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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you met someone a couple of times in hotels... then you find out they ask people back to their place... but they never asked you back there.... What would you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they didn't want the neighbours seeing lots of different people

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

I'd check my personal hygiene...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd check my personal hygiene...

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick

"I'd check my personal hygiene...

Hopefully this doesn't apertain to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their house is a tip and they think I have OCD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who paid for the hotel.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"If you met someone a couple of times in hotels... then you find out they ask people back to their place... but they never asked you back there.... What would you think?

They dont want to be seen in public with those invited back to house??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide think I was far to vocal

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It depends. I'd rather meet at their hotel than their home anyway.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Good question, SH...not something that's ever crossed my mind, dunno if it's happened or not to me...think it might be that they are happy to keep those they invite in the cellar, so you've probably had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe that they can not always accommodate at their place !! Or that they did not trust me !! Depends on the person !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares if you're all having a good time and if it bothers you that much just ask them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe that they can not always accommodate at their place !! Or that they did not trust me !! Depends on the person !! "

Yes sounds they do not trust you

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It applies to me. I only have a few of people I meet at home, from the early days when I was part of a couple and I don't see them that often. Everyone else is seen at a club or hotel and, in one case, his home. Maybe there are men wondering why and I hadn't thought of it before.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"If you met someone a couple of times in hotels... then you find out they ask people back to their place... but they never asked you back there.... What would you think?

Why would you care,your going for a shag,not marriage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good question, SH...not something that's ever crossed my mind, dunno if it's happened or not to me...think it might be that they are happy to keep those they invite in the cellar, so you've probably had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only accomodate rarely due to kids and if they go out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be seriously pissed off and would want to know why and if I didn't get a good answer, I would be waving him good bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask them to pay the next hotel bill!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I would ask them to pay the next hotel bill!"

Why?

If I had someone back to my place and they refused to see me at theirs that is a different issue. If we've only met at hotels but he sees other people at his place that's his business. Just as it's mine on the few people I see at my place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd much rather meet at a hotel - saves all the effort to make the place half decent, and the tidying up after!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd much rather meet at a hotel - saves all the effort to make the place half decent, and the tidying up after!

I only ever meet in hotels!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd much rather meet at a hotel - saves all the effort to make the place half decent, and the tidying up after!

I agree! As I work from home when I have a lot of separate jobs on there are piles of paper everywhere with all the research materials for each job. Getting away to a nice hotel for some sex is like a holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd much rather meet at a hotel - saves all the effort to make the place half decent, and the tidying up after!

I only ever meet in hotels!

True, and lets face it, your home is your private retreat. You can up and leave a hotel if you feel uncomfortable for whatever reason, but a bit awkward in your own house?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'd much rather meet at a hotel - saves all the effort to make the place half decent, and the tidying up after!

I only ever meet in hotels!

True, and lets face it, your home is your private retreat. You can up and leave a hotel if you feel uncomfortable for whatever reason, but a bit awkward in your own house?"

It was one such meet and a stalker that made me decide not to meet at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather do a club or hotel, less hassle with cleaning etc...... Makes it more of a break from reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be demanding to come round for Christmas dinner or I'd refuse to give them anymore penis

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels are great cos you can mess the fucking room up in rampant sex and leave!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Hotels are great cos you can mess the fucking room up in rampant sex and leave!

Ben I can't imagine you having rampant sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are great cos you can mess the fucking room up in rampant sex and leave!

Ben I can't imagine you having rampant sex lol "

You cheeky fuck!

I bust a headboard once!

And I also have a four poster bed with a funny whobble!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Hotels are great cos you can mess the fucking room up in rampant sex and leave!

Ben I can't imagine you having rampant sex lol

You cheeky fuck!

I bust a headboard once!

And I also have a four poster bed with a funny whobble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I'd be seriously pissed off and would want to know why and if I didn't get a good answer, I would be waving him good bye

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

Especially if it is well hung?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

I'll give you bloody mature mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With people I know I am happy for them to come into my home and ill cook dinner...however I also like to go to different places and I do like hotels

Where was my dinner?!

I said I would cook you dinner on that Saturday before the foam party

Yay!!

What's for dinner mum?

Whatever you fancy

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

Especially if it is well hung? "

I wouldn't complain . . .

Well - not in a bad way!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

I'll give you bloody mature mrs"

You are almost twice her age... Would you prefer she called you old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll give you bloody mature mrs"

FINALLY!!

Ffs - take your time!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

I'll give you bloody mature mrs

You are almost twice her age... Would you prefer she called you old?"

You missed it. She posted that yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

I'll give you bloody mature mrs

You are almost twice her age... Would you prefer she called you old?"

Mature women with younger men - Cougars.

Old men with young women - Grateful.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

I'll give you bloody mature mrs

You are almost twice her age... Would you prefer she called you old?

You missed it. She posted that yesterday. "

I don't keep up with all the Ryan related comments as well as you do. I'd have to spend even more time on here than I do already.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Mature women with younger men - Cougars.

Old men with young women - Grateful.

Rich and/or famous for the last one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

I'll give you bloody mature mrs

You are almost twice her age... Would you prefer she called you old?

You missed it. She posted that yesterday. "

Me?!

Would i do such a thing

i'm still waiting on him to 'give me mature'!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If you met someone a couple of times in hotels... then you find out they ask people back to their place... but they never asked you back there.... What would you think?

Depends on the hotel. Most single men tend to live in what I would charitably call 'bachelor chic', whereas a nice hotel is a luxury. However a cheapo night in an Etap or Travelodge would not make me desperate to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" However a cheapo night in an Etap or Travelodge would not make me desperate to meet again."

I don't do cheap hotels.

I like Hiltons or Jurys inn.

The headboards at Jury's Inn take more pounding I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ryan?!

Now there's a 'roast' worth the trip

Roast Ryan? As long as there are no green bits he should be fine.

i do like the taste of 'mature' meat

I'll give you bloody mature mrs

You are almost twice her age... Would you prefer she called you old?

Mature women with younger men - Cougars.

Old men with young women - Grateful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" However a cheapo night in an Etap or Travelodge would not make me desperate to meet again.

I don't do cheap hotels.

I like Hiltons or Jurys inn.

The headboards at Jury's Inn take more pounding I've found.

I'm super cheap. I love Travelodge.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you met someone a couple of times in hotels... then you find out they ask people back to their place... but they never asked you back there.... What would you think?

They didn't trust you or didn't want the neighbours seeing what they dragged in!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'd much rather meet at a hotel - saves all the effort to make the place half decent, and the tidying up after!

I only ever meet in hotels!

True, and lets face it, your home is your private retreat. You can up and leave a hotel if you feel uncomfortable for whatever reason, but a bit awkward in your own house?

It was one such meet and a stalker that made me decide not to meet at home."

People we meet on our travels do make us adjust. 99.9% of my meets are at my home so whether someone accommodated or not was never an issue until I said to one playmate (whilst in my bed) our next meet would be at his as my daughter would be home from uni. His response: I don't let people I've met via the net into my home, it's not a knocking shop!

After I chucked him out of my house I've never met anyone who doesn't accommodate as I assume they think their home is sacrosanct!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you met someone a couple of times in hotels... then you find out they ask people back to their place... but they never asked you back there.... What would you think?

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Maybe they just like a change of scenery every now and then or they thought you were special and deserved a nice hotel room

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

" However a cheapo night in an Etap or Travelodge would not make me desperate to meet again.

I don't do cheap hotels.

I like Hiltons or Jurys inn.

The headboards at Jury's Inn take more pounding I've found.

Now you tell me!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

" However a cheapo night in an Etap or Travelodge would not make me desperate to meet again.

I don't do cheap hotels.

I like Hiltons or Jurys inn.

The headboards at Jury's Inn take more pounding I've found.but jury in don't like more than three people in a room well the one at Birmingham doesnt

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

" However a cheapo night in an Etap or Travelodge would not make me desperate to meet again.

I don't do cheap hotels.

I like Hiltons or Jurys inn.

The headboards at Jury's Inn take more pounding I've found.but jury in don't like more than three people in a room well the one at Birmingham doesnt

The one near me doesn't bat an eye at the the numbers going up to party.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

" However a cheapo night in an Etap or Travelodge would not make me desperate to meet again.

I don't do cheap hotels.

I like Hiltons or Jurys inn.

The headboards at Jury's Inn take more pounding I've found.but jury in don't like more than three people in a room well the one at Birmingham doesnt

The one near me doesn't bat an eye at the the numbers going up to party."
I had a knock on my door saying no one (male)could come in until one left lol

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