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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does the number of verifications put people off? Too many or not enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really. I just skim over them and make sure the words 'physcho' 'knife' and 'medical emergency, don't pop up anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, depends what I am looking for, more than one a month, I would move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, depends what I am looking for, more than one a month, I would move on."

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does the number of verifications put people off? Too many or not enough."

I've often wondered this. Obviously you want enough to prove that you're genuine, reliable and show your character in the best light, but not so many as to intimidate people.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Couldn't care less! What people do and ho they do it with and how often is completely up to them!

I do wonder how some people find the time though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered. I rarely read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did once get told we where to active .

Guess if they had actually read the verifications, they would have realised most where, from socials

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!"

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"No not really. I just skim over them and make sure the words 'physcho' 'knife' and 'medical emergency, don't pop up anywhere"

Bugger...so I guess you don't fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be useful can put the less serious off

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Yes, depends what I am looking for, more than one a month, I would move on.

Seriously? "

Really? Is that social or play meets? My last 20 odd veris were from 2 socials, however I was shagging like the Duracell bunny during that time with my FWB and a coupla other guys I know who don't verify me cos we've played lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially."

this

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Does the number of verifications put people off? Too many or not enough.

I've often wondered this. Obviously you want enough to prove that you're genuine, reliable and show your character in the best light, but not so many as to intimidate people."

Honestly, I've never been intimidated by amount of veris...impressed, but never intimidated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I just skim over them and make sure the words 'physcho' 'knife' and 'medical emergency, don't pop up anywhere

Bugger...so I guess you don't fancy a fuck? "

Aahhhhh best not eh? Don't want an involuntary castration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can but depends how long they've been on the site for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had before! Someone assuming I'd fucked all of them and not that we had met socially! Mental! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially."

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pmsl!!! More than once a month? Seriously!!!???? How funny!!! We're swingers hun, not bored married folk!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"No not really. I just skim over them and make sure the words 'physcho' 'knife' and 'medical emergency, don't pop up anywhere

Bugger...so I guess you don't fancy a fuck?

Aahhhhh best not eh? Don't want an involuntary castration "

I've just hidden those veris so you'll be fine...honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what?! If it what they like! Who are you to judge?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!"

Jammy cunts

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!"

Erm, I wasn't implying you were stupid. With some veris it isn't obvious if it was a play or social meet.

And so what if some people want to have a very naughty day every now and then?

I did three in one week once, I must be a dirty slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!

Jammy cunts "

right best be off before I get into mischief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!

Jammy cunts "

Where do they get the time and energy, unless the meets are five minute wonders?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of by maybe 50 + ...... But a bit more off putting - Ive noticed the same woman again and again verifying the same blokes I am looking at x

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!

Jammy cunts

Where do they get the time and energy, unless the meets are five minute wonders?"

I'd guess its more a greedy girl/gangbang thing

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

How can you judge though, lots don't show veris, some show some, some maybe socials, also some people have been on here 4-5 years....*coughs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!

Erm, I wasn't implying you were stupid. With some veris it isn't obvious if it was a play or social meet.

And so what if some people want to have a very naughty day every now and then?

I did three in one week once, I must be a dirty slut. "

so if I messaged you, saying I would like to meet for bareback fun only and my veri's showed I had met 30 women in the last week for sex, you wouldn't be put off?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Sort of by maybe 50 + ...... But a bit more off putting - Ive noticed the same woman again and again verifying the same blokes I am looking at x"

Is it as simple as that woman living in your same area and just being attracted to the same type of guy? You do get that a lot on here.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"How can you judge though, lots don't show veris, some show some, some maybe socials, also some people have been on here 4-5 years....*coughs*"

Then there's just the total slippers such as myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks like I have a lot of verifications for a profile that has only been on here for 4 months.

But a lot are from people that knew me on my previous profile over the course of 2 years, others are from party nights where I have been verified by a few people from the same event.

It does not mean I have played with them all within the last 4 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you judge though, lots don't show veris, some show some, some maybe socials, also some people have been on here 4-5 years....*coughs*"

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!

Erm, I wasn't implying you were stupid. With some veris it isn't obvious if it was a play or social meet.

And so what if some people want to have a very naughty day every now and then?

I did three in one week once, I must be a dirty slut.

so if I messaged you, saying I would like to meet for bareback fun only and my veri's showed I had met 30 women in the last week for sex, you wouldn't be put off?"

The thing that would put me off is the bareback only. Although I would wonder where on earth you found the time and energy to do 30 women in one week

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had. "
Indeed....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have well over a million, but prefer not to display them all for fear of being labelled a tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!

Erm, I wasn't implying you were stupid. With some veris it isn't obvious if it was a play or social meet.

And so what if some people want to have a very naughty day every now and then?

I did three in one week once, I must be a dirty slut.

so if I messaged you, saying I would like to meet for bareback fun only and my veri's showed I had met 30 women in the last week for sex, you wouldn't be put off?

The thing that would put me off is the bareback only. Although I would wonder where on earth you found the time and energy to do 30 women in one week "

Trust me, there are at least 2 women on here that are playing as above, suffice to say I was put off by the veri's! hence my original post to the OP's question!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"How can you judge though, lots don't show veris, some show some, some maybe socials, also some people have been on here 4-5 years....*coughs*

Then there's just the total slippers such as myself "

Slippers=slappers...I'm channelling Evie tonight - damn autocarrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have well over a million, but prefer not to display them all for fear of being labelled a tart "

Tart.

I only have 987. I don't show them for fear of being labelled a newbie.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I have well over a million, but prefer not to display them all for fear of being labelled a tart "

**Makes private note on Rams profile "slipper"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"autocarrot "

Cruise control for donkeys

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I have well over a million, but prefer not to display them all for fear of being labelled a tart "

But we already know you're a massive tart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who the fuck does bareback,??? Idiot!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Who the fuck does bareback,??? Idiot!"

PLENTY of people do. But yes, idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who are busy shagging and collecting veris have no time to judge others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sort of by maybe 50 + ...... But a bit more off putting - Ive noticed the same woman again and again verifying the same blokes I am looking at x"

I find the 'territory marking' hilarious. I wish the owners of fab would publish a book with extracts from these type of veris. Some of them are really funny.

Amount of veris doesnt interest me. We attend clubs and parties so we have met quite a few people during our 3 years of swinging.

I dont mind who is put off by my veris. Im not going to change what I do or what I display.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone can fake it by not posting verifs! Seriously! As long as we play safe does it matter? Its a swingers site! We all love sex! Guys who judge, and I've had a couple, should just fuck off! I play safe and love sex...... And? If I was a guy I'd be patted on the back and high fived!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who the fuck does bareback,??? Idiot!

PLENTY of people do. But yes, idiots."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had. "

Couldn't of said it better myself. I get a lot of attention. Should I tell men oh no sorry can't meet I've met someone this year. :/ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had. "

Oh and for the record. I would be happy to verify you over and over again!

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

Somehow managed to survive without those put off by my veris, in fact bit of a blessing really, they would only further clog up the inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somehow managed to survive without those put off by my veris, in fact bit of a blessing really, they would only further clog up the inbox."

All your veri's make you sound very genuine and very much the spirit of this site.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I really don't care how many veri's someone has... As has been said already.. Who's to say that person with one veri displayed each month doesn't have another 200 they aren't showing.

Two things that do put me off are the territory marking veri's, where they are constantly repeated fron the same person.

The other is the actual content of some.. eg "he dumped his huge load in me" etc

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly dont understand why it bothers anyone. This is the swinging scene for goodness sake!

Is it not a given that we like sex in its various forms? So why is anyone concerned how much sex someone has had? Afterall...chances are they are getting a lot more than is mentioned in their veris anyway...or even NOT mentioned in their veris..

Or am I missing something here?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I have well over a million, but prefer not to display them all for fear of being labelled a tart

Tart.

I only have 987. I don't show them for fear of being labelled a newbie. "

Pencil in 988

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

The other is the actual content of some.. eg "he dumped his huge load in me" etc"

I don't mind that sort of veri if we're talking about earth moving equipment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly dont understand why it bothers anyone. This is the swinging scene for goodness sake!

Is it not a given that we like sex in its various forms? So why is anyone concerned how much sex someone has had? Afterall...chances are they are getting a lot more than is mentioned in their veris anyway...or even NOT mentioned in their veris..

Or am I missing something here? "

its about risk and safety. very similar to backing horses,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have well over a million, but prefer not to display them all for fear of being labelled a tart

Tart.

I only have 987. I don't show them for fear of being labelled a newbie.

Pencil in 988 "

Lol....a. virtual amateur! Ha!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


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The other is the actual content of some.. eg "he dumped his huge load in me" etc

I don't mind that sort of veri if we're talking about earth moving equipment "

lol

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley


"I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love that its the age of equality and us hungry girls can go out and take who/what we need! Love my life! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly dont understand why it bothers anyone. This is the swinging scene for goodness sake!

Is it not a given that we like sex in its various forms? So why is anyone concerned how much sex someone has had? Afterall...chances are they are getting a lot more than is mentioned in their veris anyway...or even NOT mentioned in their veris..

Or am I missing something here?

its about risk and safety. very similar to backing horses, "

Lol....backing horses??? I am not into beastiality!! Lol.

No seriously...I understand the safety issue etc.....but some are debating the importance of the number of veris. My point is that it means nothing. Some people hide their veris but might be out playing every night! So it isn't a reliable tool really.....

I, on the other hand, am a virtual angel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love that its the age of equality and us hungry girls can go out and take who/what we need! Love my life! X "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had. "

Exactly the point I was trying to make! ! The hypocrisy of it! Ha ha...

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley


"I really don't care how many veri's someone has... As has been said already.. Who's to say that person with one veri displayed each month doesn't have another 200 they aren't showing.

Two things that do put me off are the territory marking veri's, where they are constantly repeated fron the same person.

The other is the actual content of some.. eg "he dumped his huge load in me" etc"

Gotta be better than "his eyes rolled back into his head but he was spitting feathers"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


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**Makes private note on Rams profile "slipper" "

Oh Caz, you are so accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, depends what I am looking for, more than one a month, I would move on.

Seriously?

Really? Is that social or play meets? My last 20 odd veris were from 2 socials, however I was shagging like the Duracell bunny during that time with my FWB and a coupla other guys I know who don't verify me cos we've played lots"

This subject always makes me smile!

I decide whether to show veris, or not. I decide whether to show 1, or 100. I could show 1 a month but actually I've got one a week, at the end of a year I'm showing 12 but I've actually got 52. Oh sorry, I was on holiday for 2 weeks in July so I've only got 50!! Is that too many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped showing mine because I'm sick to death of the infantile attitude of some people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just seriously wonder where people with shed loads find the time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone only has one/ a few veri's on here... doesn't mean they don't meet other people off the site....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because someone only has one/ a few veri's on here... doesn't mean they don't meet other people off the site....! "

Your so right.. There's loads of other ways to meet people. Clubs etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't careless what people think about our veris! Some are play meets some are social meets!

The amount of persons veris really doesn't put us off...... After all its a site to meet like minded people for fun

Where would the fun be if we didn't meet others?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Anyone else notice the gender split on this subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else notice the gender split on this subject? "

To save me reading it, to surmise I take it women are getting slatted if they have too many but men not?

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"Anyone else notice the gender split on this subject? "

Indeed..funny that

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By *ovethesunWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Puts me off big time cos if you check them and see how many meets the people they have met have had, dont no if safe sex goes on so dont meet, I love just 1/2 verifications

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Anyone else notice the gender split on this subject?

To save me reading it, to surmise I take it women are getting slatted if they have too many but men not? "

Women are defending the right to have lots, (some) men are perturbed by lots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else notice the gender split on this subject?

To save me reading it, to surmise I take it women are getting slatted if they have too many but men not?

Women are defending the right to have lots, (some) men are perturbed by lots."

I see, thanks

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

If I was on a dating site and I saw someone had lots of dates ( btw I know no dating site which lists them) then yes I would be put off, as I would be looking for someone to date exclusively.

But here on a swingers site, it doesn't matter one little bit. If I like the person and want to have sex with them I will. If they think I have seen too many men, tough. I seriously do think those who only want those with a few verifications are on the wrong site or have unrealistic expectations.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Anyone else notice the gender split on this subject?

To save me reading it, to surmise I take it women are getting slatted if they have too many but men not?

Women are defending the right to have lots, (some) men are perturbed by lots."

Might be the guys are just plain envious,,

I had a meet last night, the veri will follow

May take a while I struggle to type with my left hand though so there maybe a lot of spelling mistakes,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes no difference to me unless I turn up and they say they want fun bareback. Then I'd turn on my heel and walk away!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I read them but don't take much notice and the number is misleading anyway as some could have come from socials.

They are there mainly to verify a person is real so you only need one or two (in case the first person imagined you)

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

It used to when I first joined, but 8 months and a very busy Club social later I understand why there can be so many veris; it no longer bothers me! It would be great to be able to separate 'play' and 'social' meets though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive 30 verifications out of them ive only had full sex with 4 of them.

Ive had a bit of a play at clubs but most are just social meets or people ive spoken to in a club.

Only ones that would put me off and i have to be honest is if a female was having gangbangs daily ....and that doesnt happen....each to their own but it wouldnt be my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me old fashioned, but I remember a time when we didn't have the electronic ability to keep a tally, or count, of peoples sexual conquests - or have others review them. Those were the days when you met people, chatted, got on well and then had lots of intercourse with them...and often you made friends and saw them many more times.

These days we have threads like this, brought about because of an electronic scoreboard system and people playing 'armchair detective' roaming through peoples verifications looking for reasons not to meet them - "oh no can't meet them because they met someone who met something we disagree with"

* People complain they can't get any meets

* People complain that they can't show verification because they have had too many meets

* People complain because other people have had too many meets.

* People complain because they are obsessed with mapping the 'semenologial' tree of meets and don't like what they find.

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Some people need to take a step back and actually understand what this site and swinging are all about. Others just need to get a goddamn grip and stop thinking with their egos.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Call me old fashioned, but I remember a time when we didn't have the electronic ability to keep a tally, or count, of peoples sexual conquests - or have others review them. Those were the days when you met people, chatted, got on well and then had lots of intercourse with them...and often you made friends and saw them many more times.

These days we have threads like this, brought about because of an electronic scoreboard system and people playing 'armchair detective' roaming through peoples verifications looking for reasons not to meet them - "oh no can't meet them because they met someone who met something we disagree with"

* People complain they can't get any meets

* People complain that they can't show verification because they have had too many meets

* People complain because other people have had too many meets.

* People complain because they are obsessed with mapping the 'semenologial' tree of meets and don't like what they find.

--

Some people need to take a step back and actually understand what this site and swinging are all about. Others just need to get a goddamn grip and stop thinking with their egos. "

Its not Thursday rant yet mister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems you can't win on here!

None or very few verifications and you may be assumed to be a fake/timewaster etc!

To many verifications and well its anybodys guess what folk make of you

So just wonder what people would call a happy medium??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like to get a good hard grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Its not Thursday rant yet mister "

What can I say, Im a rebel.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had. "

It does seem a bit strange, but then I think a lot of blokes want 'easy' sex as long as it is only easy for them. The thought that a woman might actually enjoy it with someone else is more than their pride can stand.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"

Its not Thursday rant yet mister

What can I say, Im a rebel. "

Good rant though . Now that's off your chest, I hope your breathing easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of our verifications come from party meets leasing to several at once but we still get comments about having too many. Can't win lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to stop showing mine and lost a regular playmate because one of his meets got jealous but I do look at others and if someone has a load sometimes it puts me off but not always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Its not Thursday rant yet mister

What can I say, Im a rebel.

Good rant though . Now that's off your chest, I hope your breathing easier "

Never been better. I think people see these as rants - and maybe they read like them - but they really aren't. I'm just a bit direct and pointy in my writing style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes! some have several everyday! so definitely puts me off!

You do realise that they could have been from a social where they just met a lot of people, you know, socially.

Yes i'm not stupid!

not allowed to name names on here but have been messaged by at least 2 that meet for play, am and then pm with 2 or 3 guys a day!"

Good on them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont matter one bit to me. Ive got plenty but a lot are from regular meets or parties, and some are light hearted but show a build up of trust in a meet. Would cut it in half probably if I trimmed them to one per person. Shame people dont read them and just judge on a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

These days we have threads like this, brought about because of an electronic scoreboard system and people playing 'armchair detective' roaming through peoples verifications looking for reasons not to meet them - "oh no can't meet them because they met someone who met something we disagree with"

* People complain they can't get any meets

* People complain that they can't show verification because they have had too many meets

* People complain because other people have had too many meets.

* People complain because they are obsessed with mapping the 'semenologial' tree of meets and don't like what they find.

--

Some people need to take a step back and actually understand what this site and swinging are all about. Others just need to get a goddamn grip and stop thinking with their egos. "

Am I the only one that uses the veri summary for these reasons.

Also, just to add. Ive had people contact people I've met..I know that because I was there at the time...ahem again!!

The veri summary was the best thing fab could have done!

If anyone wants more I can send them but so far never been asked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just find it amazing that people are on a swinger site to get sex, but then judge others on how much sex they have had.

It does seem a bit strange, but then I think a lot of blokes want 'easy' sex as long as it is only easy for them. The thought that a woman might actually enjoy it with someone else is more than their pride can stand."

Yep I think that's what a lot of it is!!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

For me it's not the number but the type.

Multiple veris from one person suggest someone has caught themselves a bunny boiler so I'd steer clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet said she didn't do veris it's like trip advisor you wouldn't publish shite ones! But then got bunny boiler over others that I then published - hell it's swinging! NSA fun not match.com!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's not the number but the type.

Multiple veris from one person suggest someone has caught themselves a bunny boiler so I'd steer clear.

"

So it wouldnt be that they clicked (sexualy and socially) and enjoyed each other? What is quantifiable as 'too many meets with the same person' which propels it into 'rabbit stew' territory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really. I just skim over them and make sure the words 'physcho' 'knife' and 'medical emergency, don't pop up anywhere"

Lol, thats brilliant! But they wouldn't display them ones would they?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's more the repeated marking of territory.

I have friends I've met repeatedly but neither of us feel the need to send new veris for every meet. Add in the 'joking' comments like "I'd love to keep this one for myself" and I back gently away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more the repeated marking of territory.

I have friends I've met repeatedly but neither of us feel the need to send new veris for every meet. Add in the 'joking' comments like "I'd love to keep this one for myself" and I back gently away.

"

Yes, those sorts of comments can be taken with a somewhat sinister overtone!

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