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"Build yourself a soundproof padded cell for them 100 feet underground with some ventilation , works for us lol" PMSL!! | |||
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"I used to meet at home a few years back, but I knew my children wouldn't interrupt and had lock on my door. However now they are older I won't.. you know yourself if it's okay . I actually wouldn't meet with someone's kids there.. even though I used to... As I knew mine wouldn't wake as they had sleep issues so were medicated.. not sure many could say the same. And tend to mostly play at clubs now .x" As a matter of interest, how did you know they WOULDN'T? Heavily medicated or not, surely they weren't all medicated? | |||
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"we have a fair few times now, our 2 year old is in bed and wont wake up. " What do you know about the people that you invite over ? I mean REALLY know. I wouldn't let a stranger anywhere near my children. Sleeping or not. Seriously - Piss heads, crack heads, just nutters that go off their trolley ? | |||
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"If the folk i were meeting at their place had young ones at house i would decline as would be off putting for me and no doubt the parents plus what effect would it have on kids if they saw owt." fancy a meet at ours tonight? little one will be asleep in bed | |||
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"I meet single men while my lil ones are in bed asleep, i have lock on lounge door and never accomm over night and my children have never seen anyone, If i had a boyfriend i would be able to have sex in my home without anyone having an opinion on it so i dont see why it is so different when its someone from here, I am always upfront about them being here and asleep and in over 2 yrs have never had anyone say no thankyou to a meet. " Yep I'm the same x | |||
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"we have a fair few times now, our 2 year old is in bed and wont wake up. What do you know about the people that you invite over ? I mean REALLY know. I wouldn't let a stranger anywhere near my children. Sleeping or not. Seriously - Piss heads, crack heads, just nutters that go off their trolley ? " Tend not to let those in our home whether the kids are in or not! | |||
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"we have a fair few times now, our 2 year old is in bed and wont wake up. What do you know about the people that you invite over ? I mean REALLY know. I wouldn't let a stranger anywhere near my children. Sleeping or not. Seriously - Piss heads, crack heads, just nutters that go off their trolley ? " because i know no one is going to do anything whilst i am there. | |||
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"Hi want to know people's views on playing at home when you have kids we have 4 quite young and are unsure weather or not to play at home we have a quiet lounge that when they are in be the kids can't see but can it be distracting? What's your thoughts??? " My kids are at home (21 and 25) and I don't play at home when they're around! | |||
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"Before my wife gave up on sex (boohoo) we used to have sex & our children lived with us. I see no reason why there is a difference. As long as doors are shut or whatever & the children are monitored for wellbeing etc then why should they be a problem?" I never understand these kinds of pointless comments, it's up there with the equally dumb what's the difference in having sex with my husband when pregnant and strangers? Gee...let me think! If you honestly can't see the difference I despair! | |||
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"No way I would meet someone with a child in the house, I'd also think less of someone who'd meet me with their child present. How do you know I'm not an axe murderer or worse? It's one thing putting yourself at risk inviting strangers into your home; quite another to put your offspring at risk." Doesn't matter as long as you fuck em first. | |||
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"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief " I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really. The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc. But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals. If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough! | |||
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"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really. The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc. But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals. If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough!" Well said!!!!! X | |||
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"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really. The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc. But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals. If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough! Well said!!!!! X" Yes everyone is entitled to a sex life and yes there is life after having children, but to bring friends or what ever you would like to call them to your house regardless if the layout is just so wrong, maybe you have a North and west wing to you house | |||
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"Just out of curiosity those saying they know their kids won't wake up, how do you know 100% that they won't? Bad dreams, illness? There's lots of reasons that they could wake up even if they normally sleep thru. Like I said I've had my ex FB round here but my son is in a cot so if he woke the FB would of had to leave straight away. He'll be in a bed soon and although he generally sleeps well I wouldn't risk it. And for those few that have said parents have sex etc with their kids at home so what's the difference?? There's a big difference between a kids mum and dad being caught under the covers than finding mum, dad and A.N.Other in a strange situation on the living room rug! " Yes they could a Least put a spare quilt on the floor, those rugs can be expensive | |||
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"We once refused a social meet with a couple who wanted to bring their kids to a local coffee shop And they thought we were being unreasonable. " What ever next | |||
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"Hi want to know people's views on playing at home when you have kids we have 4 quite young and are unsure weather or not to play at home we have a quiet lounge that when they are in be the kids can't see but can it be distracting? What's your thoughts??? " No, Never ever. I would not play if there were kids in the house. | |||
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"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really. The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc. But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals. If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough! Well said!!!!! X Yes everyone is entitled to a sex life and yes there is life after having children, but to bring friends or what ever you would like to call them to your house regardless if the layout is just so wrong, maybe you have a North and west wing to you house " In fact we do (well North and East) but as said earlier our children are too old for us to play at home. As for friends we'll continue to invite whoever we please. From time to time we may even get a little tipsy. And when we're really daring we may watch the occasional risqué film (low volume of course). | |||
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"Why Are ppl so desperate to have sex with others while their kids are tucked up in bed, begets belief I know unbelievable - people having sexual urges after childbirth - shocking really. The trouble with these threads when they come up is that nobody else can judge what the actual circumstances are - the age of children, the relationship between the adults, the layout of the house etc. etc. But what people can do is scream righteous indignation from upon their shiny glass pedestals. If you're not putting the safety and welfare of your children first, you're a twat. However you're still entitled to a life. And sex despite all the cultural hangups it has in this country isn't actually dirty - its the reason people have kids funnily enough! Well said!!!!! X Yes everyone is entitled to a sex life and yes there is life after having children, but to bring friends or what ever you would like to call them to your house regardless if the layout is just so wrong, maybe you have a North and west wing to you house In fact we do (well North and East) but as said earlier our children are too old for us to play at home. As for friends we'll continue to invite whoever we please. From time to time we may even get a little tipsy. And when we're really daring we may watch the occasional risqué film (low volume of course)." Lost me now, never said not invite friends around, and at what age do you stop having swinging meets at home when kids are at home | |||
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"That's our own business. If you read your own post back you'll see that you did say friends." yes it was friends or what ever you call them ie swinging friends | |||
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"Parents have sex with each other when the kids are in bed so what's the difference lol ." The difference between a mum and dad having sex to a load of naked bodies having group sex? A big difference. To the OP...if our kids were young we would only be meeting in Hotels....I know people say their children will never wake up, but I would never have felt comfortable having group sex in the house where my children were sleeping. | |||
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"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all. " | |||
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"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all. " Why is saying you wouldn't have group sex while your child is in the house on the moral high ground? Being on this site doesn't affect children, or shouldn't ! | |||
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"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all. " Err that means you too as you said you wouldn't either | |||
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"Hi want to know people's views on playing at home when you have kids we have 4 quite young and are unsure weather or not to play at home we have a quiet lounge that when they are in be the kids can't see but can it be distracting? What's your thoughts??? " Absolutely no problem, just flick playstation on, they won't look sideways for the next 5 hours (joking of course). Never play at home, EVER ! | |||
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"love how people are getting on the moral high ground on here.if you were so righteous you wouldnt be on a site looking for other people to fuck at all. " its not the 'moral high ground'.. its a different opinion, that's all.. just a thought...? do you class yourself as less than 'righteous' for being on here then..? | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. " Im in 100% agreement to this statement | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. " What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads? | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?" I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance? | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance?" Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum? | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance? Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?" I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt? | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance? Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt?" As I wrote previously, if you don't put the safety and happiness of your children first, you're a twat. I was referencing the suggestion that people should not mention their kids in discussions on here - should the discussions on kids in restaurants therefore be deemed unsafe? People chat all manner of crap about their lives, much like they do in swingers clubs. Or maybe we shouldn't do that for the risk somebody might pass word around that there's only a babysitter supervising them while we're busy being morally corrupt? | |||
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"I think it's the individuals judgement, there are different circumstances and reasons!!! Who are we to judge each other!!!" | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance? Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt? As I wrote previously, if you don't put the safety and happiness of your children first, you're a twat. I was referencing the suggestion that people should not mention their kids in discussions on here - should the discussions on kids in restaurants therefore be deemed unsafe? People chat all manner of crap about their lives, much like they do in swingers clubs. Or maybe we shouldn't do that for the risk somebody might pass word around that there's only a babysitter supervising them while we're busy being morally corrupt?" You can do what you like, I prefer to keep my private life , private. | |||
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"I think it's the individuals judgement, there are different circumstances and reasons!!! Who are we to judge each other!!!" Indeed Well the kids are finally asleep - and now we get to play dirty scrabble.. | |||
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"I wouldn't do it, and wouldn't go to a house if there were children in. No moral highground from me, but I don't like it if people even talk about their kids on here. There's a time n place for discussing your kids and a swinging sites not it. What bollocks. It's a forum where people discuss all manner of crap - or have you not noticed the other threads?I don't think its bollocks at all, all manner of strange weirdos on the tinterweb, why take the chance? Exactly what chance are people taking by discussing their lives on this forum?I agree, people on here give far too much personal info, but its not obligatory is it? Putting a target on your profile by stating you have children is a risky business if you ARE meeting at home with kids in situ, or are you now going to tell me it isnt? As I wrote previously, if you don't put the safety and happiness of your children first, you're a twat. I was referencing the suggestion that people should not mention their kids in discussions on here - should the discussions on kids in restaurants therefore be deemed unsafe? People chat all manner of crap about their lives, much like they do in swingers clubs. Or maybe we shouldn't do that for the risk somebody might pass word around that there's only a babysitter supervising them while we're busy being morally corrupt?" Its my opinion and I'm entitled to it. And I don't think swinging is morally corrupt or I wouldn't be on here. I just wouldn't discuss children with complete strangers on a site that is predominately about fucking . As for other mundane threads I don't really take part in them I have REAL live friends and Facebook for stuff like that. | |||
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"Indeed you are - as am I to give my opinion on it. You're very fortunate to have REAL friends. I used to, but then I had children " Yes but I didn't dismiss your opinion as bollox . And you can have kids and a life. | |||
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"Indeed you are - as am I to give my opinion on it. You're very fortunate to have REAL friends. I used to, but then I had children Yes but I didn't dismiss your opinion as bollox . And you can have kids and a life." That's good to hear. I appreciated your suggestions for games to play with kids on the earlier thread | |||
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