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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once saw a tv programme where a woman let her family and friends pick a date for her, in the same vein as an arranged marriage.

Her friends and family looked for guys that they thought would be a good match for her. She then got to choose which ones to go on a date with, with a view to eventually possibly marriage.

Would you let your family/ friends do something similar for you?!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh god no....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god no.... "

Well no

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Possibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends which friends

Maybe ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why not....I mean after all it's her decision who she decides to date and marry.

Plus letting friends and family choose isn't so bad....surely they know her better than anyone else right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see why not....I mean after all it's her decision who she decides to date and marry.

Plus letting friends and family choose isn't so bad....surely they know her better than anyone else right? "

That was the interesting thing, they chose guys that she said she wouldn't normally have gone for. But they got on really well and it made her more open to meeting different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I was single,its only a date after all no commitment and id like to see who they chose and why

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lol, you didn't see the guy my son tried to fix me up with once

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The thing is your family and friends will have your best interests at heart and will find out a lot more about someone than you ever could it can and does work very well....mind you it can also be disastrous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not ! No frigging way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol, you didn't see the guy my son tried to fix me up with once"

Was it Ryan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our friends and family know us better than we know ourselves, so yes of course I would, it spices things up, and someone I wouldn't pick, may be the one for me.I mean, im kind, considerate, strong,

Everyone else thinks im stubborn, bossy, daft as a brush, and very blonde.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Once saw a tv programme where a woman let her family and friends pick a date for her, in the same vein as an arranged marriage.

Her friends and family looked for guys that they thought would be a good match for her. She then got to choose which ones to go on a date with, with a view to eventually possibly marriage.

Would you let your family/ friends do something similar for you?!"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys would do anything for a meet, does she fuck on a first date?

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

My sisters do it all the time, sure they are walking up to complete strangers and asking now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

def not...... once worked with a guy and he lined up three guys for his daughter and he said she has to chose from one of them and she did too.....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether I let them or not my friends try! Or to be more precise my friends' wives and girlfriends try and palm me off onto their single friends. My mum tries as well , so far she has tried to arrange dates forme with her hairdresser, her pilates instructor and the assistant from the funeral partner organising my Gran's funeral!

I wouldn't trust anyone to make those choices for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mm The assistant from funeral parlour sounds ideal, used to handling stiffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a guy where I used to work.....booked a holiday back home to Bangladesh to visit with family and to check up on a house build that his uncle was overseeing for him......booked a month off....

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When he returned he had been married off by his family.....said he had no idea about any of it. He was pretty pragmatic about it all but seemed, still seems, bizarre to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't knowing my mother, I would end up with some piss head as she keeps telling me this friend of hers is single and tries to get me to chat to him, never hear the end of it if we did get on etc etc crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"had a guy where I used to work.....booked a holiday back home to Bangladesh to visit with family and to check up on a house build that his uncle was overseeing for him......booked a month off....

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When he returned he had been married off by his family.....said he had no idea about any of it. He was pretty pragmatic about it all but seemed, still seems, bizarre to me"

Daughters are treated the same but it is their culture and expected of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"had a guy where I used to work.....booked a holiday back home to Bangladesh to visit with family and to check up on a house build that his uncle was overseeing for him......booked a month off....

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When he returned he had been married off by his family.....said he had no idea about any of it. He was pretty pragmatic about it all but seemed, still seems, bizarre to me

Daughters are treated the same but it is their culture and expected of them"

It's good if it's consensual. Not good if it's against someone's will.

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