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A plea to the newbies,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As above, a plea to the newbies, ( and maybe the not so new lurkers that don't post much ) .

Please give the forums a chance, they can be a great place, I know it seems recently that its a slightly frightening place with all the fighting,arguments,posters who appear to post deliberately provocative posts just to cause arguments/promote agenda's etc.

This always happens to a degree in all forums however its usually not as obvious as it has been recently in here.

The forums on Fab are free for all, and as long as you stay within the rules you can post/talk/debate just about anything.

All of the above is of course just my opinion and it may be influenced by my own bias, however it was prompted by a few other regular posters who have commented about the recent " trend " of threads in here.

Anyway the main thing is just enjoy.

Give the forums a chance.

PS

Welcome to the forums

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

think its good for everyone to remember that new people join the forums everyday so play nice with them!!!

they can be fairly addictive once you get settled in so be warned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been posting here a couple of months now, and am online most days now. Can only speak from my own viewpoint, but I dont find them scary at all.

If you did scare me, I'd just get Kate to bite your knob off

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Been posting here a couple of months now, and am online most days now. Can only speak from my own viewpoint, but I dont find them scary at all.

If you did scare me, I'd just get Kate to bite your knob off "

If i took mi bra off ill bet you would be scared lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on site a few months and post quite regularly.

The forums aren't scary you soon find out there are those that love to belittle others but woe betide if you question anything they post - just deprive them of the attention seeking oxygen they crave and enjoy.

Don't be afraid to post your opinion - what a dull life it would be if we all thought the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on site a few months and post quite regularly.

The forums aren't scary you soon find out there are those that love to belittle others but woe betide if you question anything they post - just deprive them of the attention seeking oxygen they crave and enjoy.

Don't be afraid to post your opinion - what a dull life it would be if we all thought the same!

"

Well said sassy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been posting here a couple of months now, and am online most days now. Can only speak from my own viewpoint, but I dont find them scary at all.

If you did scare me, I'd just get Kate to bite your knob off

If i took mi bra off ill bet you would be scared lol "

Betya I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember that you are not allowed to post an opinion in the forums unless the OP has specifically asked for people to give thier opinions, if they have your opinion will be welcomed providing it's not given in an abusive manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the opinion does relate to the subject matter and is helpful then the OP can take something from that.

Keep to the original topic and everyone will be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats true, can I re-phrase it to

Many people do not welcome peoples opinions unless they have been asked for regardless of wether or not they refer to the initial subject and less so if they don't refer to the original subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a forum for you? One person posting an opinion will never close a thread, it’s the people who jump in to disagree with the said opinion that do, people just cannot lets things go sometimes, we’re all guilty of it at times it’s what forums are about, its far to simple to take the written word out of context.

Have fun and keep posting newbies and oldies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep to the original topic and everyone will be happy."

yeah, cause people never go off topic in here do they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s a forum for you? One person posting an opinion will never close a thread, it’s the people who jump in to disagree with the said opinion that do, people just cannot lets things go sometimes, we’re all guilty of it at times it’s what forums are about, its far to simple to take the written word out of context.

Have fun and keep posting newbies and oldies"

ditto especially the last paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A plea to the oldies also, when replying to a newby, try to reply in the same manner you would an oldie, and vice versa, please.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"A plea to the oldies also, when replying to a newby, try to reply in the same manner you would an oldie, and vice versa, please.

"

Hey...

Do you mean "Oi! Grandad!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A plea to the oldies also, when replying to a newby, try to reply in the same manner you would an oldie, and vice versa, please.

Hey...

Do you mean "Oi! Grandad!" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A plea to the oldies also, when replying to a newby, try to reply in the same manner you would an oldie, and vice versa, please.

Hey...

Do you mean "Oi! Grandad!" "

lol, no I mean, some are just as quick to defend a long timer of the forums as they are to attack a newby on the same subject, some threads would receive very different replies from the same people if started by one or the other, newby, oldie.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"A plea to the oldies also, when replying to a newby, try to reply in the same manner you would an oldie, and vice versa, please.

Hey...

Do you mean "Oi! Grandad!"

lol, no I mean, some are just as quick to defend a long timer of the forums as they are to attack a newby on the same subject, some threads would receive very different replies from the same people if started by one or the other, newby, oldie. "

Cheers Grandma... now bake some feckin' cakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And dont go thinking there are cliques lol its a popular misconception on here if ya want to talk just do it

You may not be answered every time but thats life

Cliques indeed we are all just peeps lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And dont go thinking there are cliques lol its a popular misconception on here if ya want to talk just do it

You may not be answered every time but thats life

Cliques indeed we are all just peeps lol xx "

oh, there are cliques, some better than others though, just be sure to join the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be blind. I don't see all these things going on. Are you all psychologists?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be blind. I don't see all these things going on. Are you all psychologists? "

Maybe us that do visit the forums too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the formus and like to give an opinion about what been up too as have no local swinging friends. They keep me informed about the goings on and new trends that are being set in the swinging world. I also find that questions are answered about certain things that you may not ask a person face to face.

Like swollen genitals from play or gushing the difference. But having said that have got more confident with self and asked the local gp about sexual things in off hand manner. So it has open my mind as well to being open about body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found some people ignore you and others are a little aggressive but most people are great. I am thinking of going to a social to meet more people next and see how that goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dive in and enjoy the forums I'd say!

Have fun and welcome to the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im a newbie and hardly ever post and am always nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well im a newbie and hardly ever post and am always nice "

oh, we have a newbie everyone, initiation test prepared?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh go on.i dares ya

Im tuff me ya know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shrivels up in the corner at the response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ner ner ner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hides behind keyboard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the forums can be a strange place and take some gettin used to but honestly they can be fun too!! iv made some friends il never meet on the forums !! also some that i want to meet.....down a dark alley with a baseball bat....jokin!!

honestly stick around!! xx

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

Welllll! I remember the old Forums!

Those where the days!

Whippersnappers!

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london


"Welllll! I remember the old Forums!

Those where the days!

Whippersnappers!"

Oh, and you all had bullshit rankings next to your Avatar!

(aka number of postings.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times."

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i realise that it can be awkward for newbie posters...especially when shit stirring is occuring or people arguing it aint exactly a welcoming place.....and yes i meant arguing not debating!!!

So please just dive in......the more the merrier!!!!!

Lets hope the abrasiveness of some dont put too many off...so come on newbies n feel the love.....Femmefatale kisses anyone??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i realise that it can be awkward for newbie posters...especially when shit stirring is occuring or people arguing it aint exactly a welcoming place.....and yes i meant arguing not debating!!!

So please just dive in......the more the merrier!!!!!

Lets hope the abrasiveness of some dont put too many off...so come on newbies n feel the love.....Femmefatale kisses anyone?????? "

I'll take 23 hours worth of Femmekisses please, ( i'll need an hour for CPR and oxygen after it )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"especially when shit stirring is occuring or people arguing it aint exactly a welcoming place.....and yes i meant arguing not debating!!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can ya post if ya unverified tho

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"especially when shit stirring is occuring or people arguing it aint exactly a welcoming place.....and yes i meant arguing not debating!!!

"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i realise that it can be awkward for newbie posters...especially when shit stirring is occuring or people arguing it aint exactly a welcoming place.....and yes i meant arguing not debating!!!

So please just dive in......the more the merrier!!!!!

Lets hope the abrasiveness of some dont put too many off...so come on newbies n feel the love.....Femmefatale kisses anyone??????

I'll take 23 hours worth of Femmekisses please, ( i'll need an hour for CPR and oxygen after it )

"
ok il book u in for that therapy right away mr plums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here "

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users. "

Bite your head off, far from it miss but not sure where I have beasted any new folk on here as I try to stay clear of the usual newbie bashing threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users.

Bite your head off, far from it miss but not sure where I have beasted any new folk on here as I try to stay clear of the usual newbie bashing threads "

Just pointing out you come across as a deliberately argumentative woman on many things you post and it can be off putting to follow.

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By *harlie_n_DeeCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users. "

2nd that. main reason we stopped posting over a year ago just nip in & out now 2 have a look at what goes on & went back to another site. called bullying other places we use.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

I personally find the more shall we say acid folks on the forums are the ones who face to face in a pub would not say a word out of place.

Its very easy to be brave hidden behind a computer.

I would say if you have nothing nice to say then better to say nothing.

Steve

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"I would say if you have nothing nice to say then better to say nothing.

"

Greetings trust you're both well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users.

Bite your head off, far from it miss but not sure where I have beasted any new folk on here as I try to stay clear of the usual newbie bashing threads

Just pointing out you come across as a deliberately argumentative woman on many things you post and it can be off putting to follow."

But I'm a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find the more shall we say acid folks on the forums are the ones who face to face in a pub would not say a word out of place.

Its very easy to be brave hidden behind a computer.

I would say if you have nothing nice to say then better to say nothing.

Steve "

Had that happen to us, would have been happy to chat but "they" completely avoided us, most bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users.

Bite your head off, far from it miss but not sure where I have beasted any new folk on here as I try to stay clear of the usual newbie bashing threads

Just pointing out you come across as a deliberately argumentative woman on many things you post and it can be off putting to follow.

But I'm a bloke "

You picture is of a woman. Anyway i don't want to argue with you i was just pointing out you came across in an intimidating manner sometimes.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I personally find the more shall we say acid folks on the forums are the ones who face to face in a pub would not say a word out of place.

Its very easy to be brave hidden behind a computer.

I would say if you have nothing nice to say then better to say nothing.

Steve

Had that happen to us, would have been happy to chat but "they" completely avoided us, most bizarre "

oi i said hi!!!!!!

i dont think your as bad as some people are making out, some people just dont know how to take u

i think one problem is if someone does not post much or new, they do not know someones 'forum personailty' and may be taken WAY much the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users.

Bite your head off, far from it miss but not sure where I have beasted any new folk on here as I try to stay clear of the usual newbie bashing threads

Just pointing out you come across as a deliberately argumentative woman on many things you post and it can be off putting to follow.

But I'm a bloke

You picture is of a woman. Anyway i don't want to argue with you i was just pointing out you came across in an intimidating manner sometimes."

OK no problem

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I would say if you have nothing nice to say then better to say nothing.

Greetings trust you're both well "

We're good thanks - how are you? Z

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I personally find the more shall we say acid folks on the forums are the ones who face to face in a pub would not say a word out of place.

Its very easy to be brave hidden behind a computer.

I would say if you have nothing nice to say then better to say nothing.

Steve

Had that happen to us, would have been happy to chat but "they" completely avoided us, most bizarre

oi i said hi!!!!!!

i dont think your as bad as some people are making out, some people just dont know how to take u

i think one problem is if someone does not post much or new, they do not know someones 'forum personailty' and may be taken WAY much the wrong way.

"

completely agree with you Kitty

also, it is often hard to get the tone of a post across - even with a millions smileys

i for one am quite sarcastic in real life but often that comes across as arsey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i realise that it can be awkward for newbie posters...especially when shit stirring is occuring or people arguing it aint exactly a welcoming place.....and yes i meant arguing not debating!!!

So please just dive in......the more the merrier!!!!!

Lets hope the abrasiveness of some dont put too many off...so come on newbies n feel the love.....Femmefatale kisses anyone?????? "

.

Group hug time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to rub myself up against newbies and let them put their hands up my frock...Hee Hee Hee...

No Mum I aint on the laptop again...Damn did I type that...?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"i realise that it can be awkward for newbie posters...especially when shit stirring is occuring or people arguing it aint exactly a welcoming place.....and yes i meant arguing not debating!!!

So please just dive in......the more the merrier!!!!!

Lets hope the abrasiveness of some dont put too many off...so come on newbies n feel the love.....Femmefatale kisses anyone??????

.

Group hug time! "
Psssssst Pearl....watch out plums is about.....that means grope time !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love to rub myself up against newbies and let them put their hands up my frock...Hee Hee Hee...

No Mum I aint on the laptop again...Damn did I type that...?"

who said the forums weren't scary ????

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I love to rub myself up against newbies and let them put their hands up my frock...Hee Hee Hee...

No Mum I aint on the laptop again...Damn did I type that...?"

LOL BUSTED

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to rub myself up against newbies and let them put their hands up my frock...Hee Hee Hee...

No Mum I aint on the laptop again...Damn did I type that...?

LOL BUSTED

Steve "

Sharrup Steve I just got a clip round the ear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sharrup Steve I just got a clip round the ear... "

.

Not THAT sound clip I hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally find the more shall we say acid folks on the forums are the ones who face to face in a pub would not say a word out of place.

Its very easy to be brave hidden behind a computer.

I would say if you have nothing nice to say then better to say nothing.

Steve

Had that happen to us, would have been happy to chat but "they" completely avoided us, most bizarre

oi i said hi!!!!!!

i dont think your as bad as some people are making out, some people just dont know how to take u

i think one problem is if someone does not post much or new, they do not know someones 'forum personailty' and may be taken WAY much the wrong way.

"

Not you you goon, your way too nice to ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX "

Get stuck in then, and fear no one as we are all pussies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

Get stuck in then, and fear no one as we are all pussies "

Don't be saying that. he may try to podge us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll remember that! XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

Get stuck in then, and fear no one as we are all pussies

Don't be saying that. he may try to podge us all. "

Dont knock it till you have tried it, only hurts the first time and does not taste that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX "

Know how ya feel on that score

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

Know how ya feel on that score "

Hook up alert Hook up alert

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

Get stuck in then, and fear no one as we are all pussies

Don't be saying that. he may try to podge us all. "

lol @ 'podge'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

Know how ya feel on that score

Hook up alert Hook up alert "

More like "fuck up" alert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

Know how ya feel on that score

Hook up alert Hook up alert

More like "fuck up" alert "

Looks like you are both in the same boat so some exploration could bear fruit.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL - you guys are fun...and when I say "guys", I mean to include you Ladies too.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a newbie, and I LURVE the forums! Since nobody seems remotely interested in having sex with me, the forums are all I have left to live for!

Mwah XX

Know how ya feel on that score

Hook up alert Hook up alert

More like "fuck up" alert

Looks like you are both in the same boat so some exploration could bear fruit............."

Oh i dont wanna bear any fruit....

Just have a damned good shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL - you guys are fun...and when I say "guys", I mean to include you Ladies too.

XXX "

I am surprised no one was offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL - you guys are fun...and when I say "guys", I mean to include you Ladies too.

XXX

I am surprised no one was offended "

Give the comfy shoe brigade time, give them time

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Sometimes its just not nice for occasional users. It does put you off contributing at times.

Been posting in here for 2 years or so and I have yet to see anything more than handbags and bluster, there really is nothing to fear in here

Well your going to bite my head off but you do seem to be one of the ones who like to upset and intimidate. You might not intend this but it comes across that way sometimes to occasional users.

Bite your head off, far from it miss but not sure where I have beasted any new folk on here as I try to stay clear of the usual newbie bashing threads

Just pointing out you come across as a deliberately argumentative woman on many things you post and it can be off putting to follow.

But I'm a bloke

You picture is of a woman. Anyway i don't want to argue with you i was just pointing out you came across in an intimidating manner sometimes."

Some very confusing avatar at times you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PMSL "

ohhhh scary bonks!!!! ha ha ha ha!!! i found readin through that lot highly amusin!! ohhh im no postin the big scary woman will come through my computer screen and get me!!

want photographic proof of you in a dress!!!

i must just be very thick skinned!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing I have found with the forums is there are so many of the same people posting to which they tend to deviate away from the original post and start conversations between themselves. Just my opinion, hence why I try and stay away from forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

topics always get lost once the regulars start

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

i have also noticed it depends on who ya shaggin at the time if your post get took serious or not LOL

and in the fourms its like proper swinging here they love one, one week, then love someone the next hard to keep up but oh so lovley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes that does happen but u just sift through what you dont want to read?? same as you do with newspapers or is it just me that skips the bits that dont interest me??

as for same people postin if others join in then its not the same ones??simples!!!

come on join in!!! we promise bonks wont put a dress on!!! (please god!!) xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"topics always get lost once the regulars start "

This thread is about a plea to the newbies, not about thread drift

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"i have also noticed it depends on who ya shaggin at the time if your post get took serious or not LOL

and in the fourms its like proper swinging here they love one, one week, then love someone the next hard to keep up but oh so lovley

"

All well and good but did you get bubbles in yer feckin wallpaper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"topics always get lost once the regulars start

This thread is about a plea to the newbies, not about thread drift "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have also noticed it depends on who ya shaggin at the time if your post get took serious or not LOL

and in the fourms its like proper swinging here they love one, one week, then love someone the next hard to keep up but oh so lovley

"

No fucker loves me, which I love a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"topics always get lost once the regulars start

This thread is about a plea to the newbies, not about thread drift

"

Sorry mate but I could not help me self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"topics always get lost once the regulars start

This thread is about a plea to the newbies, not about thread drift

Sorry mate but I could not help me self "

thats OK, if you hadnt, I'm sure some one else would have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started posting on Monday of this week and Im dead shy and retiring and fearful of posting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I started posting on Monday of this week and Im dead shy and retiring and fearful of posting "

we noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started posting on Monday of this week and Im dead shy and retiring and fearful of posting

we noticed "

See now that puts me off - cos now all I see is a little group of we's talking about me ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I started posting on Monday of this week and Im dead shy and retiring and fearful of posting

we noticed

See now that puts me off - cos now all I see is a little group of we's talking about me ... "

Are you making fun of my multiple personality disorder now ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started posting on Monday of this week and Im dead shy and retiring and fearful of posting

we noticed

See now that puts me off - cos now all I see is a little group of we's talking about me ... "

but you have came into it with the right frame of mind u dont moan u dont criticsice and you have a laugh xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started posting on Monday of this week and Im dead shy and retiring and fearful of posting

we noticed

See now that puts me off - cos now all I see is a little group of we's talking about me ...

but you have came into it with the right frame of mind u dont moan u dont criticsice and you have a laugh xx "

Well I had a baptism of fire when I discovered t'internet... I chose AOL as my internet service provider. Anyone who has ever been in their chatrooms you have to wear a tin hat. AOL is a bigger swingers site than any swingers site could ever be. Better than any soap opera too. So Im not new to forums just this one.

Ive always had a laugh over most things but it gets me into trouble a lot. I genuinely enjoy forums and have been on various sites and am a proud member of the Large Penis Support Group until they chucked me off. I cant believe Ive been here for almost a year and hadnt noticed these forums - it must be cos Im unindated with irresistable offers from hot guys every day....

I stop posting when the bitching towards me starts as I wasnt put on this earth to hurt people and therefore dont want anyone to hurt me. Sometimes posters forget there are genuinely nice people at the other end...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how long am i a newbie for then, i joined in october????

I love the forums and love commenting, long live the forums!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how long am i a newbie for then, i joined in october????

I love the forums and love commenting, long live the forums!!!!!! lol "

You just qualifed, welcome to the forums regular poster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started posting on Monday of this week and Im dead shy and retiring and fearful of posting

we noticed

See now that puts me off - cos now all I see is a little group of we's talking about me ...

but you have came into it with the right frame of mind u dont moan u dont criticsice and you have a laugh xx

Well I had a baptism of fire when I discovered t'internet... I chose AOL as my internet service provider. Anyone who has ever been in their chatrooms you have to wear a tin hat. AOL is a bigger swingers site than any swingers site could ever be. Better than any soap opera too. So Im not new to forums just this one.

Ive always had a laugh over most things but it gets me into trouble a lot. I genuinely enjoy forums and have been on various sites and am a proud member of the Large Penis Support Group until they chucked me off. I cant believe Ive been here for almost a year and hadnt noticed these forums - it must be cos Im unindated with irresistable offers from hot guys every day....

I stop posting when the bitching towards me starts as I wasnt put on this earth to hurt people and therefore dont want anyone to hurt me. Sometimes posters forget there are genuinely nice people at the other end..."

"big hugs" everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

On the other website (social network type) there are 2 main gangs and it makes it hard to make friends as one has to tread carefully for fear of them attacking anything you say

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