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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is a wink a polite way of getting a females attention? Do the women on here even look at the winks after all they must get 100s a day plus 100 messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Is a wink a polite way of getting a females attention? Do the women on here even look at the winks after all they must get 100s a day plus 100 messages? "

I never look at my winks, I just leave them to build up, so they are pointless if being directed at me I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A waste of time with most people mail them with an intelligent message it still might not work but people appreciate effort in the main.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope hate to say I never look at winks on this or other account, but I have my

naughty moments when I become a winker

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I always wink Foxy Minx. I know she's sees them. She's a tough nut to crack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking as a couple, we do look at the winks and if we like what we see we wink back, a conversation usually then follows.

The thing we really dont like is a random friend invite! No message, no wink, just the invite. Smacks of a pic collector. And we dont respond.

This is just us, others may be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope winks are a waste of time, I just delete them in bulk once a month. Don't even bother to look who's sent one either...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe an idea for me to stop been a winker then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink is as good as a nod

A wink in the hand is as good as two birds with a bush

Actually I think you'll find that most women and couples will ignore a wink, as they get so many.

A single guy receiving a wink though, is, in my experience, showing that sometime might be interested

Generally a wink is cheap and easy, and most folks would appreciate a message more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a browse now and again and see if anyone catches my eye. X

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always wink Foxy Minx. I know she's sees them. She's a tough nut to crack "

You bloody liar! I've just looked at your profile

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I always wink Foxy Minx. I know she's sees them. She's a tough nut to crack

You bloody liar! I've just looked at your profile "

Haha I knew you couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is a wink a polite way of getting a females attention? Do the women on here even look at the winks after all they must get 100s a day plus 100 messages? "

Not all single females sit around waiting for 100's of messages that they can delete without reading and moan about.

I always look at winks. If I like them I mail. If not I don't. Simple.

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Nope winks are a waste of time, I just press delete.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)


"Is a wink a polite way of getting a females attention? Do the women on here even look at the winks after all they must get 100s a day plus 100 messages?

Not all single females sit around waiting for 100's of messages that they can delete without reading and moan about.

I always look at winks. If I like them I mail. If not I don't. Simple. "

This, but from a the male perspective of course.. It can be a ice breaker for less confident people to let you know they like you. If you do what harm does a msg back do to let them know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink just to let person know I enjoyed their profile, without sending a message .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a winky wink

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I don't really look at them to be honest. More interested in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we like the look of the person/couple that winks us then we'll either wink them (which leads to them sending a message) or we'll message them back.

If we send a wink and the person/couple wink us back then we know they might be interested.

So...winks can be useful. Some people use it, some don't. But sending a message is a better way to break the ice.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all single females sit around waiting for 100's of messages that they can delete without reading and moan about. "

Don't spoil the illusion

Would hate to admit that I get less than a handful a week on my 'elusive bi-fem single profile'

erm so yes I desperately look at winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind winks,im not going to line anyone against the wall and shoot them for sending a wink instead of writing a message,I don't consider them lazy,I consider them a sign of interest that can easily be ignored if the interest is'nt there

Theres not many that think like me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is always nice to get a wink across a crowded room, I appreciate every one and always reply with a message

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I don't get loads and do check out who's winked at me and occasionally wink back, that to me then invites the person(s) to send a message but if they don't send me a joke I don't bother responding

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I look at winks, I only respond to those that I know though.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I don't look at my winks at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have time to look at winks, just too many, however we always look at them on our joint profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To wink or not to wink - that is the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like back to sending messages then no more winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks just get deleted and I never send any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a wee willy winker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to go against the popular view here........I have no problem with winks. Love to receive them and if someone takes my eye I'll wink back or message. Many a good meet has started with a wink

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