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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello again!

Has anyone had many bad experiences and has this put you off?

I've only had good and worried my luck will run out! Wondered if it's put anyone off or just brush it off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been extremly lucky so far not even had a bide shag yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few but I am still going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

One of the 4 key reasons I'm not meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have had a few bad experiences, has put me off, but i still want to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ...

It took a while for me to meet again.

That was a while ago - good few years

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Not bad as in scary, but I have met some men who just didn't really click with me. Been stood up a couple of times. Met guys who were 20 years older and 100 lbs fatter than their pics. But with the number of meets I've had I would be surprised if I'd had a perfect record.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes, I did a few weeks ago! Still not totally sure what it was etc, but it really did put me off and left me a bit shaken, hopefully, I'm now back in the saddle so to speak and looking.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None on meets, one in a club a few weeks back but thanks to some very lovely (and gorgeous) people i wasn't worried on my next club visit

Not completely over it as i haven't tried to do what i was doing at the time again, but hopefully I'll be able to again soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was hoping to have a bad experience this weekend but it's all gone Pete tong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had a few bad experiences, one recent one has shaken me and have been nervous since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt from my not so good experiences and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one. Guy claimed to be my age but was more like 70-80. Agreed to meet him at his place. "A bag of bones" was the thought that came to mind. I just said "Thanks but no thanks" and left.

Had one guy show up after we'd messaged quite a bit and say "I've only got one leg. That's not a problem is it?" which was bloody cheeky, but on the other hand had a really horny time with him and have met him several times again since where if he'd told me upfront I'd probably not have agreed to meet.

But overall, my meets have been great. If they're not then you leave or tell the other person to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any bad experiences as such this time round. Disappointments maybe and took a few days to reflect and re-think matters, but that's not always a bad thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm I done meeting people for a while. And most have all been good.

Worse was banging a girl when her house mate come back. Who was her ex did not like fact she was having fun and all kicked off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ermmm I done meeting people for a while. And most have all been good.

Worse was banging a girl when her house mate come back. Who was her ex did not like fact she was having fun and all kicked off. "

Yeah see I worry about stuff like that or couples and one getting jealous and kicking off.

Makes me even more worried knowing people have and it's shaken them or put them off. Hate thinking people have gone through that.

I guess we'll just see what the future holds and try to be sensible what with verifications and meeting in public first etc.

Hope you all have his experiences in the future! Well I hope everyone does. This is supposed to be fun after all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had any bad experiences as such this time round. Disappointments maybe and took a few days to reflect and re-think matters, but that's not always a bad thing! "

My philosophy is not to trust what people say but to be open to them telling the truth. Time will tell either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello again!

Has anyone had many bad experiences and has this put you off?

I've only had good and worried my luck will run out! Wondered if it's put anyone off or just brush it off x"

Nope, been very lucky with my choices so far but if i did have a bad un! then i would put it down to experience and move on...best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few and learnt my lesson. I have heard of some horrendous ones though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

All my meets have been good so far. Fingers crossed it stays that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented "

bang out of order that

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Yeh had one bad one a while back but got over it!!

Had some crap shags but the good out way the bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented

bang out of order that"

^^^^ this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ermmm I done meeting people for a while. And most have all been good.

Worse was banging a girl when her house mate come back. Who was her ex did not like fact she was having fun and all kicked off.

Yeah see I worry about stuff like that or couples and one getting jealous and kicking off.

Makes me even more worried knowing people have and it's shaken them or put them off. Hate thinking people have gone through that.

I guess we'll just see what the future holds and try to be sensible what with verifications and meeting in public first etc.

Hope you all have his experiences in the future! Well I hope everyone does. This is supposed to be fun after all xx"

Yup has put me off slightly I dont often like going to peoples house who I dont no. Would rather fun else where.

But id still meet people just have be more careful who you meet I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one last night. Invited a regular FB over and he brought three friends - all seemed very nice and we had a great time...... Till I checked my phone and found one of them had routed down my phone from my handbag and texted to numbers unknown my private sexual vids !!! Grrrr x phone lock on and trust severely dented "

I always keep fone close to hand during a meet or turn it off. Never can trust any one.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"Yes.

One of the 4 key reasons I'm not meeting. "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do mistakes count, was my choice to meet but we all do don't we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes had a fairly dangerous one .. hense i now won't go straight to a guys house .. had some rubbish meets and a couple of horendous ones .. but also had a few nice ones

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

"touch wood" I like doing that

I have been lucky so far. Only met about 5 people but all really nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a terrible one a while back. It was an ex I met again on here, so thought I was safe.

Wrong!!....lesson learned. Trust nobody!!

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


". Trust nobody!! "

that's so true

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By *-BelleWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

Had a few bad ones over the years. From people who look nothing like their pics to men who don't take no for an answer.

Only once have I been in a situation where I really thought I could be in trouble. I put myself there, so go along with it and get out quick was my answer.

Not nice but I learnt from it and moved on.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

my first ever meet off here was bad and scary. I have learned from it and never made the mistake again. Had 2 no shows and one or two couples getting jealous and arguing, so only meet in clubs now.

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