FabSwingers.com forum: Would you ....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If someone you fancied and was going to meet on fab gave you his password would you check his account out without his knowledge and consent ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no

Extremely foolish thing to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO!! But why would anyone give someone else their password anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think the thought wouldn't even cross my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you would have to, to make sure he /she was genuine and not fake ! Best to be on the safe side

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Don't want anyone rooting through my box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no thats his account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't want anyone rooting through my box

Spoil sport.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy quite a few on here and I doubt they want me trawling through thousands of their flirty messages

Heartbreaking .. I couldn't cope

No ..in all seriousness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Even when I'm at my best mates we never look at each others accounts or check our accounts in each others company. We don't even know the others passwords, and I wouldn't want to know it if he asked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course I would!!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No strings attached ! And going through someone elses account even if they give you their password smacks of possessiveness and insecurity. So no I wouldn't look or give out my password.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What possible reason would there be for giving someone else your password if not to log into their account?

Are we operating Harry Potter style 'Secret Keeping' now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If be very torn but that's because I'm s nosey bugger and if he gave me his password willingly as if giving me permission I'd be very tempted.

However I'm a big believer that something's you don't need to know, which is where I'd tend to be.

So my short answer is, I don't know....but I'd certainly be tempted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah I would! Id send a few wanna fuck messages out too

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By *ittle nelWoman
over a year ago

Merseyside

been asked by a male friend to do re do his profIile because he wasn't having an luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't understand why someone would give anyone else their password really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No strings attached ! And going through someone elses account even if they give you their password smacks of possessiveness and insecurity. So no I wouldn't look or give out my password."
im not possessive or insecure, just seriously nosey thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been asked by a male friend to do re do his profIile because he wasn't having an luck."
copy n paste it 2 his inbox

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"No strings attached ! And going through someone elses account even if they give you their password smacks of possessiveness and insecurity. So no I wouldn't look or give out my password.im not possessive or insecure, just seriously nosey thanks x"

You forgot to add perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't, and I hate it done to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me your password and I'll let you know !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If someone you fancied and was going to meet on fab gave you his password would you check his account out without his knowledge and consent ?"

its the without his knowledge or consent bit that makes me say no. If someone left their diary at my house I woudl be tempted but I hope I would resist taking a look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol .. Stuboy ... Best answer by far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have given you the password isn't consent implicit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My password is FuzzyDuck

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"If someone you fancied and was going to meet on fab gave you his password would you check his account out without his knowledge and consent ?"

Good lord - no! In fact I would insist they kept their password secret and not let me know it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My password is FuzzyDuck

haha ... Oooh the temptation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

new dilemma .... After checking out his account ... Would u tell him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shall be honest...

HELL YES OF COURSE I WOULD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand why someone would give anyone else their password really. "

well exactly....if they're stoopid enough to do that then they'd have to deal with any mischievious consequences that may occur from idiotic actions

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

ok new dilemma if someone gave you their debit card and pin number would you clear their bank account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No strings attached ! And going through someone elses account even if they give you their password smacks of possessiveness and insecurity. So no I wouldn't look or give out my password.im not possessive or insecure, just seriously nosey thanks x

You forgot to add perve

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just a seriously nosey pervert, sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My password is FuzzyDuck

Juat had a nose and OMG I can't believe the messaged you send out Rusty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok new dilemma if someone gave you their debit card and pin number would you clear their bank account

No, but an obnoxious d*unk guy in a hotel bar gave me his hotel room key once and I emptied his mini bar, didn't take anything g just took everything out & put it on the side. It automatically billed to his bill!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My password is FuzzyDuck

Juat had a nose and OMG I can't believe the messaged you send out Rusty

its terrible isn't it and Lord only knows how he got THAT up THERE

I just know that I will NEVER look at the Waitrose deli counter in the same light.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"ok new dilemma if someone gave you their debit card and pin number would you clear their bank account

Yea but that's natural justice so its ok innit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My password is FuzzyDuck

Juat had a nose and OMG I can't believe the messaged you send out Rusty

lol ... Omg u didnt

haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ok new dilemma if someone gave you their debit card and pin number would you clear their bank account

Yea but that's natural justice so its ok innit

lololol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok ... We digress back to the original dilemma and dilemma no. 2

Dilemma 1

if someone you fancied and were going to meet off gave u their password would you without their knowledge and consent go thru their account ?

Dilemma 2.

Would you tell them after accessing their account that you had ...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

off fab*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok course I would log in to there account. Only to put embarsing status updates on though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok course I would log in to there account. Only to put embarsing status updates on though

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aka FRAB's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok ... We digress back to the original dilemma and dilemma no. 2

Dilemma 1

if someone you fancied and were going to meet off gave u their password would you without their knowledge and consent go thru their account ?

Dilemma 2.

Would you tell them after accessing their account that you had ...?"

Dilemma 1 ? Nope - not in a million years!

Therefore dilemma 2 is redundant!

Why would anyone be daft enough to give access to their profile to a total stranger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My password is FuzzyDuck

Juat had a nose and OMG I can't believe the messaged you send out Rusty

lol ... Omg u didnt

haha"

No of course not, but don't tell Rusty that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok new dilemma if someone gave you their debit card and pin number would you clear their bank account

OMG, I've always wanted to give my hotel room key to a stranger and then wait for him naked... Guess that fantasy is out of the window now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is qwerty or is it kwerty?..I forget.

Try em both.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"ok new dilemma if someone gave you their debit card and pin number would you clear their bank account

I have been in this situation as I used to manage my mum's finances when she was incapable. And no, of course I didn't. In fact, I did have one of her carers sacked for stealing from her. She hadn't noticed money was missing but since I had a close eye on things I spotted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!! Same as I would hate someone to check out mine x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"ok new dilemma if someone gave you their debit card and pin number would you clear their bank account

Exactly! If someone trusts you hopefully you respond by being trustworthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to and why would he give his password anyway...I dont get it?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone you fancied and was going to meet on fab gave you his password would you check his account out without his knowledge and consent ?"

Absolutely not.Im not a fucking bunnyboiler!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why would you want to and why would he give his password anyway...I dont get it?????"

I think it might be hypothetical but if not I was wondering exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way! I dont know why guys do this, checking each others phones and emails etc, It's not cool and just about always ends in tears, Always try to trust until it is clear that your trust has been broken, then walk away xxx

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

"ok ... We digress back to the original dilemma and dilemma no. 2

Dilemma 1

if someone you fancied and were going to meet off gave u their password would you without their knowledge and consent go thru their account ?

Dilemma 2.

Would you tell them after accessing their account that you had ...?

Dilemma 1 ? Nope - not in a million years!

Therefore dilemma 2 is redundant!

Why would anyone be daft enough to give access to their profile to a total stranger?

This

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Surely if they give you their password they would expect you to log on to it??? Otherwise why give you it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been asked by a male friend to do re do his profIile because he wasn't having an luck."

surely this makes his profile fake ?...The basis to a friendship / relationship for something as intimate as sex surely has to be built around an iota of trust ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hmmm ,,, depends if the information is about him .... Then no it doesnt ,some ppl just arent good at writing a profile.

Just like most biographies of famous ppl are done by someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hmmm ,,, depends if the information is about him .... Then no it doesnt ,some ppl just arent good at writing a profile.

Just like most biographies of famous ppl are done by someone else."

All biographies are done by someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to see on my profile.

My inbox is empty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah!! Serves him right for giving you his password!! Moron!!

Do it and send random messages to people. Ask them things like "you want your driveway done" or something!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't because I believe in discretion. It is not right to go into others' accounts and it is also unfair to have access to those that have messaged that person, maybe their private pics etc.

If anyone did give me their password here, and it's never happened or ever likely to), I would never meet them. I

wouldn't have any further contact with them because of the lack of discretion and respect afforded to others

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"been asked by a male friend to do re do his profIile because he wasn't having an luck.

surely this makes his profile fake ?...The basis to a friendship / relationship for something as intimate as sex surely has to be built around an iota of trust ?

I agree about the trust issue however loads of people get help writing their profile. I don't understand why she needs access to his account though when he could copy and paste an emailed document that really is helpless if he can't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't go snooping. We was talking to a single fem last year and met up for a social when she told us that her fb actually read our messages and had replied to some of them without her seeing them first. We were so angry at the lack of discretion as he had seen our private face pics but didn't have a clue who he was. We did tell her that and left straight away.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"If someone you fancied and was going to meet on fab gave you his password would you check his account out without his knowledge and consent ?"

If you fancy them and want to meet them any would you break their trust like that??

I've been entrusted with a couple of people's passwords for various reasons bit I would never ever consider something so deceitful

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Surely if they give you their password they would expect you to log on to it??? Otherwise why give you it?"

They would expect you to log on for the reason they gave it to you and nothing else.

I hope the person the OP is talking about is reading this and changes their password

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many responses here have said what is politically correct rather than what they would actually do?

People are naturally nosy so I suspect a number would look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he is looking for a joint account to me lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I wouldn't because I believe in discretion. It is not right to go into others' accounts and it is also unfair to have access to those that have messaged that person, maybe their private pics etc.

If anyone did give me their password here, and it's never happened or ever likely to), I would never meet them. I

wouldn't have any further contact with them because of the lack of discretion and respect afforded to others

Interesting !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I would -- Temptation - but Id also tell them after

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Absolument pas! Jamais...

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