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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was wondering how many messages a typical women gets on here (say per day). That's when they don't make the first move?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly any, however, I am atypical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if typical but generally between two and five,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hardly any, however, I am atypical. "

You have an obstacle course of filters for them to hop over first Pearl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A small amount ... Filters keep the undesirables at bay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh now it depends

Some will say ' hundreds '

I get probably 20 a day from people I don't know and quite a few off people in my friends list

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

None.....

Filters are a great thing

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Before I put the filters on I'd get about 4 or 5, mostly from people on my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the ladies I frequently chat to on here features in the top five of the most fabbed pics constantly, the only way I was fortunate enough to get chatting to her was because she took her single male filter JUST long enough for me to contact her, we hit it off, and we've enjoyed chatting ever since.

Obviously particularly good looking women are going to be inundated with messages constantly, hence why some will use filters to give themselves some breathing room, but its nice to see that not all of them are arrogant through so much male attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say on average about 4 or 5. Filters are a wonderful invention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A small amount ... Filters keep the undesirables at bay "

Same here, just a shame that doesn't include the idiots too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up to 13msgs.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

find it varies massively, from none to 30!

Seems to vary depending on how much we've been 'online' or in the forums.

Always nice to receive a message and we try and reply even if it's a polite decline.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I woke up to 13msgs. "

Ah, the weekend members. How many were 'user no longer on site'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block single gents in general as I only meet single gents for fun.

However, currently I am not looking to meet and am not searchable.

Hence hardly any messages, which is how I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your new you get bombarded by anyone and everyone lol but after a while it does down I tend to get around 10 a day from people I don't know the test are usually from existing friends. And don't be put of by some women that make the frat move yes a lot can be time wasters or the men pretending to be women for kicks but some ladies do prefer to search for themselves

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

When my profile is visible on average two a day, now about three a week.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I dont have filters on and I dont think I get as many as some. If I go in the chatroom I get inundated and it depends on what time of day it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because I wanted a couples meet today. Most messages where from men :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woke up to 13msgs. "

Fancy waking up to the 1 then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my filters set to block a lot, I get probably 5 to 10 new messages a day, I do tend to reply to every message I get too.

I think this "women getting hundreds of messages a day" is an urban legend, I got a lot more when I 1st jumped the site, but it soon evened off to no more the 30 a day (that's when I was meeting and had meet today's up).

Then again I'm probably not classed as one of the good looking women as another poster said , they get more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get a few sometimes one or two, depends if i have put more pictures on my profile or am advertising for a meet.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It depends sometimes none sometimes loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on many factors

If you're in chat you'll get more

New pics means more

No filters means more

Up for anything with anyone means more

The time you're online

What you have as your status

I have filters on I get on average up to 10 a day,varies but this morning ive had a few already,mostly really nice compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all less than I had imagined, and to be fair I have in the past thought I won't message her it will get lost in the inbox so great thread

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"One of the ladies I frequently chat to on here features in the top five of the most fabbed pics constantly, the only way I was fortunate enough to get chatting to her was because she took her single male filter JUST long enough for me to contact her, we hit it off, and we've enjoyed chatting ever since.

Obviously particularly good looking women are going to be inundated with messages constantly, hence why some will use filters to give themselves some breathing room, but its nice to see that not all of them are arrogant through so much male attention."

When visible I have a lot of filters set, also seeking men over 50 within only three boroughs of south London.

It takes so much more than meaningless platitudes from horny strangers to massage my ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have filters on I get on average up to 10 a day,varies but this morning ive had a few already,mostly really nice compliments "

I can't always help myself, you've a hot figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes so much more than meaningless platitudes from horny strangers to massage my ego. "

Indeed, compliments are of less importance than the people paying them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we average between 20 to 35 a day

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"It depends on many factors

If you're in chat you'll get more

New pics means more

No filters means more

Up for anything with anyone means more

The time you're online

What you have as your status

I have filters on I get on average up to 10 a day,varies but this morning ive had a few already,mostly really nice compliments "

Sums it up nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what I've posted in forums

If I've added new pics ( goes mad then )

What friends are online

If the ones I've said no to decide they want the back and forth messages telling them why etc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have filters on I get on average up to 10 a day,varies but this morning ive had a few already,mostly really nice compliments

I can't always help myself, you've a hot figure!"

Control yourself man!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I was wondering how many messages a typical women gets on here (say per day). That's when they don't make the first move?"

I'm not a single woman but how many messages we get varies.

At the moment with filters on and not ticking the looking for single men box probably get 2-5 messages a week. (from those we don't know already)

When we tick the looking for single male box then we can get 10-20+ messages a day.

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner

I'm still new so I get quiet a few say 80 a day last week deleted 900 plus unread ones as it is at minute I got474 I must sort my filters then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well don't be to hastie Shecat007. Let me message you before you change anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too many... Lots look at me....

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By *hecat007Woman
over a year ago

Round the corner


"Well don't be to hastie Shecat007. Let me message you before you change anything!"
...I hate deleting any I just can't get ontop of em all plus been nice chatting to people while I've been laid up at home bored just don't like it though when people have no photos but they want to chat never reply to them ...you can message me when your bot busy chatting to others

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

2 this morning from folk I already know, maybe half a dozen max from numpties who haven't read my profile some days. Even when I took my filters off for something i was doing on the forum I didn't get loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well don't be to hastie Shecat007. Let me message you before you change anything!"

This guy has class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 from randoms. And a few from people I speak to off the forums.

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