FabSwingers.com forum: Friends and Verifications...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...do you look at other people's friend and verification photos and make assumptions? Yes, no, I'm better than that, I'm not as good as that, scared, turn on/off etc...Or do people not look at them all?

I'm not looking for ANY arguments, I'm just curious about other people's views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...do you look at other people's friend and verification photos and make assumptions? Yes, no, I'm better than that, I'm not as good as that, scared, turn on/off etc...Or do people not look at them all?

I'm not looking for ANY arguments, I'm just curious about other people's views."
do you babes x ?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Just look at them to see if people actually meet rather than 'cam', which we assume are fakes.

Not much more you can read into it than that...and that's by no means foolproof anyway!

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We make decisions based on them

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I do read veris yes... and I admit to checking profiles of the people who wrote them out of curiosity. .. not interested in friends list much

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I look at veris but not friends lists. And yes they have changed my mind about people before. I find it interesting comparing the photos on either the initial profile or the profile that they were verified by, matching the dates of meets to the dates on a selection of bareback photos, 'had first meet today'....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes, I use them to make a decision. If someone makes it onto the shortlist, I have a thorough nose around!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never look at Friends list but I have skipped through veri's a few times yes. Only to check out if they are real x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I look too hard its likely ill find something that will put me off,so I tend not to take too much notice and actually speak to the profile holder and the decide for myself using my own judgement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look at every single friend, and verification. before i decide if i should meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just see if the are female and breathing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Me too! Glad I'm not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i look at every single friend, and verification. before i decide if i should meet them."
did you read all of mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just see if the are female and breathing lol"

ha ha, I try not to look at veri's as jealousy is an ugly thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look as Im a nosey mare lol but also to see what type of woman they meet. Then I usually go away and wonder why they want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look only out of curiosity. Nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly, me too

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I'm glad I've found some solace in this forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look as Im a nosey mare lol but also to see what type of woman they meet. Then I usually go away and wonder why they want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those on our friends list we have met, socialised and or played with.

Their list of valids from others can be a very good tool in meeting other people we may like or get on with in the future, especially if they have met someone new to the scene or to the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I look too hard its likely ill find something that will put me off,so I tend not to take too much notice and actually speak to the profile holder and the decide for myself using my own judgement

This ^^^^

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Chester

I also look to see what kind of people they have met but if already interested in them or chatted to them already and they have veri's which were very explicit that turns me on also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother messaging the couples where the guy looks like he can hang from a tree without using his hands!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those on our friends list we have met, socialised and or played with.

Their list of valids from others can be a very good tool in meeting other people we may like or get on with in the future, especially if they have met someone new to the scene or to the site.

Nothing wrong with a bit of 'social networking'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for ANY arguments, I'm just curious about other people's views."

Yes some people are better avoided if they have met others I avidly avoid. So many people on here and so much choice why not its the sensible thing to do.

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

Always puzzles me when people use the Russian Roulette method when deciding meets. Of course it's sensible to talk before going any further, and of course ultimately you have to make the judgement. However charmers on the phone don't necessarily translate into desirable meets, or offer anything than, understandably, self promotion.

Other peoples opinions offer another perspective, so why wouldn't you read them and take them into account.

There is no foolproof selection policy, people can have glowing verifications, and yet it can end in an unsatisfactory conclusion, but at least, it seems to me, that it's sensible to have as much information as possible in making a decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)"

yes if someone wants to meet me and the other women hes met are slim and he has left them verifications which say what a nice figure they have then i wouldnt want to meet them, unless they were something special.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)"

I can understand why you may do this but not everyone will meet people based on a certain shape or size. You should go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

Oh ladies, you're both girls after my own heart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't bother messaging the couples where the guy looks like he can hang from a tree without using his hands!! Lol

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

I can understand why you may do this but not everyone will meet people based on a certain shape or size. You should go for it

I understand they don't, we all meet for various reasons however I prefer to meet people who are attracted to me not just for the sake of a shag.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

I can understand why you may do this but not everyone will meet people based on a certain shape or size. You should go for it

I understand they don't, we all meet for various reasons however I prefer to meet people who are attracted to me not just for the sake of a shag. "

That's the point I'm trying to make - just not very well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

I can understand why you may do this but not everyone will meet people based on a certain shape or size. You should go for it

I understand they don't, we all meet for various reasons however I prefer to meet people who are attracted to me not just for the sake of a shag.

That's the point I'm trying to make - just not very well lol"

Lol i'm just quite blunt, I think everyone has a 'type' and if their verifications are all from svelte size 8s with pert boobs and no stretch marks then i'm soooooo not their type!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

I can understand why you may do this but not everyone will meet people based on a certain shape or size. You should go for it

I understand they don't, we all meet for various reasons however I prefer to meet people who are attracted to me not just for the sake of a shag. "

You think because he has met "Body perfect" women before that he wouldnt be attracted to you? You would just be a shag?

Who says his preference are these so called "body perfect" women? Maybe they were just a shag and he prefers someone like you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

I can understand why you may do this but not everyone will meet people based on a certain shape or size. You should go for it

I understand they don't, we all meet for various reasons however I prefer to meet people who are attracted to me not just for the sake of a shag.

You think because he has met "Body perfect" women before that he wouldnt be attracted to you? You would just be a shag?

Who says his preference are these so called "body perfect" women? Maybe they were just a shag and he prefers someone like you!!

As I said its just my own insecurities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

I must admit, i've said no to a few couples based on their verifications and action photos. Purely on their choice of size 8-10 slim fem.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)

I can understand why you may do this but not everyone will meet people based on a certain shape or size. You should go for it

I understand they don't, we all meet for various reasons however I prefer to meet people who are attracted to me not just for the sake of a shag.

You think because he has met "Body perfect" women before that he wouldnt be attracted to you? You would just be a shag?

Who says his preference are these so called "body perfect" women? Maybe they were just a shag and he prefers someone like you!!

this is true. Like wise some people make their choices on personality being oh higher importance. I realise that's sometimes hard to believe on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never taken any notice about what friends people have. What difference does it make? Unless you want to shag their friends too

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

There are certain people I won't meet as I know they play bareback regularly so I won't meet people who've played with them.

Also if there are bareback pictures that coincide with meets as mentioned by someone else, I won't meet them.

So many times I've been told by guys..."she's my ex" when there are clearly different women in the pictures.

I also check veris to see if they have met mutual friends and if they've left them a glowing reference, chances are they may be ok

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Not really I do t worry about who they have met as we are all different and it does not say a lot...most of the veri could be from slimmer women and that person wants to meet me...I'd like to think its because I have caught his eye...I don't worry about the other people I worry about the meet I am having with that person...I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

Pfft!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

Pfft!

Behave you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

Pfft!

Behave you!!! "

Words fail me!

I'll say it with smillies:

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

Pfft!

Behave you!!!

Words fail me!

I'll say it with smillies:

You ain't to old to get a clip round the ear and sent to your room!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

Pfft!

Behave you!!!

Words fail me!

I'll say it with smillies:

You ain't to old to get a clip round the ear and sent to your room!!!!

Whose room???

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

Pfft!

Behave you!!!

Words fail me!

I'll say it with smillies:

You ain't to old to get a clip round the ear and sent to your room!!!!

"
Send him here I'll sort him once and for all......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I am a nice person and half decent looking....

Attractive? Yep!

Nice?...not to fucking me your not!

Someone has to keep you in line.....

Pfft!

Behave you!!!

Words fail me!

I'll say it with smillies:

You ain't to old to get a clip round the ear and sent to your room!!!!

Send him here I'll sort him once and for all......

You don't scare me femme...it's all a facade!

If all I had was a chicken drumstick to defend myself I'd feel safe.

Julie is here....she'll assist!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I was trying to be nice....pffffft, I wont offer again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for ANY arguments, I'm just curious about other people's views."

yeah all the time, if a guy mails me and I like the look of him I look at the pics of women who have verified him to see what type of women he has met in the past then decide if I think he will like me, if all his verifications are from womem who are nothing like me I don't reply, if I think he may like me based on what his past meets look like I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope..i have no 'jealousy' issues on who meets who, or who meets who before or after who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was trying to be nice....pffffft, I wont offer again.

Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean lol x but babe you are gorgeous and have good veri's - no need to apologise in your profile for having given birth etc lol x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, if I didn't meet someone because he'd met someone better looking than me, I'd not meet at all!

I'm only bothered with how the guy is with me, not how he is with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean lol x but babe you are gorgeous and have good veri's - no need to apologise in your profile for having given birth etc lol x "

its more a pre warning than an apology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't cross reference anyones verifications.

If we are going to meet a guy then we will have a quick read of the veris. If there are quite a few veris then I'll read the first five etc.

I never go into the profiles of other people my potential new meet has met.

I just couldn't be bothered with this topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously you would as you wanna know how good in bed this potential meet would be but even if a person has no veri's they could still turn out to be a fantastic meet regardless !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All veris are good! no ones going to show a crap one or give a crap one

What may be a dream meet for one person maybe the worst shag in the world for the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veris are good! no ones going to show a crap one or give a crap one

What may be a dream meet for one person maybe the worst shag in the world for the next

ive heard things about u...wont say if they were good or bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veris are good! no ones going to show a crap one or give a crap one

What may be a dream meet for one person maybe the worst shag in the world for the next

ive heard things about u...wont say if they were good or bad

They'll be bad!....cos im very good at being bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All veris are good! no ones going to show a crap one or give a crap one

What may be a dream meet for one person maybe the worst shag in the world for the next

ive heard things about u...wont say if they were good or bad

They'll be bad!....cos im very good at being bad!

I just spurted..and it wasnt my vodka from my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because i'm a bigger girl I do look just to see if the only women they have met are body perfect.... If so I wouldn't feel comfortable around them. (yes my own insecurities I know)"

ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look as Im a nosey mare lol but also to see what type of woman they meet. Then I usually go away and wonder why they want to meet me

This lol

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