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Once you've gotten into this, there's no way out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For years I've wanted to have group sex, 3soms, swinging etc and now I've had a taste I can't see me stopping. I know there may be times in the future where a break may be required but I can't see me changing. I feel like this is just who I am, my naughty path in life. I've been warned this us addictive and I think their right.

Is anyone else like that?

I just can't imagine being soley with one person the rest of my life. People think I'm strange for that and I know it's not the general consensus but I sometimes how people can just be with one person, can they even? Obviously there's a lot of cheating in the world and I'm sure couples must fantasie even if not to fully cheat. I don't know how it's got to this stage of you should only be with one person for ever! I guess it must date back to religion, that and roncoms have certainly shoved that at people.

Sex is sex, It's not love. It's fun. The world is one big sweet shop! Got to try them

Anyway that's my view, just wondered what people thought. Be nice and gentle please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree x I could never imagine a one/one relationship with vanilla sex ever again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with most things in life, there is always an Exit.

You just have to want to walk through it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much sums up the last few years of my life!

And the next 40 odd years too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt the same about candy crush

Soon got bored of that though

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

As a married couple we still enjoy a great sex life yet i can honestly say i prefer the idea of having people join us over vanilla. I can't imagine that will change. Perhaps it'll tire but then i'd be looking for the next thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to say "you want monogamy, marry a swan." but have recently discovered that swans and other animals which were thought to be monogamous are in fact adulterous in their nature.

Genetic testing of swans' offspring has shown that often even though a pair seem to be an exclusive monogamous couple, their offspring comes from a "third party" although they remain together as a couple.

So, my saying is out the window...

I am now inclined to believe that monogamy is an artefact created by religions / society and not the thing for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are what you are that wont ever change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are living proof that once you start it theres no going back. Yes we have had our breaks but we always come back for more we have been swining for three years now and love ever minute of it, and thats not going to change. Our moto is "its a way of life" and it really is for us. We always say sit back and enjoy the ride. You only live once and we think life is for living. Thats for sure. Lol

I love my other half with all my heart, and I know I can say this from both of us that no matter what we do when swining its still going to be us forever. Enjoy it while you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different strokes for different folks but I've been a third wheel a couple times and personally I love sharing a big bed with one woman and making the most of all that sprawling space

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your lovely replies. Good to know it's not just be and I like when couples are living proof of that too x

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I share your analogy of the sweet shop. I am a child in a sweet shop after closing time, tasting the goods, sucking on one and putting it back, licking my fingers and going for more...difficult to not want to taste them all!! As long as there will be sweets to taste, I'm going to keep wanting more.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I share your analogy of the sweet shop. I am a child in a sweet shop after closing time, tasting the goods, sucking on one and putting it back, licking my fingers and going for more...difficult to not want to taste them all!! As long as there will be sweets to taste, I'm going to keep wanting more."

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find someone to love, and decide to make a life together, you will want to stop shagging around, I understand some will say, people who play together stay together, in reality that doesn't work,

when you are ready for commitment, you will find it, sex with love is something completely different to a random knee trembler.

Adultery will become a thing of the past, and rather seeing sex as a recreational pastime it will become the cement that holds you together.

Of course for many commitment just means feeling controlled and secure,

but hey we are all the same and have 4 basic needs, water, food, shelter and reproduction, that is what we are conditioned for, as indeed are all animals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the lifestyle is like pringles, once you pop you can't stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the lifestyle is like pringles, once you pop you can't stop. "

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"the lifestyle is like pringles, once you pop you can't stop. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are what you are that wont ever change"

Absolutely

incorrect .

People's attitudes, opinions and behaviours change over time. I am not the same person I was 10 years ago, and it's likely I won't be the same person in ten years.

Live in the present moment and enjoy.

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By *uriouscouple34Couple
over a year ago

sunderland

Depends on the effect this lifestyle has on our relationship. We're loving the ride right now but if it started to cause problems for us would stop in a heartbeat. 20 loving years together versus but of fun with a stranger. I know which is more important to me.

Mrs curious x

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