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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, this has kind of made me go

..apparently if you have been on the site for 3 months or more. You should have a meet veri by now.

Hmm. That certainly wasnt the case for me.

Im not the usual type people would go for (as fab has proven evidently lol). So,that three months deadline is a bit extreme isnt it?

Whats your take on this?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I try to stay clear of the ones that know what's best for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't think people should have a time scale as to when they should meet. Far too many people with draconian ideas when it should really be fun here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My take on it is that people should not try and impose rules for using this site on to others. Respect and honesty are the only two I would like to see

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try to stay clear of the ones that know what's best for everyone. "

I must be poorly.... I'm agreeing with Ryan

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I try to stay clear of the ones that know what's best for everyone.

I must be poorly.... I'm agreeing with Ryan "

Wowzer ! I may try another subtle suggestion

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try to stay clear of the ones that know what's best for everyone.

I must be poorly.... I'm agreeing with Ryan

Wowzer ! I may try another subtle suggestion "

Best be quick.. I'm sure it will pass soon lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have selective hearing when people that I don't know and who don't know me try to tell me how I should behave on here.....then I usually tell them politely to do one

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Always makes me smile when I see stuff about the 'rules' of swinging or using this site, actual timewasters excluded, why does anyone get so worked up about stuff? If you wanna swing one on one, threes, fours,mores, it is all swinging isn't it? If you wanna have preferences, we all do, if you wanna just chat and make that clear go for it! It is amazing how on their high horse some people get. Maybe I am too easy going for a Dom.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here 4 months and was told it useally take a single male a year to get a meet ... I have been very lucky to have had a few . So ignore then timescale and be polite when messaging xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah. Its getting a bit annoying recently. Maybe im going through a midlife crisis but when did all these rules come about..

..no one has a good laugh lately. Individuals mention they are laid back, easy going and openminded...but bloody hell, are they so far from it or what!!

I love a bit of banter but fab has been a bit dry lately (and i dont mean like that lol).

...i apologise. Im on a bit of a rant today. And im not even hungry!!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I have selective hearing when people that I don't know and who don't know me try to tell me how I should behave on here.....then I usually tell them politely to do one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate don't stress everyone's measuring stick is different.

I've been here 4 months and had a fair amount of meets.

Just be yourself mate.

This is the one and only time I'll comment on a thread like this..but you seem to be genuinely asking.

Ben

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Yeah. Its getting a bit annoying recently. Maybe im going through a midlife crisis but when did all these rules come about..

..no one has a good laugh lately. Individuals mention they are laid back, easy going and openminded...but bloody hell, are they so far from it or what!!

I love a bit of banter but fab has been a bit dry lately (and i dont mean like that lol).

...i apologise. Im on a bit of a rant today. And im not even hungry!!

"

Don't apologise, see my Get it off your chest thread lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

keep chatting . pm when you can . check your looked at@ me s . be nice and nice things happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest popeye, Ive heard u mention not meeting lots...gave u pretty much the same advice given to many others, get out the house and attend a social or club(or both)

now its fair enough if U just arent ready to meet, and state that, fair play

but its not going to happen much sooner if ur stuck in cybersville(as much fun as that can be, its just not the same)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"to be honest popeye, Ive heard u mention not meeting lots...gave u pretty much the same advice given to many others, get out the house and attend a social or club(or both)

now its fair enough if U just arent ready to meet, and state that, fair play

but its not going to happen much sooner if ur stuck in cybersville(as much fun as that can be, its just not the same)"

Yeah i know mate..and i have actually tried using your advice..

I have actually messaged individuals around regarding this. Wont give names..but i still got no replies to my messages. Which, im not too fussed about, each to their own.

That kind of puts me on a downer though..can be as genuine as they come. But if the luck aint there. Your fucked lol.

..lately been having people mess me around. So, yep..that get it off your chest thread is needed.

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