FabSwingers.com forum: POLICE?!?!?!?!?!

By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

CAN YOU RING THR POLICE IF YOUR NEIGBOURS ARE ACCUSSING YOU OF BEING A PROSTITUTE AND LEAVING BALLOOONS ON YOUR DOOR

SAYIN

OPEN

DIET COKE AND VODKA FOR GOOD TIME !!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably can call the cops for harrassment, defamation of character, slander and false accusations of major offense. if anything you can get a cease and desist order on them.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

are your caps stuck on ?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

LOLs @ neighbours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those crazy neighbors and their antics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When punters come knocking tell them to try next door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody loves good neighbours....

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'd definately be onto the police as I can't abide Coca Cola (diet or otherwise)...I would have the fuzz insist to the neighbours that the balloons were replaced immediately with Sprite Zero or at a push, Fanta Zero (and ice for preference)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, understand Sting is a dab hand at making balloon animals.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Seriously though, if you're going to report them for harassment or whatever, then use 101 non emergency number rather than dialling 999 (that's the Brit version of 911 dblcheese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really a police matter.

Defamation of character is a civil offence, not a criminal offence. Consult a solicitor about what your options are, regarding suing them in the civil courts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balloons on your doorstep! Quite inventive. Maybe they just watched 'UP'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did they get the words 'Diet Coke and Vodka for a good time' on a balloon?

Big balloons....... ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd definately be onto the police as I can't abide Coca Cola (diet or otherwise)...I would have the fuzz insist to the neighbours that the balloons were replaced immediately with Sprite Zero or at a push, Fanta Zero (and ice for preference)

Try vodka and Dr pepper mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously though, if you're going to report them for harassment or whatever, then use 101 non emergency number rather than dialling 999 (that's the Brit version of 911 dblcheese

awww thanks for thinking of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just move the balloons outside their place?

After all - you're just returning their property!!

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

"Why not just move the balloons outside their place?

After all - you're just returning their property!!

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i was going to suggest that as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help but laugh at the jeremykyleness of it....sorry

I hope you get the dispute sorted out

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Oh id love nieghbours like that... just think of the fun, imaginative ways of getting ur own back and driving them slowly insane

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

look for them on fab

look in your block list you never know they might be in bad mood for you blocking them

anyway pierse a small hole breath the gas in and shout with a squeaky voice lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not if it's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So can I ask why they have done this?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not really a police matter.

Defamation of character is a civil offence, not a criminal offence. Consult a solicitor about what your options are, regarding suing them in the civil courts."

beat me to it

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"So can I ask why they have done this?????"

some girl knocked on my door asking if a car was mine and I said no then she said so its not a punters

im not a prostitute

this is serious not a joking matter why u all so nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So can I ask why they have done this?????

some girl knocked on my door asking if a car was mine and I said no then she said so its not a punters

im not a prostitute

I don't think anyone intends to be nasty, but to many outsiders it appears comical.

The best way to diffuse a situation is to talk openly and calmly.

Knock on the neighbours door say hi, you think there's a misunderstanding but you want to clear the air.

If you don't feel your great at stuff like that then write a letter or speak to your neighbourhood policing team you may have a quick word.

But face to face calm honesty showing how you feel and the desire to reconcile is best. Good luck.

this is serious not a joking matter why u all so nasty"

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

[Removed by poster at 15/08/13 18:10:19]

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

"So can I ask why they have done this?????

some girl knocked on my door asking if a car was mine and I said no then she said so its not a punters

im not a prostitute

I don't think anyone intends to be nasty, but to many outsiders it appears comical.

The best way to diffuse a situation is to talk openly and calmly.

Knock on the neighbours door say hi, you think there's a misunderstanding but you want to clear the air.

If you don't feel your great at stuff like that then write a letter or speak to your neighbourhood policing team you may have a quick word.

But face to face calm honesty showing how you feel and the desire to reconcile is best. Good luck.

this is serious not a joking matter why u all so nasty"
I dont think anybody is being nasty you have had SOME good answers, personally i would of decked the bitch on my doorstep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have done this on two or more occasions and these actions are causing you distress ( and it can be proved to be the neighbours ) speak to the local police. May be an offence under Sec 2 Protection from Harassment act. They may give them a warning to stop in the first instance.

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

all I want is some advice

I don't bother anyone

my friend was here and when he left they even threatened to smash his car up

and theres been a few good answers but mostly ppl thinking this is a joke its not its my life

im sure if it was happening to them they wouldn't be happy either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the local police station and have a word with them and see if they can help. It's not funny at all, I bet it's scary. Hope you get it sorted. xx

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

just wish I knew who it was and where they have the idea from yes I have a lot of friends visiting for a hour or so

but one thing im not is a prostitute

just want to die right now

feel like just giving up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all I want is some advice

I don't bother anyone

my friend was here and when he left they even threatened to smash his car up

and theres been a few good answers but mostly ppl thinking this is a joke its not its my life

im sure if it was happening to them they wouldn't be happy either"

Its not funny at all and sorry this is happening to you - these things are scary and can quickly get out of control. Please do as I advise above - I know what I'm talking about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure this issue is causing you a lot of upset, however is a swingers website forum the best place to ask serious advice?

May be best to have a chat with your local neighbourhood police team as this is more their area, good luck.

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"all I want is some advice

I don't bother anyone

my friend was here and when he left they even threatened to smash his car up

and theres been a few good answers but mostly ppl thinking this is a joke its not its my life

im sure if it was happening to them they wouldn't be happy either

Its not funny at all and sorry this is happening to you - these things are scary and can quickly get out of control. Please do as I advise above - I know what I'm talking about x "

can u inbox me please

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"I'm sure this issue is causing you a lot of upset, however is a swingers website forum the best place to ask serious advice?

May be best to have a chat with your local neighbourhood police team as this is more their area, good luck."

god was only asking as I thought others might have been through the same situation sorry I even asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure this issue is causing you a lot of upset, however is a swingers website forum the best place to ask serious advice?

May be best to have a chat with your local neighbourhood police team as this is more their area, good luck.

god was only asking as I thought others might have been through the same situation sorry I even asked!"

This is a great place to ask. I've read posts from people who have had stalkers and the police have been a great help and very understanding.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

We suffered 'neighbours from hell' for about five years. The reason being that for five years the police did absolutely NOTHING!

Attempting to get a resolution through civil court is unlikely to be successful and will cost you a fortune.

What you need to do is collect evidence, the police will NOT do it for you, nor will they investigate the matter. You need to collect independent evidence such as audio/visual recordings of an illegal doing.

Witness statements from anyone other than a complete stranger will not be accepted.

One example... My wife was attacked by our (now ex) neighbour armed with a glass milk bottle. FIVE witnesses made official statements to the police. CPS chucked it out because the 'witnesses' were other neighbours and therefore are NOT considered to be reliable as they are known to all persons concerned.

You truly have our sympathy as you will find you are in a VERY difficult situation with very little help available to you. Now if you accept that fact and put in the time and effort to collect independent evidence you can win and resolve the matter... always have your mobile and or camcorder ready.

Best of luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely leaving balloons on your doorstep is a nice gesture???? Maybe the constant flow of traffic to your house is causing your neighbours a nuisance? Are they blocking thier drive or taking up parking etc....

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

its t constant at all my friend who was visiting popped in for couple of hours got threaten also I don't know who it is or why I never cause trouble and the prkig is street parking and there is no laws on parking spaces

and tying balloons to doors is surely not nice gesture s im now scared to leave house

I feel like I now caant have friends and don't need this in my life

most ppl on this thread has took this as a joke and took the micky im sure they wouldn't find it funny if it was them in the same situation

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES

Call the police !! Any excuse to have a man in uniform turn up on your doorstep !

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

how cn they help if I don't know who it was

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i don't think the action s of the neighbour s are amusing. its horrible and i would not like to be in your position . if you're not sure who it was maybe install cctv. there must be some sort of community officer who could deal with this situation with tact.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?"

It's because they'r implying the home owner is a prostitute x

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?"

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!"

Don't let them win! Go out there, remove the balloons and go about your business with your head held high! Invite your mate over and sit outside with a cuppa and if you see neighbours snooping give them a big grin and a wave!

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

ballons got moved right after they didn't it I have problems with anxiety and this is just making me scared ive had 4 panic attacks since its happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not just move the balloons outside their place?

After all - you're just returning their property!!

love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u live in social housing try talking to your housing officer .. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Police where it.wasn't me. I'm.saying nothing till my solicitor is present. Good cop bad cop won't work

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously I hope densol gets you sorted she sounds likes she knows what she I talking about. Me I would wait up and when I caught them the balloons would go up there asses followed by a hedgehog and my foot.

Densol your on my list for advice.

Oh there was no harm brought to hedgehogs balloons or my foot during the making of this forum post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neighbours... everybody needs good neighbours...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP "

Yes, and if I lived in the immediate vicinity, someone would have learned a lesson by now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sod it just put lighter fluid through their letter box and leave a box of matches on the door step with a note "with love your lovely neighbourhood prossy"

They should get the message

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP "

thank you so much x

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"i think a bit more sympathy would be helpful for the OP

Yes, and if I lived in the immediate vicinity, someone would have learned a lesson by now

and thank you aswell x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!"

To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!

OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help?

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!

To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!

OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help? "

no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!

To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!

OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help?

no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one "

Well you won't know till you go and speak to them. I'm sure they'll listen and point you in the right direction if they can't do anything themselves. Don't let it go on without taking any action or it will get worse, especially if they see it's getting to you. Good luck and keep us posted

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!

To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!

OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help?

no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one

I haven't left the house since and every noise is scaring the shite out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!

To be fair, I think that was a genuine question. I didn't know the significance of that either!

OP have you reported this to anyone yet? Have you had any help?

no not yet don't know if police will do anything and had no help as got no one

I haven't left the house since and every noise is scaring the shite out of me"

Ok, well you either have to call a friend to go with you or call 101 to get the police to come and help you. There is no way anyone should feel that intimidated and scared in their own home. Do it tomorrow! Be positive and stay strong

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Sigh.. The next time you get a balloon dont touch it and call the police and report it as harassment, even if the police dont do anything they will all see the police turning up at your house and it'll scare the shit out of them.

You can also get those fake cctv camera things if you want to deter things even more. Mrs x

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"Sigh.. The next time you get a balloon dont touch it and call the police and report it as harassment, even if the police dont do anything they will all see the police turning up at your house and it'll scare the shit out of them.

You can also get those fake cctv camera things if you want to deter things even more. Mrs x"

I took ballon off door and ie kept it its worrying what will happen next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

intimidation only works if you feel intimidated . Go speak to the local police station and ask their advice , do not allow these people to intrude on your day to day life , carry on as normal they will soon find something else to gossip about .

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Now i've seen everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i've seen everything."

What you've actually gone round to have a look

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By *hybutsweet OP Couple
over a year ago

sweetness

"Now i've seen everything.

What you've actually gone round to have a look

why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i've seen everything.

What you've actually gone round to have a look

why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!"

If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???

You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I took ballon off door and ie kept it its worrying what will happen next"

Should of left it and phoned the police but never mind keep it to show them.

"If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???

You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i've seen everything.

What you've actually gone round to have a look

why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!"

Careful she may tie balloons to your door!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i've seen everything.

What you've actually gone round to have a look

why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!

If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???

You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!"

what Russ said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i've seen everything.

What you've actually gone round to have a look

why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!

If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???

You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!

what Russ said

'Well'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now i've seen everything.

What you've actually gone round to have a look

why the hell are you taking the piss its not a laughin matter u half wits!!!!!!!!

If its not a laughing matter and your as scared and intimidated as you say!! Then why have you not been in contact with the police or seeked legal adviice yet???

You've been given plenty of useful advice so far and yet still 'IMHO' sit here complaining when you could have got the ball rolling on putting a stop to this!!

what Russ said

'Well'

Well what

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Some are being a bit harsh here. It's only developed like this because of the piss take.

Op pick out the good advice, there is a fair bit, and act on it. The quicker the better. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not just move the balloons outside their place?

After all - you're just returning their property!!

Take pics of them at yours first though. And get another neighbour to go with you to their door so you have a witness you weren't abusive and just returning their property as good neighbours do.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I joined in with the piss taking (I always do, it's the way I roll), I also offered some serious advice (again I try to answer the OP as well as be a smart arse). OP, you've had lots of sensible advice, it's an open forum, there'll be daft posts. Ignore them, act on the advice you've been given and contact any of the people who've been suggested. Come back and let us know how you get on - above all, try your best to not let it get to you, I do really think being frightened to leave the house because of a few balloons is an overreaction, if there's threatening behaviour then it's definitely a police matter, otherwise you may need to seek help for your anxiety problems if you're not already doing so. Best of luck to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you feel better this morning. Everything seems better in daylight.

You're getting annoyed at the people taking the piss- and that's good. Use that fighting energy to fire you up and give you confidence to go out today. I know what it feels like to be scared, it's shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you are ok, and nothing further has happened. I would personally seek legal advise, unless you think it might make the situation worse.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

It's because they'r implying the home owner is a prostitute x"

Why is it? Loads of people tie balloons to there front door if they are having a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

It's because they'r implying the home owner is a prostitute x

Why is it? Loads of people tie balloons to there front door if they are having a party."

Because of what's written on then and things that have been said x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!"

That sort of (over) reaction doesn't help and just makes you look like some kind of bunny boiler. the guy asked a reasonable question, why is tying balloons to a door so bad?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've never heard of prostitutes advertising by having ballona outside their door. If I were a possible punter, I'd think it was a kiddies birthday party not the house of a prostitute and I don't think any rational normal person would think that either.

Take the advice already given: take photos, pop the balloons, phone police, take legal advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!

That sort of (over) reaction doesn't help and just makes you look like some kind of bunny boiler. the guy asked a reasonable question, why is tying balloons to a door so bad?"

Not exactly the most aggressive action is it. "Right I really don't like her so I'm going to tie some balloons to her door"! Surely some shit through the letter box is more likely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Geniune question ;

Why is tying balloons to door handles so bad ?

are you for real!!!!!

im not a prostitute never hve been nd never will be so don't like what stupid chavs r doing

would you like it if it was happeneing to you

I think not !!!!!!!

That sort of (over) reaction doesn't help and just makes you look like some kind of bunny boiler. the guy asked a reasonable question, why is tying balloons to a door so bad?

Not exactly the most aggressive action is it. "Right I really don't like her so I'm going to tie some balloons to her door"! Surely some shit through the letter box is more likely? "

Think it's a build up of everything tho

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By *ouple_m_and_jCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Honestly OP, you need to play them at their own game. They think that doing this stuff is upsetting you, that raises them emotionally above you - just like any bully.

Personally I'd have taken the balloons, crossed out the drinks and replaced with something funnier, maybe added a couple more of my own, and put them back on my door.

I'd then have spent the day near a window so I could see who took the most notice of it (i.e. which neighbour looked most disappointed) and kept them on the radar.

If someone threatened to smash up someone's car then you should know who it is? In that case, as direct threatening action the police will 'ave a word' but probably not much else until the next time.

Meanwhile, don't allow them to intimidate you, but don't be directly confrontational - think of them like you would kids playing Knocky Nine Doors - a nuisance but too small minded and pathetic to care about.

Now then, if you have friends visiting for an hour at a time, surely you have enough friends for a show of force if things do get out of hand? Or are these Fab type friends?

Marcus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP when you mention having friends over are these FAB friends?

The reason I ask is when I was very active on the site and had a lot of meets with guys that used to stay an hour or two, my neighbours got the same idea about me.....if you look at it, it's easy for them to get that view about me. However I found that amusing and I played up to it and it didn't bother me, which is clearly not the case for you. I did however stop answering the door in stockings & a basque ( which im sure you dont do) and also made my FAB meets a little more subtle & discreet.

My suggestion in addition to following all the other useful advice offered would be if you are having a FAB friend over ask them to park round the corner & be very discreet about it, until it all blows over.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd get 100 balloons delivered 'UP' style

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Op pick out the good advice, there is a fair bit, and act on it. The quicker the better. Good luck

Op hope you get it all sorted out. Im closing this now.

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