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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people read all their messages? Some of my sent ones never get read! Why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them but I don't answer all of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I read mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some just look boring, also I check the profile out, and if not interested don't bother reading or replying, cause they all say pretty much the same thing.....Most sites have an automated response, which is soo much better and easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I don't ... only because Ill do a mass delete and some unread ones have been in there

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

When I get messages I check out the profile first. If they're not my type I leave the message unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read and reply to all of mine, honest

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Do people read all their messages? Some of my sent ones never get read! Why??"

Yes but most of our messages I can read without opening as they only contain 2 or 3 words.

If someone has taken the time to read our profile and sent a half decent message then we will always take the time to reply. Others we just hit the delete button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I would normally look at the profile first and if it didn't float my boat just wouldn't bother. i.e. With yours, and the whole legal notice thing, I find that off putting. It's also longer than what you have to say about yourself so I would probably move on to the next message. That's just me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the couples profile we look at the senders profile before opening the message.

If they've ignored all the little specifics in our text, have a two line profile with a zillion multi angled cock shots or have sent so few words that you can read the entire message without opening - we'll delete straight away!

Takes as much effort to hit the delete button as many take with their message approach!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I read and reply to all of mine, honest "

Pfffft

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Because there is no rule to say they have to read your messages whenever you want them to. They can read messages as ans when they want to maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read all my messages cos I can't keep up with em lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - there's only one thing that matters as a single guy on here, and that's REPLIES - not unread or deleted messages.

I know it's ruthless, but you'll get further quicker if you don't spend time on what could have been, and concentrate what could be...

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I tend to read the message first, then look at profile if the message has been interesting/personalised.

We try and respond to everyone but as someone said previously if it's a two word message then you can see it without reading it! Always unlikely to get a response lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on circumstances and what we are looking for at the time.

If we put on our profile we are only looking for couples and we receive mails from single guys then we delete without reading for two reasons

first they are not whom we are looking for and second they obviously not read profile or would not of malid so not worthy of a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I have some that are a couple of weeks old that remain unread.. On occasions some messages of the regular people I chat with get mixed up in there too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for some good advice!

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