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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And he told me he was dating a nice girl. This isnt the first time ive been told this by ex's

So does it mean im not? Id never say i was dating a nice guy, id assume the fact i was seeing someone would mean they were ok. So why do guys always use this word when describing their new gf's ?

I dont know id id like to be described as nice by my other half, sounds a bit boring.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

No idea but its like when they tell you they are dating the best girl they ever could or that shes the fittest girl etc i think its to get a rise out of us an ex of mine who im good mates with did it to me the other day i just laughed it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this issue a few months back yet the ex is still sending dirty photos

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

It just means they're still getting bjs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still tell my ex I love her as I do but all I get in response is I know lol but hey I will never stop telling her that as she's my only true love ( was with her since I was 15 up until lat year )

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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I dont know id id like to be described as nice by my other half, sounds a bit boring.

It just means he has't much of an imagination or much of a way with words.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

They are hardly likely to say that they are dating someone they can't stand, that she's the ugliest thing since the Ugli Fruit and in need of a personality transplant are they?

Bland phrases like nice girl just saves having to explain too much. Sometimes what appears boring is the most perfect thing ever.

I love hearing that people I have known have found their special someone. Even if it's just for a short while.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

sounds cruel to text anout the latest girl to an ex

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"sounds cruel to text anout the latest girl to an ex "
why?

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Delete phone numbers then you can't txt ex,s

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"And he told me he was dating a nice girl. This isnt the first time ive been told this by ex's

So does it mean im not? Id never say i was dating a nice guy, id assume the fact i was seeing someone would mean they were ok. So why do guys always use this word when describing their new gf's ?

I dont know id id like to be described as nice by my other half, sounds a bit boring.

Maybe it's just his way of saying that she's not a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sounds cruel to text anout the latest girl to an ex why?

Surely this depends o. How difficult the break up was...if I got dumped and wasn't expecting it the last thing id want to know is what my replacement was like..

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Ex,s are ex,s for good reasons

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"sounds cruel to text anout the latest girl to an ex "
not is she text him first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This was just a casual thing and over and done with last summer. I have had guys try and rub my nose in it before which is cruel

And i agree...deletion is the best way to go lol i usually do

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"sounds cruel to text anout the latest girl to an ex not is she text him first."

That's how I read it.

Plus, it could be a way of saying "I won't be fooling around with you because..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is probably trying to say he is with someone and it's early days. Guys are not great at saying this type of thing.

I never delete numbers like to know who this type of text is coming from lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

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By *ornyjohn83Man
over a year ago

chorley

Being described as 'nice' by the other half wouldn't fill me with confidence that they actually found me that interesting at all! I think it's safe to assume someone is nice if you're dating them!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

Much more interesting to be a bad girl than a nice girl anyway

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Being described as 'nice' by the other half wouldn't fill me with confidence that they actually found me that interesting at all! I think it's safe to assume someone is nice if you're dating them! "

It's a no win whatever they do though, isn't it? If they say they have met the most fantastic, beautiful woman they could ever imagine meeting you are left feeling that they are rubbing your nose in it. If they say nothing but that that they are seeing someone you could read that as that they aren't that interested in them leaving you to wonder why they are bothering. Saying they are nice is neutral enough.

I'm guilty of this with an ex but I do understand when he says that he is not comparing any of the women he sees with me. Our relationship was separate and our ongoing friendship means we still talk a lot.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"sounds cruel to text anout the latest girl to an ex not is she text him first.

That's how I read it.

Plus, it could be a way of saying "I won't be fooling around with you because..."

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Exactly what I thought...OP I wouldnt wanna be a "nice" girl....much prefer psycho bitch....

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

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nice girls are not fun

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

nice girls are not fun"

And yet, so many like a nice on the outside, naughty on the darkside kind of woman.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i like bad girls. i dont go out of my way to hurt them .. they are still people and deserve to be treated with respect.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Even better when in one breath they tell you that the new lady they are with is special and it's all wonderful and than in the next try and get back in your knickers lol.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Even better when in one breath they tell you that the new lady they are with is special and it's all wonderful and than in the next try and get back in your knickers lol. "

As Fleetwood Mac say "Players only love you when they're playing".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby tells me the latest thing he's shagging is not like me and him lmao dammm rite she ain't even human he has fcuked himself ova big time with number 4,I swear it's so he looks good next to her wen he goes out and gets a lot ov female attention cos out ov all 4 affairs she is rough at least the other 3 were pretty ish (didn't help they was apparent mates)it pouts like jayzee has more cracks than the pavement talks like the bloody queen thinks she's someone special and is thousands ov pounds in debt for trying too keep up with the jones's on £100 a wk and thinks he has money hell no bitch CSA and his wife have that ,u have my fake hubby that fcuk anyone so u ain't that special little nice girl

Motto Hun ...... Being the nice girl means nothing

Being the only girl is what counts

Who wants too be nice I would rather be naughty xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if he said 'I'm seeing a girl', if I were you I would be tempted to say 'oh, what's she like?'..... And his reply would be ' she's nice ' is there a difference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself would say " She is a nice girl " I would not want to say to a X that my new lady was special because you know that is not what they want to hear xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And he told me he was dating a nice girl. This isnt the first time ive been told this by ex's

So does it mean im not? Id never say i was dating a nice guy, id assume the fact i was seeing someone would mean they were ok. So why do guys always use this word when describing their new gf's ?

I dont know id id like to be described as nice by my other half, sounds a bit boring.

Nice girls keep their knickers on until they are married .... How boring could that be!!!

Of course, in my book, nice girls are those that love some passionate fun and a real giggle.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

nice girls are not fun"

I'm nice and I'm bucket loads of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

I'm sure you're a nice girl, just with a very naughty side as well.

I know what I prefer

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

nice girls are not fun

I'm nice and I'm bucket loads of fun

Nice girls can be fun...there is nothing wrong with being described as nice...I'd much rather say oh she is a nice person instead of being described as a horrible cunt lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

nice girls are not fun

I'm nice and I'm bucket loads of fun

Nice girls can be fun...there is nothing wrong with being described as nice...I'd much rather say oh she is a nice person instead of being described as a horrible cunt lol. "

Lmao trust you Cheeky

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Its more they always say nice girl lol. I guess im just not

nice girls are not fun

I'm nice and I'm bucket loads of fun

Nice girls can be fun...there is nothing wrong with being described as nice...I'd much rather say oh she is a nice person instead of being described as a horrible cunt lol.

Lmao trust you Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This was just a casual thing and over and done with last summer. "

But not so it seems......

I can assure you that youd rather be told she was a nice girl than she was a dirty bitch, loved 3somes, was bi and loved sharing and was 6feet tall, blonde, size 8 and lived in lingerie wouldnt you?

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

"And he told me he was dating a nice girl. This isnt the first time ive been told this by ex's

So does it mean im not? Id never say i was dating a nice guy, id assume the fact i was seeing someone would mean they were ok. So why do guys always use this word when describing their new gf's ?

I dont know id id like to be described as nice by my other half, sounds a bit boring.

its because you arent a nice girl,your a dirty bad girl and he means she is a bit boring and misses a dirty girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or despite most people here being synical it could be that he means shes like you and that makes her nice it could also mean hes trying to reassure you that hes got a nice girl and not some nasty peice of work because you might be concerned that way...it could even just mean heaven forbid that shes a ...nice girl....maybe...possibly...and how do you know he doesnt refer to you as nice or even more affectionatly to other people

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