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By *tr8upguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Right ladies, question time.

If a bloke takes ages to cum (or doesn't cum at all) but satisfies you immensely- what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save a fortune in post-coital Kleenex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let him keep on satisfying you till he does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to confess I would be at it till he did.. because I need the cum to be satisfied myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put his manhood through a mangle and wring it out until he does cum, men just so lazy at times, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we having bets on who the first person to say "I always take ages to cum" is going to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I last came in 1985.

Beat that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id not give up anf be dissapointed in myself i think not happened yet tho

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've met a few men who don't cum - much less messy. I just enjoy myself now. I prefer them to the men who cum at the sight of me naked and then can't do anything else.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"I have to confess I would be at it till he did.. because I need the cum to be satisfied myself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two fingers up his ass. Massage his prostate till he does!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a few men who don't cum - much less messy. I just enjoy myself now. I prefer them to the men who cum at the sight of me naked and then can't do anything else."

You either met some men with very bad premature ejaculation problems, or your seriously good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very reluctantly give him a blowjob until he does or plan to go again in a few hours after I've composed myself

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

if he stays hard don't worry about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hand job until he says 'give over, you're doing it wrong, I'll do it myself', then roll over and go to sleep

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I love it coz I can keep on going and going so the longer he holds out the more chance I have of Cummin

But yeh it is nice to get a big load at the end lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to confess I would be at it till he did.. because I need the cum to be satisfied myself. "

Exactly this..^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I need the cum to be satisfied myself

"

And when i don't get it i never sulk . . .

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By *ammyjayneWoman
over a year ago

hull

Leaves you feeling crap bout yourself. Like your not good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters, as long as fun is had by all. Not everybody has to cum to feel satisfied.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

For us it just doesn't matter! We only ever practice safe sex and the male would always wear a condom, so no sticky stuff, no problem.

We also see a couples where the guy is on medication that gives him dry orgasms.. We all still have a great time!

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Two fingers up his ass. Massage his prostate till he does!!!!!"

A connoisseur! Some of us enjoy the 'all-in' experience (not just frotting up and down) to reach the heights

PS just to those who are thinking of having sex with me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Don't think it would bother me in the slightest. They tend to start running out of cum by about the forth or fifth time anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nuts are hard to crack it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love cum so wouldn't stop till he does but he takes ages anyway that's how I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a few men who don't cum - much less messy. I just enjoy myself now. I prefer them to the men who cum at the sight of me naked and then can't do anything else."

This ^

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Doesn't bother me. I'm seeing someone who doesn't cum much at all. He stays hard and is amazing in bed - i would say saves on mess, but as I gush and squirt with him, its not really noticable

And it does make it special when I do get him to cum (usually once over a weekend if I'm lucky )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hand job until he says 'give over, you're doing it wrong, I'll do it myself', then roll over and go to sleep "

And wake up when it's time to swallow?

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Glad to see I'm relatively normal. I've had occasions when I've not been able to come when having fun. I find it depends on how long it is since I last came

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so much harder for a man to fake it, but lets be honest some times his partner doesn't loat the boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it difficult to cum quickly. it takes me at least half an hour for a quickie

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By *tr8upguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

So none of the above would dump a bloke for it!! After he'd spend all night focused on her?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often don't cum on a swinging date or in a club...has to wait until I get home with Lady D.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often don't cum on a swinging date or in a club...has to wait until I get home with Lady D.

M"

Thats nice, thats exactly the way we would be, nice to keep some things for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some anti depressants can make it take a lot longer to cum. But if you keep going it will usually happen eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be honest, if I've had enough of playing then I'll stop. There is no way that I would continue with something I wasn't enjoying. Equally I expect my play partners to adopt the same viewpoint.

I don't like long stayers or guys that just want to bang away roughly for ages. So I stop play. If a guy couldn't cum then I would do nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you guy doesnt cum,

stick a finger up his bum,

it shouldn't might make him cry,

but his load will shoot sky-high,

it will not turn him gay,

but it will make jism spray,

because he's a candidate,

for you to massage his prostate!

Hurrah!

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"Two fingers up his ass. Massage his prostate till he does!!!!!"

Bugger you got there before me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a repeater so after every orgasm my cum depletes to the point I have none, but my orgasms are proper intense. Love it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I some times struggle to cum due to meds, it's ok with my wife because she understands but I would feel really bad if I didn't cum on a meet with another woman as I wouldn't want her thinking it was her fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right ladies, question time.

If a bloke takes ages to cum (or doesn't cum at all) but satisfies you immensely- what would you do? "
I've been there. It doesn't bother me, he cut in other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right ladies, question time.

If a bloke takes ages to cum (or doesn't cum at all) but satisfies you immensely- what would you do? I've been there. It doesn't bother me, he cut in other way "
cum not cut damn text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I some times struggle to cum due to meds, it's ok with my wife because she understands but I would feel really bad if I didn't cum on a meet with another woman as I wouldn't want her thinking it was her fault"

I've been with a man played for a good 3 hours and he did not cum ! But he was hard for the whole time ! So did not bother me ! I asked if there was any chance he would? And he said no I never do on a first meet ! So was not a problem for me ! We both had a fab time that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I some times struggle to cum due to meds, it's ok with my wife because she understands but I would feel really bad if I didn't cum on a meet with another woman as I wouldn't want her thinking it was her fault

I've been with a man played for a good 3 hours and he did not cum ! But he was hard for the whole time ! So did not bother me ! I asked if there was any chance he would? And he said no I never do on a first meet ! So was not a problem for me ! We both had a fab time that's all that matters "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fake mine and tell him to f off I ain,t getting friction burns for no man lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Right ladies, question time.

If a bloke takes ages to cum (or doesn't cum at all) but satisfies you immensely- what would you do? "

Say - never mind. Maybe next time - with a huge post-coital grin on me mush.

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