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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to ask that has anyone here had moment on here when you send a message to a friend (even if its just to say hello), you find the message deleted without a reply?

I'm just asking because its just happened to me and I don't understand why.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

People would normally delete messages without replying because they don't want to reply. What other reason do you need?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You can easy delete a message by mistake apart from that the only person who can answer your query is the friend.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Because they don't want to exchange messages with you at this time?.....or ever?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Yes, it happens. Don't stress it.

It may well have been deleted in an inbox clear out (mass delete) it may well be because they don't feel the need to reply, or it could even just be that they don't reply via messages and will get back to you when it suits them.

If it bothers you, maybe you need to develop a bit more resilience as it will happen on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it bothers you ask why if you don't get a reply delete the friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its not that I've done or said anything wrong or anything like that. I was only asking if anyone has been in a situation like this.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Its not that I've done or said anything wrong or anything like that. I was only asking if anyone has been in a situation like this."

We have all been in a situation like this. It is part and parcel of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it me or are all these posts beginning to sound a bit 'samey' and not very interesting either!

the only person who would know why your message got deleted would be the person who deleted it...did they read it first? if so send another and ask why...who knows you might get a reply!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Its not that I've done or said anything wrong or anything like that. I was only asking if anyone has been in a situation like this."

If it is one of your friends, it was more than likely a mistake. Why not mail and ask them? If they delete that one, they are probably not the best friend material.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't worry. Panic over. My friend accidently deleted it by mistake. She also said I was her favourite....normal person which is a nice compliment really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry. Panic over. My friend accidently deleted it by mistake. She also said I was her favourite....normal person which is a nice compliment really"

I bet she tells all the boys that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry. Panic over. My friend accidently deleted it by mistake. She also said I was her favourite....normal person which is a nice compliment really"

Was it really a panic?

I have a friend on my list that rarely replies to messages on here, if I really wanna chat with him, I text or call him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry. Panic over. My friend accidently deleted it by mistake. She also said I was her favourite....normal person which is a nice compliment really

I bet she tells all the boys that "

Women say anything to get in boxers these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're a payer. So am I right in presuming you can see if a message has been read or deleted? Hijacking your post slightly us scumbag none-payers seem to have very recently lost this privilege.

Also: have you had much of an exchange of messages with this 'friend'? I think some women revelling in the attention may bulk accept friends invites. Bear in mind they've got blokes seeking NSA sex coming at them thick and fast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe some people get bored with messages saying, hi how are you all the time.

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