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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury

Why oh Why can I not get a genuine bi female in my local area of Bury for lots of fun and friendship?

They are either timewasters or married and their hubbys don't know so they are paranoid about everything!!!

I am a genuine down to earth fun sexy girl.

I really didn't think it would be this hard. I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!

Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im genuine and bi c but nt in ur area sosxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try the club,partners.lots bi ladies go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"try the club,partners.lots bi ladies go there"

I need to get my arse to some of these clubs to meet these women xx

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"try the club,partners.lots bi ladies go there"

Thanks guys. I have been to partners with my boyfriend.

I was hoping to find the right girl on here.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Why not contact my girlfriend on her personal profile

simplymj

we live in Rochdale and meet separately.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Your not trying hard enough. I know some

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire


"I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!

Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!! "

Well from your profile that is exactly what you are doing? You say on your profile that your boyfriend will be present at the meet, so that for sure is going to put off any genuine bi females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried turning on your 'who is near' function?

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By *an and loganCouple
over a year ago

ROCHDALE


"Why not contact my girlfriend on her personal profile

simplymj

we live in Rochdale and meet separately.

"

Thanks I will try her

x

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By *an and loganCouple
over a year ago

ROCHDALE


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some "

For your info I have tried for at least four months

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By *an and loganCouple
over a year ago

ROCHDALE


"I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!

Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!!

Well from your profile that is exactly what you are doing? You say on your profile that your boyfriend will be present at the meet, so that for sure is going to put off any genuine bi females. "

I understand yes how that would look. I only put this in as a safety net for myself as I have had a few bad experiences. He only comes to first meet which is a social the rest of the time he wont be there

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months "

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused, is the OP also the couple who have posted?

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Confused, is the OP also the couple who have posted?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confused, is the OP also the couple who have posted?

Yes"

Perhaps one issue then is being honest and consistent as your age seems to have dropped

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Why oh Why can I not get a genuine bi female in my local area of Bury for lots of fun and friendship?

They are either timewasters or married and their hubbys don't know so they are paranoid about everything!!!

I am a genuine down to earth fun sexy girl.

I really didn't think it would be this hard. I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!

Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!! "

Two recent meet verifications with women would contradict you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also, get rid of the ALL CAPS rant on your profile it's not nice to see.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I tried chatting too some bi females in my area who have single profiles but further message's reviled that they wanted a.n.other female for them and their partners.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Confused, is the OP also the couple who have posted?

Yes

Perhaps one issue then is being honest and consistent as your age seems to have dropped "

Whoopsie

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "

Actually for you info again!! I have been on this site for six months and I know how it works!!

I have had loads of veris on one account which I deleted but they don't account for anything.

Well for a simple question I am getting ganged up against.

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"I tried chatting too some bi females in my area who have single profiles but further message's reviled that they wanted a.n.other female for them and their partners. "

Thankyou!! AMEN!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm looking for fun with another female I really wouldn't want a male present, if I'm meeting a couple then Ide expect to play with a couple, you've stated how it would be but it just wouldn't suit everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

Actually for you info again!! I have been on this site for six months and I know how it works!!

I have had loads of veris on one account which I deleted but they don't account for anything.

Well for a simple question I am getting ganged up against."

At the end of the day no one is ganging up against you, you have to realise though that the discrepancies across your profile so not show you in a positive light and being dishonest will not improve your chances of meeting as if I had saw you were being dishonest I would wonder what else you have to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried chatting too some bi females in my area who have single profiles but further message's reviled that they wanted a.n.other female for them and their partners. "

Ive found this too. Starts off wanting 1-1 then 3sum gets mentioned and can the boyfriend watch etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's an assumption on here that women are inundated with countless messages and offers etc. That wasn't ever my experience when I had a single profile.

If you're a single looking for men and actively seeking etc. then perhaps. But as with comments above I found most ladies profiles turned out to be seeking fun with their partner rather than alone (and very often were actually men running that profile too I thought).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only actually have one fem blocked on fab....

I wont go into detail but as others have said more honesty and less defensive

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"There's an assumption on here that women are inundated with countless messages and offers etc. That wasn't ever my experience when I had a single profile.

If you're a single looking for men and actively seeking etc. then perhaps. But as with comments above I found most ladies profiles turned out to be seeking fun with their partner rather than alone (and very often were actually men running that profile too I thought)."

Yes I find this aswell and I think that is the big problem.

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

Actually for you info again!! I have been on this site for six months and I know how it works!!

I have had loads of veris on one account which I deleted but they don't account for anything.

Well for a simple question I am getting ganged up against.

At the end of the day no one is ganging up against you, you have to realise though that the discrepancies across your profile so not show you in a positive light and being dishonest will not improve your chances of meeting as if I had saw you were being dishonest I would wonder what else you have to hide."

Well you tell me where on my profile I am being dishonest? Where are the discrepencies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not getting ganged up against.

Questions like these normally go up shits creek with no paddle.

The best advice you got was the guy who you tore into.

Basically get some dialogue going.

But to be honest, if you come across in messages in the same way as you do here, people can kind of sense that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of us have fb or partners hiding under the bed or in the wardrobe.

Some of us are genuinely single, bi and honest

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag. "

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all of us have fb or partners hiding under the bed or in the wardrobe.

Some of us are genuinely single, bi and honest "

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out."

But what about the Two recent ones you HAVE met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out."

5 on show and hundreds hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

5 on show and hundreds hidden "

lol.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Get rid of the shouty caps on your profile and be honest about what you want.....are you meeting fems on your own or with your partner? It's all a bit confusing!

Having had single fem profiles in the past the key is to be patient and take time getting to know people. Join in with the forums/chat, go to socials, clubs....the list of ways to find fellow bi fems is endless. Happy swinging

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out.

5 on show and hundreds hidden "

Ha ha the man whore he is

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

The worst part about forming dialogues I have done it before and one lasted two weeks before I found out it was a male! Another bottled out cos she was scared her hubby would find out.

But what about the Two recent ones you HAVE met?"

One of them is now my best friend who I still see but she lives too far away and the other one moved area due to her stalker ex boyfriend. I am looking in my local area. Maybe I need to widen my search area?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not THAT elusive

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"They're not THAT elusive "

You live in the north west?

I don't think so!

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By *exy Logan OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Get rid of the shouty caps on your profile and be honest about what you want.....are you meeting fems on your own or with your partner? It's all a bit confusing!

Having had single fem profiles in the past the key is to be patient and take time getting to know people. Join in with the forums/chat, go to socials, clubs....the list of ways to find fellow bi fems is endless. Happy swinging

Mrs Dirty "

I have made some changes. Would you check and see if it is better now then all them people ganging up on me will back off.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!"

Note to self. Must try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very much a Bi girl, but i wont meet another Bi lady unless there is a man attached. Lady's can kiss some guys can't (sorry) but that is how it is.

I love cock, so if i have another lady Mmmmmmmmmm nice, i need to be finished off by a man ....

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Why oh Why can I not get a genuine bi female in my local area of Bury for lots of fun and friendship?

They are either timewasters or married and their hubbys don't know so they are paranoid about everything!!!

I am a genuine down to earth fun sexy girl.

I really didn't think it would be this hard. I think it will be easier to meet a girl out of the couples!!!

Arrrrgggghhhh!!!!!!!!! "

Drop us a mail . We may just have a solution and a local one at that !;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder "

Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder

Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast "

And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's all this about then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder

Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast

And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies "

Ooh I had cookies

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder

Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast

And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies

Ooh I had cookies"

I never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could have wrote this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder

Damn right you should, I'm still waiting for my breakfast

And I'm still waiting for coffee and cookies

Ooh I had cookies

I never "

They were well hidden , should have looked harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder "

Yes and im still waiting on raspberry ripple

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder

Yes and im still waiting on raspberry ripple "

Another thing I didn't get haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not trying hard enough. I know some

For your info I have tried for at least four months

Ok have the same advice as all the single males get. On your singles profile you have been here only a few months with a selection of veris. Stop ranting and form some dialogue with people. It's not instashag.

You cant talk about verifications!!!

You have 5 and you have been on here over a year!!!!!

Note to self. Must try harder

Yes and im still waiting on raspberry ripple

Another thing I didn't get haha"

Awww bless...must try harder

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