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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I, as many others no doubt, get a lot of random friend invites. Doesn't bother me as I just ignore them and leave them sitting there.

My question is do they achieve anything positive for the sender? I know some people accept to perve at pics then delete it. But has anyone ever achieved a successful meet by sending one?

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Seemingly not, we tried. Couples are blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave them there a while then delete them

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

friends invites are a misnomer .. perving

rights seem to be more accurate . how can you get a meet without some rappour first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"friends invites are a misnomer .. perving

rights seem to be more accurate . how can you get a meet without some rappour first "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes if I think id be 'punching above my weight' I'll throw and invite or wink....sometimes it works sometimes it don't, sometimes they say hi sometimes they don't !

All part of the fun of the site I guess, lol

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I delete and if I like the look of them pop them in our hotlist.....where they get forgotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes if I think id be 'punching above my weight' I'll throw and invite or wink....sometimes it works sometimes it don't, sometimes they say hi sometimes they don't !

All part of the fun of the site I guess, lol

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Seemingly not, we tried. Couples are blocked "

Lol didn't mean just me. I meant has anyone had a random friend invite which eventually led to a meet?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Nope, never worked here.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I ignore them... Unless I'm really bored and I will accept while the other person is offline and then delete them again (and I warn them of this on my profile)

If I notice the same person repeatedly sending them after the 30 days has expired... then I block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random friends invites lead to blockings, it says on my profile amd shows if anyone reads them. Which 9times outta 10 they dont

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"sometimes if I think id be 'punching above my weight' I'll throw and invite or wink....sometimes it works sometimes it don't, sometimes they say hi sometimes they don't !

All part of the fun of the site I guess, lol "

After they have said hi though did it ever result in a meet?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

In before this becomes a moaning session about unsolicited friend invites....

When i first joined Fab, a random friend invite eventually led to a meet. It is the only time it has happened. I don't entertain them for the most part. Will usually wait till the sender if=s offline, then perv and then delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Random friends invites lead to blockings, it says on my profile amd shows if anyone reads them. Which 9times outta 10 they dont "

I have it on my profile that I will not accept random friend invites & that they wil be deleted. I guess most jst want to see any pics we have. x

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"In before this becomes a moaning session about unsolicited friend invites....

When i first joined Fab, a random friend invite eventually led to a meet. It is the only time it has happened. I don't entertain them for the most part. Will usually wait till the sender if=s offline, then perv and then delete."

That's interesting. Was it you sending or receiving which led to the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we can't be fucking arsed sending friends requests tbh but don't mind people getting in touch,its just being polite accepting and as yet we only have fucked one couple off our friends list despite having quite a few now... maybe i need to look at our list and see whats occuring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never accept random invites and I do say on my profile not to send but still they do. If I'm in a nosy mood I'll wait till they're off line, look at the pics the delete!

Otherwise I leave them there so they can't send again for 30 days

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

So basically they don't achieve anything. Makes you wonder why people bother to send them.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As iv only ever had them off bloke its a big fat no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Random friends invites lead to blockings, it says on my profile amd shows if anyone reads them. Which 9times outta 10 they dont

I have it on my profile that I will not accept random friend invites & that they wil be deleted. I guess most jst want to see any pics we have. x"

Yep thats why i ignore most. Im more likely to add them if they just sent a message and asked to see my private pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never accept random requests, so no meets that way for me x

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"In before this becomes a moaning session about unsolicited friend invites....

When i first joined Fab, a random friend invite eventually led to a meet. It is the only time it has happened. I don't entertain them for the most part. Will usually wait till the sender if=s offline, then perv and then delete.

That's interesting. Was it you sending or receiving which led to the meet? "

I received the invite. Accepted it, liked the private pics, so sent a message. Met with the couple a few days later.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Nowt to perve on my profile

I honestly think that you should at least pm or chat before accepting or sending an invite

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"In before this becomes a moaning session about unsolicited friend invites....

When i first joined Fab, a random friend invite eventually led to a meet. It is the only time it has happened. I don't entertain them for the most part. Will usually wait till the sender if=s offline, then perv and then delete.

That's interesting. Was it you sending or receiving which led to the meet?

I received the invite. Accepted it, liked the private pics, so sent a message. Met with the couple a few days later."

I wonder though if it works the other way around.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"In before this becomes a moaning session about unsolicited friend invites....

When i first joined Fab, a random friend invite eventually led to a meet. It is the only time it has happened. I don't entertain them for the most part. Will usually wait till the sender if=s offline, then perv and then delete.

That's interesting. Was it you sending or receiving which led to the meet?

I received the invite. Accepted it, liked the private pics, so sent a message. Met with the couple a few days later.

I wonder though if it works the other way around. "

send me 1 lets find out

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"In before this becomes a moaning session about unsolicited friend invites....

When i first joined Fab, a random friend invite eventually led to a meet. It is the only time it has happened. I don't entertain them for the most part. Will usually wait till the sender if=s offline, then perv and then delete.

That's interesting. Was it you sending or receiving which led to the meet?

I received the invite. Accepted it, liked the private pics, so sent a message. Met with the couple a few days later.

I wonder though if it works the other way around. "

Probably not, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have accepted random friend invites but then they never actually say hello so I don't know why they bother. I give them a week and then Gone

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester


"Seemingly not, we tried. Couples are blocked

Lol didn't mean just me. I meant has anyone had a random friend invite which eventually led to a meet?"

I know what you meant. No never worked for us. Immediately we see it as a tad lazy, maybe even a bit rude. Appreciate someone says hi first.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Never accepted them and just deleted all the time. Finally cracked and had to ask a couple of the guys who sent them. Apparently they do work and in one case he insisted the invites had led to meets.

Although we will still just keep deleting and ignoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a completely random one yet.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I sent a message to a couple 6 months ago and it wasn't answered. Recently got a friend invite from them. I don't think they want to meet though unless they are very slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Random friends invites lead to blockings, it says on my profile amd shows if anyone reads them. Which 9times outta 10 they dont "

I don't accept I block, it comes across to me as wanting to look at pics, thanks but no thanks, guys will have more luck meeting me by reading , respecting my profile and messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignored and deleted in bulk...

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ummmm sometimes I have meant to send a wink then sent a friends request.......opposssss

Fat fingered on ipad

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Never had a completely random one yet."

Lol Ben you ain't lived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't send them, can't see the point, probably get slated for this... But those that accept random invites, are probably, the type we are not looking for

Each to their own of course

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I accept them.... I do!!

just happens to be when they are offline, I go perv their pics and then delete from my friends list....

I do sometimes send them a thank you for letting me peek!!!! can't be all bad guy now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im happy to conduct a scientific experiment for the good of the forums. Random friend invites accepted. Lets see what happens.

Results will be published in one to two years, subject to successful award of an EU grant to fund the study...

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I put a suggestion in the feedback forum a couple of months ago to only allow a friend request to be sent once a message had been sent and replied to between the 2 parties. It would eradicate the whole random friend request issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I, as many others no doubt, get a lot of random friend invites. Doesn't bother me as I just ignore them and leave them sitting there.

My question is do they achieve anything positive for the sender? I know some people accept to perve at pics then delete it. But has anyone ever achieved a successful meet by sending one?"

They do if its someone who is attractive and gets your interest with their private pictures but in general I would say no they don't in most cases.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It depends for me.

I get a few and I always check to see if they have private pictures. If so I will add them to look/fap at the pictures then remove them later. If they don't have private pictures it's always a no.

It's how I roll yo.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I put a suggestion in the feedback forum a couple of months ago to only allow a friend request to be sent once a message had been sent and replied to between the 2 parties. It would eradicate the whole random friend request issue "

actually... that would not be the worst idea on here.... I like it!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them, even if the profile is as hot as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a girl (or guy or couple) I like the look of ill send a friend request. I see it as an icebreaker, it's me showing them that I'm interested,and if they accept it ill immediately message and day thank you.

I've started chatting and getting to know a lot of lovely people through this method so it's not all bad

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

we have them ,dont bother to look whos sent it ,wouldn't take a mo to send a message,so delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with me they don't if I don't know someone they are not a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the random friends requests, they don't half make us chuckle... Especially if they have not read our profile and live flippin miles away! We have a perv at the pics and they are in our estimation chances and not compatible with us at all... LOL.

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By *amie_leighWoman
over a year ago

coventry

I never thought about adding them to perve their pics Thank you Ive had a very entertaing afternoon

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We just delete friends invites or winks as it shows that they have not read our profile.

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