FabSwingers.com forum: Bad meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no point giving a negative veri as its up to the person receiving it whether they display it or not.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad"

I would not verify them - in fact, depending on the situation, I might be tempted to report them. They met under false pretences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No wouldn't leave negative verification, got to think they could leave negative for you then and be like tit for tat. What doesn't appeal to you will no doubt appeal to someone else

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

If I had a meet like that I prob wouldnt leave a veri at all. Why go to the trouble of writing something that they wont show

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

If you left a negative veri they probably wouldn't display it anyway. I obviously wouldn't arrange to play with them if what I saw didn't match my expectations in ANY way (I'm assuming we're talking social meet here)and afterwards, I'd probably send them a private message tactfully suggesting they update their profile pic to show a more honest representation of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess you learn from every meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

I would not verify them - in fact, depending on the situation, I might be tempted to report them. They met under false pretences. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad"

This exact same thing happened to me, my very first meet too. I learned a lot from the experience and left no veri! He did me a great veri which I was too sickened to publish! Learn and move on! Xxxx

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I think this is why a lot of people choose a social meet first.... you just can not tell about chemistry and physical attraction from a few pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

This exact same thing happened to me, my very first meet too. I learned a lot from the experience and left no veri! He did me a great veri which I was too sickened to publish! Learn and move on! Xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think this is why a lot of people choose a social meet first.... you just can not tell about chemistry and physical attraction from a few pics. "
good advice think im gonna only ask for a social next time at least then sex aint a issue unless we both like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't leave one at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report this, report that, isn't it about people started taking ownership of their own issues rather than expecting someone else to sort their problems out.

profiles are like a shop window, usually to attract interest and make the hairs on your neck stand up, attraction, wether sexual or social, its all about communication, before you meet anyone surely its wise to speak to them first, on a screen, everyone has an image, some have professional pics, some have family snap shots, we are all different, and when you do meet someone, if the chemistry or attraction isn't there, it may not be because of a picture on screen, but an image you have built up in your head, our gut feeling is quite often different to reality.

I mean look at any advertisement, especially around the autumn,

every advert shows the " perfect family, and perfect setting,

bed adverts use a model with a good body to sell the bed, in reality, you are buying a dream, and when you are thinking with your full balls or horny head, you see what you want to see,

Remember when you do meet someone you can always so , no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad"

We would leave full stop giving a polite but honest reason for doing so but verification wise we would leave nothing as people can hide what they want anyway so it would be pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Report this, report that, isn't it about people started taking ownership of their own issues rather than expecting someone else to sort their problems out.

I mean look at any advertisement, especially around the autumn,

every advert shows the " perfect family, and perfect setting,

bed adverts use a model with a good body to sell the bed, in reality, you are buying a dream, and when you are thinking with your full balls or horny head, you see what you want to see,

Remember when you do meet someone you can always so , no thanks."
& run lol at least next time if im left a bad veri i no now that i can hide it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

We would leave full stop giving a polite but honest reason for doing so but verification wise we would leave nothing as people can hide what they want anyway so it would be pointless."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone turned up and was nowt like the pics they proffered i would think theres somthing odd going on and after a few mins make up a excuse like a news of the world reporter and leave sharpish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever meet on the basis of a social, if it goes further because we both want it too bonus. If not then we've probably had a good giggle and laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only ever meet on the basis of a social, if it goes further because we both want it too bonus. If not then we've probably had a good giggle and laugh.

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thats my view on meets from now on

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I always Skype first because if this and seeing if we are drawn to each other.

I've had a few surprises even on cam so saved my self spending the time meeting to find out how old those pics were in person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like a social meet first then there's no obligation to take things further and you can walk away without feeling bad. If it goes well and lust takes over, then that's a different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't leave them one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always like a social meet first then there's no obligation to take things further and you can walk away without feeling bad. If it goes well and lust takes over, then that's a different story

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't leave them one "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always Skype first because if this and seeing if we are drawn to each other.

I've had a few surprises even on cam so saved my self spending the time meeting to find out how old those pics were in person!

X"
ive got skype so will ask but a lot of ladies shy away from that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought you'd turn around and get the hell outta there as its deception and only the beginning ....no need on a site like this to

A) use photos that ain't you

B) Use photos that's from a decade ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have a social meet first , just because you may not click , that way it takes the pressure off and both parties don't have to do something (or someone) they don't want to

as the others have said I wouldn't leave a veri at all as even a negative veri will still show a verification tic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always have a social meet first , just because you may not click , that way it takes the pressure off and both parties don't have to do something (or someone) they don't want to

as the others have said I wouldn't leave a veri at all as even a negative veri will still show a verification tic

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

So what happened? Did you have sex with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have thought you'd turn around and get the hell outta there as its deception and only the beginning ....no need on a site like this to

A) use photos that ain't you

B) Use photos that's from a decade ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them?"
yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure."

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

"No wouldn't leave negative verification, got to think they could leave negative for you then and be like tit for tat. What doesn't appeal to you will no doubt appeal to someone else "
That's true

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad"

I wouldn't stay! I don't give verifications anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?"

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england. "

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

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she knows about my feelings now.not like im on a witch hunt.no1 knows who it is or is gonna cuz my view on veri has changed. & ryan please remember that its best not to judge anyone or try to push your way of thinking on people.the worlds a much better place without needless bitchyness

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think this is why a lot of people choose a social meet first.... you just can not tell about chemistry and physical attraction from a few pics. "

A person can look better than their pics: I met a man that looked the spitting image of Daniel Craig. He was looking for me in the bustle of the station totally oblivious to the admiring glances levelled his way.

When he saw me and smiled what can I say, my stomach fluttered, he was truly gorgeous...then he opened his mouth! He sounded like Joe Pasquale!

Add to that he was the dullest man I've ever met: all he droned on about was his mother!

Lesson learned, always speak on the phone: if they squeak when they speak, sound as if they've been lobotomised, could be at home in Eastenders or TOWIE...not for me!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Report this, report that, isn't it about people started taking ownership of their own issues rather than expecting someone else to sort their problems out.

I mean look at any advertisement, especially around the autumn,

every advert shows the " perfect family, and perfect setting,

bed adverts use a model with a good body to sell the bed, in reality, you are buying a dream, and when you are thinking with your full balls or horny head, you see what you want to see,

Remember when you do meet someone you can always so , no thanks."

^^^^^^This!!!

I often wonder how some people manage to look out for themselves as they seem to have lost the ability to think for themselves on here!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them?"

Of course he did!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure."

There you go!

You're a class act: not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them?

Of course he did!"

1 thing ive learnt in the short time ive been on here is not to care about other peoples feelings as they dont care about yours. Came here with the wrong expectations but im on the right path of putting that right to make this fun which is wot its all about at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

There you go!

You're a class act: not!

Cant remember myself saying im a class act.im not here for a slagging match about morals.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england. "

I repeat class act! Why do people feel the need to be disrespectful about their meets?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

I repeat class act! Why do people feel the need to be disrespectful about their meets?!!"
. Have i named? No .if a person put up proper pictures of themselves there would never be a problem.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

Wish I could say I'm shocked by his disrespectful comments, sadly I'm not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it allways the people who hide there profile that have to get personal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

Wish I could say I'm shocked by his disrespectful comments, sadly I'm not."
nobody knows who it is i repeat no body knows who it is! The person in question is in the wrong for using pictures that aint them

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wouldn't leave a negative veri.

They could then just not display it but look verified which could seem a positive thing to those searching

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

she knows about my feelings now.not like im on a witch hunt.no1 knows who it is or is gonna cuz my view on veri has changed. & ryan please remember that its best not to judge anyone or try to push your way of thinking on people.the worlds a much better place without needless bitchyness"

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't leave a negative veri.

They could then just not display it but look verified which could seem a positive thing to those searching"

Glad to have a reply thats not personal

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I only ever meet on the basis of a social, if it goes further because we both want it too bonus. If not then we've probably had a good giggle and laugh.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway. "

This

Any chance of a shag Ryan? You can think of England if ya like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway. "
were have to agree to disagree. Would like to know how someone that uses pictures that aint them but i still find them ok to sleep with but if i had seen the real picture from the start i would have said no thanks.hows that slagging someone? Sounds like im just being honest really

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sounds like any holes a goal... Not an attractive proposition

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like any holes a goal... Not an attractive proposition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet was so bad I almost deleted fab completely he looked nothing like his pics he was rude and when I politely said no thanks he became very aggressive. I did report him as I actually felt he could eventually hurt someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

I repeat class act! Why do people feel the need to be disrespectful about their meets?!!. Have i named? No .if a person put up proper pictures of themselves there would never be a problem."

I didn't realise when I posted earlier that you'd actually had sex with her. If a person doesn't look like their pic or you're not compatible, you are allowed to walk away

Agreeing to meet does not mean its a written contract and you have to shag!

If someone did that to me, told me afterwards that he hadn't really wanted to have sex with me and posted a thread on a public forum, Id be completely mortified and would leave the site. Poor waman!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My first meet was so bad I almost deleted fab completely he looked nothing like his pics he was rude and when I politely said no thanks he became very aggressive. I did report him as I actually felt he could eventually hurt someone"
best thing to do in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I look like my pic cos you can't see my laughter lines or is that wrinkles

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Sounds like any holes a goal... Not an attractive proposition

It wasn't a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

I repeat class act! Why do people feel the need to be disrespectful about their meets?!!. Have i named? No .if a person put up proper pictures of themselves there would never be a problem.

I didn't realise when I posted earlier that you'd actually had sex with her. If a person doesn't look like their pic or you're not compatible, you are allowed to walk away

Agreeing to meet does not mean its a written contract and you have to shag!

If someone did that to me, told me afterwards that he hadn't really wanted to have sex with me and posted a thread on a public forum, Id be completely mortified and would leave the site. Poor waman!

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once again have i named her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like any holes a goal... Not an attractive proposition

It wasn't a compliment

I was just thanking you for you feedback

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway. were have to agree to disagree. Would like to know how someone that uses pictures that aint them but i still find them ok to sleep with but if i had seen the real picture from the start i would have said no thanks.hows that slagging someone? Sounds like im just being honest really"

My profile is hidden as I have enough playmates at the moment thanks ever so.

Posting on an open forum you'll get varying comments. If you don't want people to comment on the fact you have no self respect and will fuck anything then have the audacity to then slag the person off, don't share!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway. were have to agree to disagree. Would like to know how someone that uses pictures that aint them but i still find them ok to sleep with but if i had seen the real picture from the start i would have said no

thanks.hows that slagging someone? Sounds like im just being honest really"

If you d been honest mister, when this meet had arrived and did nt look like their pictures you d have said something then, not sleep with them then mention it:-!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

I would not verify them - in fact, depending on the situation, I might be tempted to report them. They met under false pretences. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

I repeat class act! Why do people feel the need to be disrespectful about their meets?!!. Have i named? No .if a person put up proper pictures of themselves there would never be a problem.

I didn't realise when I posted earlier that you'd actually had sex with her. If a person doesn't look like their pic or you're not compatible, you are allowed to walk away

Agreeing to meet does not mean its a written contract and you have to shag!

If someone did that to me, told me afterwards that he hadn't really wanted to have sex with me and posted a thread on a public forum, Id be completely mortified and would leave the site. Poor waman!

Exactly this!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway.

This

Any chance of a shag Ryan? You can think of England if ya like

Of course. I must warn you though, I'm a proper minger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway. were have to agree to disagree. Would like to know how someone that uses pictures that aint them but i still find them ok to sleep with but if i had seen the real picture from the start i would have said no thanks.hows that slagging someone? Sounds like im just being honest really

My profile is hidden as I have enough playmates at the moment thanks ever so.

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not once have i slagged the person off. If you think tht then thats fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no muff to rough no muff to tough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

I would not verify them - in fact, depending on the situation, I might be tempted to report them. They met under false pretences.

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tbh i think this is the way ill go.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway.

This

Any chance of a shag Ryan? You can think of England if ya like

Of course. I must warn you though, I'm a proper minger

Pfft it's ok I can think of Scotland

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what happened? Did you have sex with them? yes but wont be happening again if im not 100% sure.

Well she can't have been that bad then, otherwise you would have said sorry you're not for me. Wouldn't you?

I guess you have never heard of the expression think of england.

Unbelievable ! Lets just hope she isn't reading this

I'm not pushing my way of thinking. I just find it pretty ironic that you would come on here and slag someone off for not being as good looking as you expected,but shagged them anyway. were have to agree to disagree. Would like to know how someone that uses pictures that aint them but i still find them ok to sleep with but if i had seen the real picture from the start i would have said no

thanks.hows that slagging someone? Sounds like im just being honest really

If you d been honest mister, when this meet had arrived and did nt look like their pictures you d have said something then, not sleep with them then mention it:-!"
the whole point of this thread was for peoples opionions about if i should leave a veri about them not looking like there pictures.wot else went on as nowt to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

I would not verify them - in fact, depending on the situation, I might be tempted to report them. They met under false pretences.

tbh i think this is the way ill go."

It's the way to go if you met up, they weren't as described or as per their pic, and you DIDN'T shag them.

If you DID shag them, then what grounds do you have for reporting..??

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the original poster...

Save time and meet people without pics.

Problem solved!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

I would not verify them - in fact, depending on the situation, I might be tempted to report them. They met under false pretences.

tbh i think this is the way ill go.

It's the way to go if you met up, they weren't as described or as per their pic, and you DIDN'T shag them.

If you DID shag them, then what grounds do you have for reporting..??

ted."
using fake photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one who thinks this meet never really happened and this is all just made up looking for attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you arranaged to meet someone & when you met them they looked totally diff to there pics(not in a good way) would you leave a negative veri or not wanna make the person feel bad

I would not verify them - in fact, depending on the situation, I might be tempted to report them. They met under false pretences.

tbh i think this is the way ill go.

It's the way to go if you met up, they weren't as described or as per their pic, and you DIDN'T shag them.

If you DID shag them, then what grounds do you have for reporting..??

ted. using fake photos?"

In your OP you just said they didn't look anything like their photos, not they're fake photos. We're the pics of the actual person, even if they were out of date or taken in a way that might be construed as 'misleading'...???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fella tbh your not helping yourself here!! if you had said at meet .... "ooh I hear my gas is left on ... gotta shoot toodal loo " and not got down to bump and grind then maybe people would have more respect as no one on this site should ever EVER feel they should just do for the sake of it!!!!! you made the bed but didn't have to lie in it!! poor couple that must feel like crap now they must feel used and abused !! sorry fella but tact would be wise to learn !

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Were they fake photos of someone else? Or just old ones / not a good likeness?

If they were fake then report the pics.

Did she veri you or shall we expect another thread in a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plus the pics are dated??? are they not??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"fella tbh your not helping yourself here!! if you had said at meet .... "ooh I hear my gas is left on ... gotta shoot toodal loo " and not got down to bump and grind then maybe people would have more respect as no one on this site should ever EVER feel they should just do for the sake of it!!!!! you made the bed but didn't have to lie in it!! poor couple that must feel like crap now they must feel used and abused !! sorry fella but tact would be wise to learn !"
couple read the tread correct please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the upside, The Op's "honesty" has highlighted his attitude/personality and I shall merrily use my block button. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were they fake photos of someone else? Or just old ones / not a good likeness?

If they were fake then report the pics.

Did she veri you or shall we expect another thread in a minute

No veri thats why no 1 can find out who it is.i have a message off her saying shes sorry for using pictures that are not her & asking me not to report her.im just leaving it at that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please all who dont agree with this thread block me.many thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On the upside, The Op's "honesty" has highlighted his attitude/personality and I shall merrily use my block button. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't after all they turned up so I would say that however if they looked much older or younger, I may report them instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"plus the pics are dated??? are they not??"
the pictures are of a totally diff person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were they fake photos of someone else? Or just old ones / not a good likeness?

If they were fake then report the pics.

Did she veri you or shall we expect another thread in a minute

No veri thats why no 1 can find out who it is.i have a message off her saying shes sorry for using pictures that are not her & asking me not to report her.im just leaving it at that"

If you DO have a message from her confirming the pics are not her, then cut n paste it into your Report and send it in. DON'T, whatever you do, attempt to name and shame anywhere on here or you'll be sitting on the naughty step too.

But, you haven't helped your case with a lot of people reading this as, instead of stopping the meet the moment you realised it wasn't on the level, you went ahead and shagged her.

Learn when it is prudent to keep ones cock in ones trousers.....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooh yep sorry meant lady ok ok you can shoot us now for the hideous typo Mr Tact

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Were they fake photos of someone else? Or just old ones / not a good likeness?

If they were fake then report the pics.

Did she veri you or shall we expect another thread in a minute

No veri thats why no 1 can find out who it is.i have a message off her saying shes sorry for using pictures that are not her & asking me not to report her.im just leaving it at that

But, you haven't helped your case with a lot of people reading this as, instead of stopping the meet the moment you realised it wasn't on the level, you went ahead and shagged her.

Learn when it is prudent to keep ones cock in ones trousers.....

ted."
i have not once i Repeat not once named & shamed them or will. People have been jumping in with there views & all that i asked is would you verifie them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were they fake photos of someone else? Or just old ones / not a good likeness?

If they were fake then report the pics.

Did she veri you or shall we expect another thread in a minute

No veri thats why no 1 can find out who it is.i have a message off her saying shes sorry for using pictures that are not her & asking me not to report her.im just leaving it at that

But, you haven't helped your case with a lot of people reading this as, instead of stopping the meet the moment you realised it wasn't on the level, you went ahead and shagged her.

Learn when it is prudent to keep ones cock in ones trousers.....

ted."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"oooh yep sorry meant lady ok ok you can shoot us now for the hideous typo Mr Tact

Not here to jump on anyone or be bitchy about things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess the lyrics

Love life and laughter is all I believe

Living joy : DREAMER

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I the only one who thinks this meet never really happened and this is all just made up looking for attention?"
& wot as this comment got to do with the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you seem such a pleasant chap

.... if your gonna post on forum expect people to give an opinion that may not be to your taste man up stop getting so defensive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you seem such a pleasant chap

.... if your gonna post on forum expect people to give an opinion that may not be to your taste man up stop getting so defensive

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Whether she has been named or not, as the lady concerned is obviously a member on here Im sure that she won't be very happy about being discussed in the forum so Im closing this now

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