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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you met a guy/gal on fab and took things further ie relationship would you hold there activities on fab against them?????

Throw it in there faces when angry with them the fact they fcuked joe bloggs in a tree but hadn't done that with you or they had 3 more veri's than you

I really like someone on here feelings mutual I think and just wondering is it just a waste ov time ???? Xxxx

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"If you met a guy/gal on fab and took things further ie relationship would you hold there activities on fab against them?????

Throw it in there faces when angry with them the fact they fcuked joe bloggs in a tree but hadn't done that with you or they had 3 more veri's than you

I really like someone on here feelings mutual I think and just wondering is it just a waste ov time ???? Xxxx

I wouldn't. What somebody did before they met me is none of my business.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

We have all had past relationships. Think of the future not the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In total agreement with u hun accept the persons past and help them build a better future,I've already had niggly comments about previous status's that's what is making me wonder is it worth it xx

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Go with your gut instincts. Only do what you feel is right. Don't listen to anybody else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met a guy/gal on fab and took things further ie relationship would you hold there activities on fab against them?????

Throw it in there faces when angry with them the fact they fcuked joe bloggs in a tree but hadn't done that with you or they had 3 more veri's than you

I really like someone on here feelings mutual I think and just wondering is it just a waste ov time ???? Xxxx

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Hi. Take it from someone who has had feelings and let them ruin it. Have your feelings, we are human and if they are returned then good, but leave what they or you have done previously in the past and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feelings are what make us us, I had a similar issue recently. The person in question is no longer speaking me. If we didn't feel we wouldn't be human sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking to me even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt what they do on here before anything was mutually agreed is upto them and past

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By *iker ladMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

Tricky one that! We all think we're grown up enough to handle the fact that our partners have a previous life, as do we.

But that little green eyed shithead does store little nuggets of info away for ammo, even if we try to stop him!

I think being jealous is a big part of human nature, after all who's never felt jealous?

I think it 'can' work as long as when a heated situation arises between you you only argue over the current issue & try to resolve it rather than lashing out when feelings are hurt!

So...... I s'pose the question you have to ask is, do I trust myself to not dredge up the past as a weapon? Because it takes two to argue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leap in, both feet, don't take life so seriously. We pass by here once, if we can enjoy our past, present and future then enjoy it.

I would go for it, I don't think anything is a waste of time other than procrastination.

So decide you're either going with it or not and enjoy it. Besides jealousy is an emotion brought about from caring about something ... So if it arises reflect it back by supporting your partner to resolve it, defuse the argument and bring back the smile.

Also, talk to your partner, not this forum. This forum is full of swingers, perverts and wankers ... But then again ... Lol

Smile, leap in, smile and enjoy the enhanced sexual chemistry and don't take it so seriously.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I think if things are being thrown back at you already then it's a no starter I'm afraid. I met my OH on here and we both know we have pasts but we accept them as things that make us who we are. We don't hold them against each other because we love each other and we are grown ups.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are both so alike in many ways and admittedly jealous people we both are me more so I think ??

But as said previously it is a feeling u get when you do care for someone,I personally am not bothered at all what his past holds as its something we all have , it's his future I care about I'm just not sure he could be the same,I will hang tight for a while as I believe he's worth it xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn the difference between intuition and paranoia (feelings and behaviour caused by fear). Once that's mastered, go by your intuition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. What someone has done before they met me is really nothing to do with me unless it poses a threat to my health or well being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if things are being thrown back at you already then it's a no starter I'm afraid. I met my OH on here and we both know we have pasts but we accept them as things that make us who we are. We don't hold them against each other because we love each other and we are grown ups. "

Thats the key words (grown ups). Everyone on this site knows what they are doing and why they are here and if being jealous of someone's past bothers them then this may not be the place to be..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. What someone has done before they met me is really nothing to do with me unless it poses a threat to my health or well being. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with all posts here i would just like to say i hope things turn out good for you and are happy together x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the sexual experience with another person so intense we cannot help but have feelings developing. If you're throwing the past in each others faces this doesn't bode well for strong foundations. However sometimes you just can't help yourself it's like you become possessed. I was meeting a woman on a regular basis once every thing was fantastic, electric. A simple kiss would get us both so aroused. Needs say we stopped seeing each other because it was so intense and we aren't here to fall in love. Good luck

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