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By *eerise OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im ok with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her choice and if he doesn't like it - simple - say 'sod off' then!

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By *ockAndBollocksMan
over a year ago

Swansea

As a man who loves oral I don't see a problem at all. It's all about respecting each other and having fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its perfectly reasonable and I can think of no reason why he should have an issue. You're taking responsibility for your sexual health and no one should.have an issue with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

flavoured condoms make it more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?"

And with your luscious lips a bj with or without condom would be a marvelous thing

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch


"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?"

Ask me and ill tell you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I live the feeling workout one I'm happy to use one during oral if that's what the lady prefers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if he had no respect for you would he have an issue with you asking him to wear a condom.

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By *innamon ChallengeMan
over a year ago

London


"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?"

It is reasonable to request for anyone you're gonna have any sexual encounter with where you're at risk of contracting an infection to wear protection.

However, you have to be happy for someone to request the same of you. If someone said they were going to give you oral with dental dam would you be OK with that?

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Thread hijack - do latex free condoms taste better than the regular kind?

OP - your mouth, your rules. STD risk is considerably less with oral, but not eliminated.

His problem if he doesn't like it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thread hijack - do latex free condoms taste better than the regular kind?

OP - your mouth, your rules. STD risk is considerably less with oral, but not eliminated.

His problem if he doesn't like it."

Latex free taste slightly better but the biggest issue for me is the teat at the end which makes me choke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recieving Oral ....can take it or leave but if she insists and like the taste of rubber then I'm all for it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is only reasonable if you know before the meet that this is the score .

If we travelled to a meet and were unaware of this prerequisite we would be most upset at wasting our time . Of course we would also be equally as much to blame for not asking , but does anyone seriously think to ask ?

It's only happened once to us and that was in a club , and the lady who insisted was told to forget it . Since my wife was five minutes into sucking her husband off unprotected it seemed reasonable !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's reasonable to ask that they wear a condom... If they don't like it and say no, then don't suck his knob, simple as that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's reasonable as long as you tell him before you meet. If I got to a meet and suddenly had it sprung on me I would not be happy.. have done it but it's awful.. so would rather not. But it's your choice.. but as someone has said... People may request the same back.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything to do with swinging must always be about respecting others wishes, and not exceeding their boundaries. If the lady wishes use of a condom in oral sex, then use of a condom it must be, without question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOPE I wouldn't wear a condom for a bj NOR would I expect to wear a dental dam for cunny

The lady (or gent) wouldn't need to tell me to eff off cos I'd already b heading out the door of my own volition!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything to do with swinging must always be about respecting others wishes, and not exceeding their boundaries. If the lady wishes use of a condom in oral sex, then use of a condom it must be, without question"

Errrr not quite ..... men can say no too and I would rather go without

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By *rusader1Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Never been asked to wear a condom before getting a bj but think it would be comparable with going for dump while keeping your underpants on!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?"

I agree that everyone is entitled to decide for themselves how they intend to have safe sex.

However I disagree with the underlying theme seen on this post and its replies that women have preferences while men only have 'issues'.

He has as much right to decide what he wants as you do. If your preferences aren't compatible just go your separate ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been asked to wear a condom before getting a bj but think it would be comparable with going for dump while keeping your underpants on!!!!

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Not if she's that good at giving head, once had a girlfriend who hated cum and wouldn't give me a blow job without a condom, I've struggled to find a woman better at it with or without since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything to do with swinging must always be about respecting others wishes, and not exceeding their boundaries. If the lady wishes use of a condom in oral sex, then use of a condom it must be, without question

Errrr not quite ..... men can say no too and I would rather go without "

Your absolutely right. I stand corrected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it reasonable if a woman requests that a man (Stranger) wears a condom whilst she gives him oral? And why should he have an issue?

I agree that everyone is entitled to decide for themselves how they intend to have safe sex.

However I disagree with the underlying theme seen on this post and its replies that women have preferences while men only have 'issues'.

He has as much right to decide what he wants as you do. If your preferences aren't compatible just go your separate ways.

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Both parties are allowed to say what they want protection wise...if they don't agree then don't play! Also agree with others that this should be stated before a meet as condoms for oral is less common due to the lower risks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.personaly dont see wot problem is at of day its about being very careful but i wonder if ya wud still b able to feel coldness of ice.cubes on the condom lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering STI's can be transmitted orally, you're well within your rights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure if a meet was arranged then she would request before the meet so don't think it would be an issue. Sexual health is important to most so id be gone with it

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

Of course it is! Your mouth, your rules.

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