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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know someone who has been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and he proposed to her on whats app today, seriously.

The question i have is

if a guy you had been seeing for a few weeks had proposed to you, would you ever see him again or not?

From what i have been told of the guy as well he sounds like a clingy type of person.

When i was told my initial reaction was to say if i proposed to a woman after a few weeks there would be a hasty end to any relationship that was forming.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

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Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Forgive my ignorance but what's 'Whats App'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot that method but I did say yes after only a few weeks together and that doesn't mean he was clingy, more a case of being in love and meant to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter who he is, a proposal on whatsapp would immediately get a no. That's no way to propose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Made me laugh...who says romance is dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it feels right, then go for it and good luck to them......life is beset by far too many 'what ifs'

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Made me laugh...who says romance is dead

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Dead!!! Kin ell....whats app!!! I'm speechless!!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Hi

I know someone who has been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and he proposed to her on whats app today, seriously.

The question i have is

if a guy you had been seeing for a few weeks had proposed to you, would you ever see him again or not?

From what i have been told of the guy as well he sounds like a clingy type of person.

When i was told my initial reaction was to say if i proposed to a woman after a few weeks there would be a hasty end to any relationship that was forming. "

Run! Fast and far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Made me laugh...who says romance is dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I know someone who has been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and he proposed to her on whats app today, seriously.

The question i have is

if a guy you had been seeing for a few weeks had proposed to you, would you ever see him again or not?

From what i have been told of the guy as well he sounds like a clingy type of person.

When i was told my initial reaction was to say if i proposed to a woman after a few weeks there would be a hasty end to any relationship that was forming. "

I moved in with hubby after dating for 3 weeks and he proposed a month later. After 18 years we are still very much in love and very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How very.............social mediaish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Made me laugh...who says romance is dead

Dead!!! Kin ell....whats app!!! I'm speechless!!!

Speechless.....you....I cannot believe that for a second

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I accepted a proposal after a few weeks too (we didn't have technology back then so it was face to face). He was bonkers and I was in lust (Welsh accent). Thankfully I found out he was bonkers fairly early on.

Anyone proposing on on appy thing falls into the bonkers category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Forgive my ignorance but what's 'Whats App'?

It's just a free messaging and pucture service. You can download the app for most modern smartphones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picture not puncture lol

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Good god! We have been together years and if he dared to do that over whatssap it would be a no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I accepted a proposal after a few weeks too (we didn't have technology back then so it was face to face). He was bonkers and I was in lust (Welsh accent). Thankfully I found out he was bonkers fairly early on.

Anyone proposing on on appy thing falls into the bonkers category.

But who are we to judge? He might think it was romantic

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I moved in with hubby after dating for 3 weeks and he proposed a month later. After 18 years we are still very much in love and very happy

My sister's husband moved in with us 2 days after they met. They have just celebrated their 21st anniversary. She told him to propose.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We been together nearly 10 years and I still won't marry him! Maybe another 10 will be long enough!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Forgive my ignorance but what's 'Whats App'?

It's just a free messaging and pucture service. You can download the app for most modern smartphones. "

Cheers Viper

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Good god! We have been together years and if he dared to do that over whatssap it would be a no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully he will be consistent and ask for a divorce on whatsapp (version 88.01)

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By *EXY50ishWoman
over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

My nan & grandad married after 12 days ! Were together for 50+ years.

What's app proposals a bit crap tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I proposed to Julie after a few weeks. 19 years later we are still going strong and still very much in love

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By *ands12Couple
over a year ago

north walsham

I moved in with hubby after 3 weeks of being together but we decided we wanted to move in together after 4 days then 3 months after moving in together he proposed and exactly a year to the date we met we got married and I would not change any of it sometimes when its meant to be you just know it. But if hubby asked me via wats app I would make him ask again to my face xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What'sapp or no what'sapp I personally wouldn't say yes, if I was committing myself to someone for life I'd let to take time to get to know them I don't think you really can after a few weeks, but that's still no guarantee to a happy future so depends on you as a person I guess

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

Whatsapp..ideal..you have the frisson of seeing them typing..will it be yes or no !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Shucks I don't have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I would not change any of it sometimes when its meant to be you just know it. But if hubby asked me via wats app I would make him ask again to my face xxx"

This

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Shucks I don't have it

I wrote yours on the receipt. It's down your bra. Good luck finding it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Shucks I don't have it

I wrote yours on the receipt. It's down your bra. Good luck finding it

I haven't got a bra on right now so maybe it is stuck on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both me and my hubby knew from our first date that we would end up married! And actually spoke about it after 2 weeks together! Took him 6 months to pluck the courage up to ask me though then got married a year and a half after we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I know someone who has been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and he proposed to her on whats app today, seriously.

The question i have is

if a guy you had been seeing for a few weeks had proposed to you, would you ever see him again or not?

From what i have been told of the guy as well he sounds like a clingy type of person.

When i was told my initial reaction was to say if i proposed to a woman after a few weeks there would be a hasty end to any relationship that was forming. "

Did he send a picture of the ring along with the proposal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

At least I got the "personal" touch so don't feel so bad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

At least I got the "personal" touch so don't feel so bad lol

lol well I want an invite if you say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I know someone who has been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and he proposed to her on whats app today, seriously.

The question i have is

if a guy you had been seeing for a few weeks had proposed to you, would you ever see him again or not?

From what i have been told of the guy as well he sounds like a clingy type of person.

When i was told my initial reaction was to say if i proposed to a woman after a few weeks there would be a hasty end to any relationship that was forming.

Did he send a picture of the ring along with the proposal

That's what I was going to say lol where's the 1 carat square solitaire diamond

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

I vote we all say yes and really panic him!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His method of proposal !!!!! Ohh how romantic .... Sheesh get a flat no from me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

At least I got the "personal" touch so don't feel so bad lol

lol well I want an invite if you say yes

Invite you to my cell it would be, sure bigamy is illegal haha

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

As long as he used the

heart emotion and a picture of the Eiffel tower, if she said yes she could send a

and a

in reply, or a

if she said no, then we could l have a

about it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That guy is a nut job seriously ....after a few weeks ....nobody in there right mind would do that ....unless he is after a British passport ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Proposed on Whats App???????????????!!!!!

Made me laugh...who says romance is dead

Dead!!! Kin ell....whats app!!! I'm speechless!!!

Now if it had been kik then maybe!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

At least I got the "personal" touch so don't feel so bad lol

lol well I want an invite if you say yes

Invite you to my cell it would be, sure bigamy is illegal haha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

wow that could be a new thing ......... defeat me and propose !!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

What do you expect when you keep locking me in cupboards?!

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over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

Who knows. I'm still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An indecent proposal legs? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An indecent proposal legs? X"

My favourite kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An indecent proposal legs? X

My favourite kind

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wow you get better everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

Who knows. I'm still waiting

I'm not sure I could handle a burger reception

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

A proposal after a few weeks is as big a red warning flag as you'll probably ever get in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it feels right, then go for it and good luck to them......life is beset by far too many 'what ifs'

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i guess if you have Emoji icons then there's even a ring icon so what's app is ideal!

Seriously, what's app would be a massive no-no for me.

As for those who've said they made decisions quickly, i agree. My first meet with my man i knew after about ten minutes it wasn't one night as planned, there was another level. Whether we will be together forever or not only time will tell but i hope so because he literally changed my life that first meet.

I don't judge most things...

What's app however i will, lol. Even twitter would have been more romantic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex proposed after 2 weeks and the marriage only lasted....30 years!!!!

Some friends of ours waited 6 years before deciding to marry and were together for 9 months.

The length of time involved doesnt matter....its the love that counts.

Hope he sent a pic of the ring though to help the poor girl decide!!!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

wow that could be a new thing ......... defeat me and propose !!!!! lol

Minxie I think you'll find I've just sunk you again

You're not much of a Hornblower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

All I got was a offer to meet on the Corner.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I met my ex husband and after 2 months of flying backwards and forwards to Germany we got married.....I don't regret it just think back now and think it was hasty.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

All I got was a offer to meet on the Corner.

Pull your knickers up Deb someone's coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

All I got was a offer to meet on the Corner.

I managed to get a lot more out of him yesterday! You need to try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a proposal after 3 weeks is cute. But would have been better face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I know someone who has been seeing a guy for about 3 weeks and he proposed to her on whats app today, seriously.

The question i have is

if a guy you had been seeing for a few weeks had proposed to you, would you ever see him again or not?

From what i have been told of the guy as well he sounds like a clingy type of person.

When i was told my initial reaction was to say if i proposed to a woman after a few weeks there would be a hasty end to any relationship that was forming.

I moved in with hubby after dating for 3 weeks and he proposed a month later. After 18 years we are still very much in love and very happy

I like reading things like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

All I got was a offer to meet on the Corner.

I managed to get a lot more out of him yesterday! You need to try harder

Oh its ok it changed to a Country Lane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With technology today people are proposing on all different ways!!

I think it's sweet after 2 weeks! Bit premature, but sweet!!

Ryan please stop whatsapping me!!

It's still a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check your what's app ladies. The 1st one turned me down

Oh so the rest of us are 2nd choice then?

Pfffffft

He is keeping his options open

lol well it'll serve him right if we all say no

You can be so cruel sometimes Legs

Me?

I'm just waiting for my proposal!

But what is he actually proposing? You know what he's like

All I got was a offer to meet on the Corner.

Pull your knickers up Deb someone's coming

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