

XXXX

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'm going to type this as sober as possible"

Yeah, and type mine as well while you are there mate

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

too young for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not a problem to us, after all it's a sex meet not a wedding ceremony.

The only thing we'd wonder is why they wanted to meet us?

XXXX"

well your hot for a start

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Seeing as the girl I'm seeing from fab is 22, I don't imagine 21 would be too young for me & I'm 32 as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing this thread has higlighted is the sheer amount of lurkers popping out of the woodwork haha!

Funny that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**"

I'm not sure but you wouldn't meet a 48 year old why would that be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**"

His loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 isnt young but again it depends on the girls personality and weather there's any chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may be intimidated? Maybe he's one on those "old" 32s.. Afraid to not be able to keep up like he used to?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**

I'm not sure but you wouldn't meet a 48 year old why would that be? "

That shouldn't matter to you since you're a 53 year old pretending to be 48 ... going by your other thread

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**

I'm not sure but you wouldn't meet a 48 year old why would that be?

That shouldn't matter to you since you're a 53 year old pretending to be 48 ... going by your other thread "

*dusts missbehaving's deerstalker off & hands it back to her*

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**

I'm not sure but you wouldn't meet a 48 year old why would that be?

That shouldn't matter to you since you're a 53 year old pretending to be 48 ... going by your other thread

*dusts missbehaving's deerstalker off & hands it back to her*"

I'm not sherlock holmes... I'm Miss Marple

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**

I'm not sure but you wouldn't meet a 48 year old why would that be?

That shouldn't matter to you since you're a 53 year old pretending to be 48 ... going by your other thread

*dusts missbehaving's deerstalker off & hands it back to her*

I'm not sherlock holmes... I'm Miss Marple "

C'est vrai. I couldn't remember any lady detective specific items y'see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be an attraction for me to meet someone not a age w

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll do fine! Unfortunately we never can please everyone on this site, im 20 and was on here before i was 20 and have never really struggled, Im sure for every guy who says your too young theres at least 1 or 2 if not more who would say yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I wouldn't say your too young.

If I still lived in Soton I'd say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll do fine! Unfortunately we never can please everyone on this site, im 20 and was on here before i was 20 and have never really struggled, Im sure for every guy who says your too young theres at least 1 or 2 if not more who would say yes. "

Very very true xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *omegetustigersCouple
over a year ago

London


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**"

Late last year we went to a party with a couple of playmates of ours, met a lovely couple and invited them into the room where we were hanging out chatting. 6 of us in the room, it turned into two threesomes, Emma and our Female friend doubling up on the other guy, and Ben and his male friend doubling up on the other girl. She turned out to be 19. Ben's male friend is 38. As far as we're concerned, if people want to play with us, who are we to argue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a preference, guy who said no thanks has as much right to a preference as anyone else does. Don't let it bother you, there are plenty that will meet you. Not us though sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been trying to meet lady's in there late 50s and early 60s and thay all say I'm to young but I will keep on looking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like the lone tin of beans in the crisp aisle now :/"

we meet 21 year olds

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I met a couple aged 21 in a club, my limit was set at 28.

I got on well so much with them, that I lowered my limit. They totally opened my eyes, with the true maturity they showed.

I know I'm only 32, but have always met people way older than me, twice my age and then some.

It was lovely and refreshing meeting a younger couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young for me also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a sweeping observation but i think men will generally go lower in age than women as its a fantasy of 'barely legal', that pussy is pussy regardless of age, men like to feel in control and the fact they are older and 'more experienced' gives them the buzz.

It will always come down to personal preference but being female you will have a better success rate than a 21yr old man id say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would meet you, we love tattooed women

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

I wouldn't set out to find a 21 year old, however, it all depends on the person. Some 21 year olds are wise beyond their years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would a 21 year old want to meet me would be my question. I am 46 so I would say I'm too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me there has to be an attraction for me to meet someone not a age "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**

Late last year we went to a party with a couple of playmates of ours, met a lovely couple and invited them into the room where we were hanging out chatting. 6 of us in the room, it turned into two threesomes, Emma and our Female friend doubling up on the other guy, and Ben and his male friend doubling up on the other girl. She turned out to be 19. Ben's male friend is 38. As far as we're concerned, if people want to play with us, who are we to argue? "

That's not the question being asked though.

In a club its a TOTALLY different scenario/setting than on a site.

In a club, you're there in person for a start which is gonna have a totally different effect/impact on what happens.

The question the way I read it was on the site itself.

I wouldn't go looking for a 21 year old. If a 21 year old messaged me I'd probably say no.

I'd struggle to go that low an age and I'm only 28.

That being said, it depends who it is and if you get on with them.

There are only 2 on this site I've considered it with.

Wouldn't rule it out but almost defo wouldn't use the search function and the set the filters that low either.

P.s it's still kinda funny how many lurkers posted in this thread all of a sudden haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me there has to be an attraction for me to meet someone not a age w"

I do agree, but also have a preference for people around my own age. Perhaps I am inconsistent.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morrigan is 21 and we have yet to be turned down by anyone because she is too young, in fact most people we have met and verified us are Over 40 and our oldest meet is in his 70s. Having said all of that we are thinking about changing our age limits to over 35 as we just don't seem to click with anyone under that age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I wouldn't say your too young.

If I still lived in Soton I'd say hi "

Rusty man..I didn't know you lived in soton? haha!

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

I wouldn't look for someone aged 21 but if they mssgd me first and we got on then fine!

A bit like stopping for a pint on the way home & a 21yr old starts chatting at the bar........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more than twice their age so its a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me!!? 21?? Where's the 18 year olds!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to type this as sober as possible"

WOW!!! Your amazing. Sorry missed the question lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Normally I'd stick to my age limit in a casual and flexible sort of way but if a 19 year old lady came along....oh! She did and so did I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I wouldn't say your too young.

If I still lived in Soton I'd say hi

Rusty man..I didn't know you lived in soton? haha!

"

Yeah up til last year, spent 3 years

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I have kids older so I wouldn't meet anyone of 21"

I have pants older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I wouldn't say your too young.

If I still lived in Soton I'd say hi

Rusty man..I didn't know you lived in soton? haha!

Yeah up til last year, spent 3 years "

3 years? Fuxx that ha! Ya great innit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it entirely depends on the 21 year old in question. I'd also have no issue meeting a 21 year old as long as they hadn't been absorbed into the whole chav culture and could write a sentence I could read without needing an enigma machine to decipher it. It all depends on whether you get on with the person really.

Being 14 years older isn't really that much at all, there are plenty of couples with age gaps bigger than that these days and as it's always said, age is only a number.

As with everything though OP everyone has preferences on here and you just happened to message someone and you didn't happen to be what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

older men like women in their twenties.

maybe the 32 year old just didnt think you were his type.

i wouldnt say 21 is too young at all.

some 21 year olds are more mature than others though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**"

Why won't you meet 36 year olds? It's a bit hypocritical to have preferences yourself and question others.

Personally we have played with people your age but only in clubs and not via the site.

Maybe it wasn't your age that was the problem? A single guy with such a poor profile and a sense of entitlement that borders on arrogant judging by the indignation that someone actually turned them down would be being destroyed had they started a similar thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 is too young for us, in principle, although our age range on the profile is a guideline. We have met people above the upper limit and we're currently talking to someone who is just below our lower limit.

Age is a number and it's a strange thing to define someone purely on age. Older certainly doesn't always mean more emotionally mature in our experience!

Maybe you simply weren't their type op? Learning to deal with rejection graciously is part of this lifestyle. There are no doubt lots of other people who would love to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me would depend on how well I got on with them. It's just a number . If we clicked I would have no problems with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my eldest being nearly .21 there's no way I'd meet someone that young early 30,' s is youngest really but each persons different there will be some on here that will meet that young

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By *heekychappy1121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Well i am 21 so can give my perspective on this topic. At the end of the day it is more about the person an if you get on an click etc. Age only becomes a problem if you are immature an don't treat woman with respect at this age i find. I have't had any problems chatting an meeting women older than myself. Each to there our i guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like the lone tin of beans in the crisp aisle now :/"

All those wrinkly dried out snacks heh

It's tricky on here and worse still in the forums as you'll get the 'younger than my kids' blabble etc.

Personally face to face its nothing to do with age and all about attraction which can be regardless of age. But on here we narrow our search to those that are most likely, which for us is those closer to our age. It's fickle - but so is much on here so don't take it personally.

The elephant in the room is that I don't know that we've yet many anybody from this site that has been the age in their profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww this thread is depressing but I have learnt a lot from reading through it actually

I'm only 25 so maybe this explains why I don't get much luck

Seems as though even the younger girls prefer the older guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and me both hun! I would meet ya if its any constellation haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww this thread is depressing but I have learnt a lot from reading through it actually

I'm only 25 so maybe this explains why I don't get much luck

Seems as though even the younger girls prefer the older guys lol"
dont bet on it dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 is only too young to those who's preferences are for those older!

And as has been said - face to face is different. Is age the first thing you ask? No.

I had a great night this week with a girl that approached me in a bar. Initially I guessed she was 25.

She later informed me she was 19. Did it bother me? Not in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who here would say 21 is too young to meet up with? as I seem to get some a lot older guys message me but I message a 32 year old and no Im too young.

what da fu**"

I find it hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"21 is only too young to those who's preferences are for those older!

And as has been said - face to face is different. Is age the first thing you ask? No.

I had a great night this week with a girl that approached me in a bar. Initially I guessed she was 25.

She later informed me she was 19. Did it bother me? Not in the slightest. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww this thread is depressing but I have learnt a lot from reading through it actually

I'm only 25 so maybe this explains why I don't get much luck

Seems as though even the younger girls prefer the older guys loldont bet on it dude"

Just as well I'm more into older women at the moment haha, not many cougars around lately though

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My kids and step kids are aged 21-37. I wouldn't like the thought of a 52 year old man slobbering over my 21 year old, so wouldn't inflict my aged body on someone elses kid, no matter how much he begged!

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By *illybare partyMan
over a year ago

hotel in teeside once a month

Its all up to the individual.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm 34 and get messages from 18-21 year olds a fair bit, too young for me. About 25 Is the lowest I'd go.

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over a year ago

cardiff

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