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By *ompeyfunguy2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Hi Im a genuine relaxed guy, would like to know if a guy sends a message that is read but not deleted is that a sign that people are interested or cant be bothered to delete it? If they are interested but don't reply how long should you leave it before you message again. I dont want to appear pushy or rude

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Hi Im a genuine relaxed guy, would like to know if a guy sends a message that is read but not deleted is that a sign that people are interested or cant be bothered to delete it? If they are interested but don't reply how long should you leave it before you message again. I dont want to appear pushy or rude "

If you don't get a reply don't message again.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Usually means I'm thinking it over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't get a reply, it means someone doesn't want to talk to you, never mind shag you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Im a genuine relaxed guy, would like to know if a guy sends a message that is read but not deleted is that a sign that people are interested or cant be bothered to delete it? If they are interested but don't reply how long should you leave it before you message again. I dont want to appear pushy or rude "

They are only interested if they reply and say they are interested its that simple. Its not worth fretting to what happens to a message you sent with no response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Im a genuine relaxed guy, would like to know if a guy sends a message that is read but not deleted is that a sign that people are interested or cant be bothered to delete it? If they are interested but don't reply how long should you leave it before you message again. I dont want to appear pushy or rude

If you don't get a reply don't message again."

This

I might read them but mass delete then occurs, only tend to delete them if they are highly offensive to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Im a genuine relaxed guy, would like to know if a guy sends a message that is read but not deleted is that a sign that people are interested or cant be bothered to delete it? If they are interested but don't reply how long should you leave it before you message again. I dont want to appear pushy or rude "

I sometimes look when I'm on my phone but wait to answer until I get onto my laptop which can be hours after, and I always reply, even if it's to say no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we read messages but dont reply or delete,as they delete themselves once you get new ones in.

certainly doesnt mean we are interested.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Don't worry about it chap, I personally don't send prospective messages, only to people I've had some kind of banter with on the forums.

As ladies tend to get quite a lot of mail, you have to make yours stand out from the crowd.

If there is one particular person that you want to contact, leave it for a while then try again

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

not sure how to answer this, but have you read the profile of the people you to contact? we say no single males because we only want to meet couples, so any mail for males we block straight away ..john

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not sure how to answer this, but have you read the profile of the people you to contact? we say no single males because we only want to meet couples, so any mail for males we block straight away ..john"

but surely you would have your filters on anyway?

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By *ompeyfunguy2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

wow no simple answer then. Good on those who at least say no, I never get offended by a refusal and always check what people are looking for before messaging. have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No simple answer but my advice is don't message again as that's really annoying. I've blocked two men today for that reason! Move one and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice if the site had a polite no thanks quick reply button.

This would make it easy, for such a reply and the person who sent it would no where he or she stands

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"It would be nice if the site had a polite no thanks quick reply button.

This would make it easy, for such a reply and the person who sent it would no where he or she stands "

Not getting a response doesn't tell you where you stand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few freinds on here who simply deleted all the messages they first got including mine.

a few weeks later I sent another just an hello etc and they replied, so no responce does not always mean they dont want to chat, now my experience may be in the minority?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if the site had a polite no thanks quick reply button.

This would make it easy, for such a reply and the person who sent it would no where he or she stands "

I don't agree! Some of the messages I get don't deserve any thanks whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few freinds on here who simply deleted all the messages they first got including mine.

a few weeks later I sent another just an hello etc and they replied, so no responce does not always mean they dont want to chat, now my experience may be in the minority?"

So they deleted your first message but accepted your friends invite? Why would anyone do that? How can you be friends if you've never spoken?

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"I have a few freinds on here who simply deleted all the messages they first got including mine.

a few weeks later I sent another just an hello etc and they replied, so no responce does not always mean they dont want to chat, now my experience may be in the minority?

So they deleted your first message but accepted your friends invite? Why would anyone do that? How can you be friends if you've never spoken? "

I was wondering that myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few freinds on here who simply deleted all the messages they first got including mine.

a few weeks later I sent another just an hello etc and they replied, so no responce does not always mean they dont want to chat, now my experience may be in the minority?

So they deleted your first message but accepted your friends invite? Why would anyone do that? How can you be friends if you've never spoken? "

Perve on private pics? Interested but still thinking it over? Being friendly?

No rhyme nor reason on Fabs. Threads like this make me giggle because some people act like we all follow the same rules and trends. Yeah right!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I have a few freinds on here who simply deleted all the messages they first got including mine.

a few weeks later I sent another just an hello etc and they replied, so no responce does not always mean they dont want to chat, now my experience may be in the minority?

So they deleted your first message but accepted your friends invite? Why would anyone do that? How can you be friends if you've never spoken? "

If I read that correctly, they replied after a second message a few weeks later, so must have spoken.

As I posted earlier, I would leave a certain amount of time inbetween initial and a secondary message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few freinds on here who simply deleted all the messages they first got including mine.

a few weeks later I sent another just an hello etc and they replied, so no responce does not always mean they dont want to chat, now my experience may be in the minority?

So they deleted your first message but accepted your friends invite? Why would anyone do that? How can you be friends if you've never spoken?

If I read that correctly, they replied after a second message a few weeks later, so must have spoken.

As I posted earlier, I would leave a certain amount of time inbetween initial and a secondary message "

Well I read it like he said, 'they simply deleted all the messages they first got' which is why I couldn't understand how they were on his friends list in the first place

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He sent another message a few weeks later and they replied "

They did indeed is that s hard to beleave?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

night all has been fun to debate and discuss

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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Sorry, I knew what you meant, you became friends after your second message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, I knew what you meant, you became friends after your second message "

yes you got it

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