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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Is it just us or is it same for others practically every time we go in new chat no matter what room we go in people don't chat to you, we always say Hiya to all when we enter and rarely get a reply would love feedback as old chat wasn't anywhere near as bad

Thanks xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Thats why I dont go into chat

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish

The chatrooms are really busy much of the time and people are in the middle of ongoing conversations. I find I often don't get a reply to a 'hiya' but if I jump in with a convo it's easier to get involved.

I've seen this comparison before - if you walked into a busy pub and said hello, would everyone stop what they were doing and say hello back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

scotland room is always friendly. x

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"scotland room is always friendly. x"

We might have to pop in Scotland room then xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

chat is inane one liners . i much prefer the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never noticed any kind of conversation in the chat rooms unless you include men pandering to the women with webcams on or the men begging for meets.

We've done it a few times a long time ago but quickly got bored.

Still worth the occasional perv though

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I can never keep up in chat an miss most things said to me so I suppose I must seam ignorant but im not honest

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"I've never noticed any kind of conversation in the chat rooms unless you include men pandering to the women with webcams on or the men begging for meets.

We've done it a few times a long time ago but quickly got bored.

Still worth the occasional perv though"

Lol yes there is that xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

if the best i can muster is a smile or a wave in a video room i'd rather get an interesting response in here

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

true but honestly you could go in old chat and people would chat to you all time and you could join in with them etc new chat is so much hard work sorry for moaning by the way lol x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Funnily enough, before new chat came there were always threads started about old chat not being friendly.....I suppose that means not everyone will say hello in ANY chat

The people havn't changed, just the way the chatrooms are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused how this makes it ignorant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too many chat rooms i think!!!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish

If there were less rooms then they'd be even more full and so even harder to chat surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just persevere - people will get to know your name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all the time ive been a member here, ive never ever done the chat thing...It scares me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Is it just us or is it same for others practically every time we go in new chat no matter what room we go in people don't chat to you, we always say Hiya to all when we enter and rarely get a reply would love feedback as old chat wasn't anywhere near as bad

Thanks xxx"

Maybe that's because you knew people in theold chat?

II've been in both and found them equally as bad but the I accept that people are having their own conversations. Do you say hi to everyone that walks into a pub you are in?

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"In all the time ive been a member here, ive never ever done the chat thing...It scares me "

the chat thing aint too bad to be honest and we have been member for around 6 plus yrs and gone in old chat and new chat even before old chat closed and always found that people seem to be more ignorant in new chat if someone comes in when we are in and says hiya we always try and just say hiya back thats all we are saying its not just said for our benefit its said to try and make newbies feel welcome aswell xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just persevere - people will get to know your name "

i been ere oer 7 yrs.. how long does it take??? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just persevere - people will get to know your name

i been ere oer 7 yrs.. how long does it take??? lol

"

A mere 8 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just persevere - people will get to know your name

i been ere oer 7 yrs.. how long does it take??? lol

A mere 8 years "

lol

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Is it just us or is it same for others practically every time we go in new chat no matter what room we go in people don't chat to you, we always say Hiya to all when we enter and rarely get a reply would love feedback as old chat wasn't anywhere near as bad

Thanks xxx

Maybe that's because you knew people in theold chat?

II've been in both and found them equally as bad but the I accept that people are having their own conversations. Do you say hi to everyone that walks into a pub you are in? "

we get what ya mean bout pub situation but lets be honest its not anywhere nr same its a chatroom and we are just saying that it doesnt seem as friendly in new chat thats all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My suggestion would be..... say "hi all" or "hi room". Don't just say "hi", because we think you might alreay be in a convo with 1 other profile.

PS New Northern Chat is really friendly, come along and say "hi all, new here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all the time ive been a member here, ive never ever done the chat thing...It scares me "

Snap! I prefer the Forums

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I prefer the forums as well. I get easily confused and lose track int he chatroom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all the time ive been a member here, ive never ever done the chat thing...It scares me

Snap! I prefer the Forums "

And me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, i have been here for 2 years (not a lot lol) and i have seen a difference in the chat rooms or it could be just me.

Im of the quite talkative type, i prefer to chat, have a laugh and banter. Thats how i used to make my friends, and be able to sort some meets.

But lately, no one chats, not even a hi. And i dont like the directing rooms. Its a bit tedious for me i.e. what size are your boobs? show me this, show me that? etc

And, i dont have an issue talking to men having a laugh with everyone in the rooms..but nowadays. No one chats or has a laugh - is a bit too dry for me (no pun intended)

Due to this, it may be why i havent been able to get many meets lately. Im still arranging meets with those i spoke to 2/3 years ago.

However, i have discovered the forums..and i quite like it here.

..i think i talk too much at times lol

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a clique in them chatrooms there is

Some don't say hello to me ... then the next day lots will - depends who is in there

I find them amusing most days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just us or is it same for others practically every time we go in new chat no matter what room we go in people don't chat to you, we always say Hiya to all when we enter and rarely get a reply would love feedback as old chat wasn't anywhere near as bad

Thanks xxx"

It is because they know its you trouble thats why mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much better class of people in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much better class of people in here "

Fgs dont encourage him to come in here standards will drop and trouble will be all around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the forums as well. I get easily confused and lose track int he chatroom! "

Same here.

Been in there twice.

Find I'm having a convo with at least 5 different people at once ha!

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"There is a clique in them chatrooms there is

Some don't say hello to me ... then the next day lots will - depends who is in there

I find them amusing most days "

I actually find the forums more cliquey than chat. Unless you're in the forum clique your posts seem to be ignored or ridiculed.

Hence why I prefer to use chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a clique in them chatrooms there is

Some don't say hello to me ... then the next day lots will - depends who is in there

I find them amusing most days

I actually find the forums more cliquey than chat. Unless you're in the forum clique your posts seem to be ignored or ridiculed.

Hence why I prefer to use chat"

I get ignored in Chat most days ..

I was kidding about the clique ... its a kidding word

Ill say hello to you next time Im in and you say hello to me - deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the c word ... Dum dum dummmmmmmmm those were dramtic sound effects btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Not the c word ... Dum dum dummmmmmmmm those were dramtic sound effects btw "

Dum Dum Dummmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

What's all this 'chat' and 'hi' stuff.

The 'chat' rooms are for getting your tits and fanny out. The males are NOT interested in chatting to you or your face.

Even those who pretend to be .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's all this 'chat' and 'hi' stuff.

The 'chat' rooms are for getting your tits and fanny out. The males are NOT interested in chatting to you or your face.

Even those who pretend to be ......."

. Mmm, I was about to contest this, but.....

A lot of people were probably drawn to this site for sexual gratification.

When reality kicks in and you realise you don't simply get sex on demand to satisfy your temporary horn, some people engage in conversation and see the human face behind the evocative pics we post.

I'm quite happy to converse if its an interesting subject, but its not always easy on chat when there's constant messages along the lines of :

You're gorgeous wanna meet ?

Move the cam down I'm almost there

I wanna lick you all day

Wanna watch me bash my member on cam ?

All of this interspersed with the odd intellectual comment makes for a bizzare experience which invariably ends up with, mmmmm ill click on that cam and see what's happening.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

The chat rooms are a pretty brutal place. It's a bit like the old wild west. Full of Desperados and jizz with a heavy air of homo-eroticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The chat rooms are a pretty brutal place. It's a bit like the old wild west. Full of Desperados and jizz with a heavy air of homo-eroticism."

And here's me thinking they wuz chewin tobacco pardner.

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"There is a clique in them chatrooms there is

Some don't say hello to me ... then the next day lots will - depends who is in there

I find them amusing most days

I actually find the forums more cliquey than chat. Unless you're in the forum clique your posts seem to be ignored or ridiculed.

Hence why I prefer to use chat

I get ignored in Chat most days ..

I was kidding about the clique ... its a kidding word

Ill say hello to you next time Im in and you say hello to me - deal "

Deal x

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate chat apart from when we do a Canada invasion

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Much better class of people in here

Fgs dont encourage him to come in here standards will drop and trouble will be all around "

As for you ms cheeky dingle it's gotta be over my knee and a slapped bum for you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much better class of people in here

Fgs dont encourage him to come in here standards will drop and trouble will be all around

As for you ms cheeky dingle it's gotta be over my knee and a slapped bum for you xx "

woooo hooooooo bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't compare as we've never used the old chat, but yes somedays you get no response from you hi ,others your get the whole room saying hello back. Normally though once your there for Afew mins we get lost in private conversations and don't even see the general room chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never noticed any kind of conversation in the chat rooms unless you include men pandering to the women with webcams on or the men begging for meets.

We've done it a few times a long time ago but quickly got bored.

Still worth the occasional perv though"

Good comment. Most of the couples and females block private messages so if you get a three word response in the room you are lucky.

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"I've never noticed any kind of conversation in the chat rooms unless you include men pandering to the women with webcams on or the men begging for meets.

We've done it a few times a long time ago but quickly got bored.

Still worth the occasional perv though

Good comment. Most of the couples and females block private messages so if you get a three word response in the room you are lucky. "

Well when we are in chat room but must admit a lot of time just mr dee while mrs dee sat on settee catching up on soaps i never ask for a fem to reveal anything and always behave like a gent as believe in treating all the lovely fems and cpls with the respect they deserve and we would expect xx

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Much better class of people in here

Fgs dont encourage him to come in here standards will drop and trouble will be all around

As for you ms cheeky dingle it's gotta be over my knee and a slapped bum for you xx

woooo hooooooo bring it on "

Anytime ms dingle over you go smile away and its slap slap slap xxx

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Just persevere - people will get to know your name

i been ere oer 7 yrs.. how long does it take??? lol

"

ye we are about same pudds hehe long standing members or are we just glutten for punishment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much better class of people in here

Fgs dont encourage him to come in here standards will drop and trouble will be all around

As for you ms cheeky dingle it's gotta be over my knee and a slapped bum for you xx

woooo hooooooo bring it on

Anytime ms dingle over you go smile away and its slap slap slap xxx "

You have to find me first dingleland is a big place you know

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By *eendee OP   Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"Much better class of people in here

Fgs dont encourage him to come in here standards will drop and trouble will be all around

As for you ms cheeky dingle it's gotta be over my knee and a slapped bum for you xx

woooo hooooooo bring it on

Anytime ms dingle over you go smile away and its slap slap slap xxx

You have to find me first dingleland is a big place you know "

Lol I have a good memory babe and won't be long before we bump Into u hehe xxx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Is it just us or is it same for others practically every time we go in new chat no matter what room we go in people don't chat to you, we always say Hiya to all when we enter and rarely get a reply would love feedback as old chat wasn't anywhere near as bad

Thanks xxx"

feck them and chat to us in here

x

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