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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just us, or does anbody else just not get the fascination with the chat rooms. We appreciate that for some it is what does it for them. But it just does not work for us. We prefer the real thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the chat rooms, I can chat with 20 of my friends at the same time (I can't do this in real life, except at the socials/parties - once a month, maybe).

In the chat rooms, I can chat with friends who are 100 miles away (I can't do this in real life, as I don't have time to travel to them, daily).

You say you 'prefer the real thing' - are you mixing up chatting with 'performing on cam'?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Do you mean you prefer skin on skin sex and don't find wank cam - even with sound - a piss poor substitute ?

if so ...... couldn't agree more.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not many people go to the chat rooms to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many people go to the chat rooms to chat.

"

Granny, come to Northern Chat, in an evening. You'll be pleasantly surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat rooms are a good place to get to know people with the same dislikes and likes ... Skin on Skin will follow .. Perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is something for everyone on here

This site is great like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many people go to the chat rooms to chat.

"

I beg to differ! plus I hate wanking on cam, it's sooo impersonal!

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I'm not a huge fan of the chat rooms either but that might be because I only ever use the mobile site on my phone and they're not really set up for mobile devices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us, or does anbody else just not get the fascination with the chat rooms. We appreciate that for some it is what does it for them. But it just does not work for us. We prefer the real thing..

"

you mean a proper chat, face to face? lol

perhaps the best reason to use the chatrooms are to actually chat, about anything, to anyone..have a laugh, take the p*** out of the lurkers, arrange meets and if you fancy it go on cam but at the end of the day its all about choice so if you don't like it, its no biggie, there are plenty of others that do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I did the chat room thing about 10 years ago using IRC, now, I quite enjoy the forums.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Not many people go to the chat rooms to chat.

Granny, come to Northern Chat, in an evening. You'll be pleasantly surprised!"

Do I need to wear a Cat Flap ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Must admit I did the chat room thing about 10 years ago using IRC, now, I quite enjoy the forums."

Yep .... same

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

about IRC I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go into the chat rooms every now and again, wouldn't bother me if they disappeared for good though. I much prefer the forums

What I have noticed is that a lot of people will only speak to people they know, so its hard to get talking to new people and make new friends. Guess you could say there is a lot of 'cliques' in the chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have noticed is that a lot of people will only speak to people they know, so its hard to get talking to new people and make new friends. Guess you could say there is a lot of 'cliques' in the chat room"

There are people who use the chatrooms just to keep in touch with their existing friends. But there are lots more who are very friendly and welcoming and open to making new friends.

When you come into Northern Chat, say "hi all", and several people (those who are not already engaged in converstion) will say "hi" back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I have noticed is that a lot of people will only speak to people they know, so its hard to get talking to new people and make new friends. Guess you could say there is a lot of 'cliques' in the chat room

There are people who use the chatrooms just to keep in touch with their existing friends. But there are lots more who are very friendly and welcoming and open to making new friends.

When you come into Northern Chat, say "hi all", and several people (those who are not already engaged in converstion) will say "hi" back."

Your promoting this northern chat alot, are you on commission or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL no, I just really enjoy Northern Chat, there's some great people there. And I want everyone to have as much fun as I do, on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go into the chat rooms every now and again, wouldn't bother me if they disappeared for good though. I much prefer the forums

What I have noticed is that a lot of people will only speak to people they know, so its hard to get talking to new people and make new friends. Guess you could say there is a lot of 'cliques' in the chat room"

Some might say theres a lot of cliques in the forums aswel....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go into the chat rooms every now and again, wouldn't bother me if they disappeared for good though. I much prefer the forums

What I have noticed is that a lot of people will only speak to people they know, so its hard to get talking to new people and make new friends. Guess you could say there is a lot of 'cliques' in the chat room

Some might say theres a lot of cliques in the forums aswel...."

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean you prefer skin on skin sex and don't find wank cam - even with sound - a piss poor substitute ?

if so ...... couldn't agree more."
exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey at the end of the day it is whatever floats your boat. For some it works for others it doesn't.We prefer the forums as you get less of the'look at me i am having a wank brigade'. But like i said it is what ever works for the individual. I just voiced what we felt and wondered if we were in the minority.

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

like having a nosey in directing rooms but boy are they full on!!!we too prefer real thing .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL no, I just really enjoy Northern Chat, there's some great people there. And I want everyone to have as much fun as I do, on Fab "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not many people go to the chat rooms to chat.

I beg to differ! plus I hate wanking on cam, it's sooo impersonal! "

By eck, going by your avatar, if i saw you on cam i wouldn't even need the wank.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"like having a nosey in directing rooms but boy are they full on!!!we too prefer real thing .x"
crikey, think we need to come to York for a weekend

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

get yourselves here!!x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

When I go in one of the chat rooms....I feel dizzy and then I faint!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started going in there couple of weeks back - just to chat and banter. People can also see I am real - I had a meet with a fantastic guy on Tues because we had originally chatted in the chat room x Ive had some great laughs - going in there tonight ) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"get yourselves here!!x"
packing the car as we speak ??

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

lol we not joking either !x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol we not joking either !x"
have locked kids in the cupboard under the stairs with food and drink for a week........Joking of course. Would love to take a trip up one day.Failing that come and have a dirty weekend down here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't use the chat rooms much. missis doesn't like getting anything out on cam and I am a bit shy too. we mainly want to use it to talk and see people before we meet, still waiting for our first meet tho :D

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