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The Trust Game

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If you don't trust people why should they trust you?

Do you trust people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where im so easy cause i trust people on their word and how they are....im far too trusting but it will take them to lie to me and i wont trust them again...but until then i trust.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"This is where im so easy cause i trust people on their word and how they are....im far too trusting but it will take them to lie to me and i wont trust them again...but until then i trust."

Me too.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"This is where im so easy cause i trust people on their word and how they are....im far too trusting but it will take them to lie to me and i wont trust them again...but until then i trust."

Yep same. People get one chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in a deep reflective mood today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Sometimes I have put my trust in the wrong people. I like to think though that I can be trusted implicitly to look after anyone's property or secrets.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I trust people if they prove to me they can be trusted. I guess that works in reverse as well; i'd only expect people to trust me if i prove i'm trustworthy.

It might sometimes come across as cold hearted or even paranoid, but i'm mostly a realist.

Gosh i sound so jaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if someone your spending time with is making you question your trust? Its not nice to be suspicious but what if it is just very suspicious?

Dilemma of my day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't trust anyone really....I've got good cause to feel this way

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Trust is a 2 way street

Nothing better than knowing there is a strong trust with a certain person

However if that trust is broken .... It's very hard to ever trust again

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Im in a deep reflective mood today "

I wasn't till licketys posts started me off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Licketiy is in a reflective mood lol makin us use our brains on a sunday xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"This is where im so easy cause i trust people on their word and how they are....im far too trusting but it will take them to lie to me and i wont trust them again...but until then i trust."

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Im in a deep reflective mood today

I wasn't till licketys posts started me off!! "

Sorry. You all keep saying things that make me think of another thing. I've held back on all the deep and meaningfuls swimming around in the soup that is my mind.

Look at the one second thing instead. It will all go away then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't trust people why should they trust you?

Do you trust people?"

I thought that I had lost my ability to trust after my mistreatment last year... I'd never trusted anyone.... And to have that betrayed I was sure I would never trust anyone again... Yet I find myself giving my total trust again... And it's enabling me to try so much more...

So I can... But it's not something I do easily...

Cali..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only a fool would trust anyone completely. i dont care if people trust me or not, its up to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only trust one person. Myself.

I've been betrayed too many times, so I taught myself to stop trusting people.

Which, ultimately, is a very sad thing.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I know someone who doesn't trust anyone and always believes the worst of people. They are very bitter, but I'm not sure which came first

For myself, I take people at their word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only trust one person. Myself.

I've been betrayed too many times, so I taught myself to stop trusting people.

Which, ultimately, is a very sad thing. "

very sad indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only trust one person. Myself.

I've been betrayed too many times, so I taught myself to stop trusting people.

Which, ultimately, is a very sad thing. "

I did that.. my own family caused me to not trust from when I was little.. it spilled on to relationships and relationships which you don't or can't trust or give yourself to are ultimately doomed..

I went over 30years without trusting anyone but myself.. then I let someone in and he tore me apart.. so I put up the barriers.. but someone sneaked in... And it's illogical and totally out of character for me but I trust him totally...And did do from pretty much day one...

I just have to believe it won't be betrayed...

But it's hard.. for me my own parents destroyed my trust in people keeping their word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is not something I give away lightly, the person I trusted most destroyed a lot of my faith in trust.

I take people at face value now and trust will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Metaphorically speaking, The best thing to do is probably to keep your barriers up all the time but leave like a small window open. This way you will be able to trust enough for relationships not to be damaged and at the same time you will always be ready for incase you are about to be betrayed. It will still hurt but not as much as it could hurt. I just don't think only trusting yourself is the right thing to do. 'Trust is a two way street' so what if you ever need the trust of another person? They can't give it to you because you only trust yourself. Your mistake really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only trust one person. Myself.

I've been betrayed too many times, so I taught myself to stop trusting people.

Which, ultimately, is a very sad thing. "

I trust me... To trust other people...

The thought of not getting close to someone, because of the mistakes made by others, is not one I could live with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain people I trust, as they have never let me down. Others I wouldn't trust as far as I could throw them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I do trust them, I just don't believe them. I was lied to about anything and everything for a very long time. So now I can't believe anything people tell me, even everyday stuff.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I think that it all depends on how much trust you place in someone else's hands.

Some folk you couldn't trust with a fiver if you sent them to the shop for a loaf of bread & a pint of milk, others however you could depend on to save your life if push comes to shove.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I trust, but I'm careful who I do trust. Trust is something earnt on both side

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